mens opinions needed....

whitneyps7
whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
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ok so what do yall men find most attractive about a woman....i want looks AND chararistics (yes i know i spelled it wrong). just curious cause im single and maybe looking to date but idk what guys in genreal find most attractive about women now a days lol.
im specifically asking mens opionions cause thats what im looking to date/attracted to. not to single out any bi sexuals, lesbians, gays,transgenders, cross dressers. whatever u may be.
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  • sissiluv
    sissiluv Posts: 2,205 Member
    Not JUST men are sexually attracted to women.
  • irjeffb
    irjeffb Posts: 275 Member
    Just be honest about who you are and let the right guy find you.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Intelligence, humor, self-reliance
    Smile, eyes
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Not JUST men are sexually attracted to women.

    Or women to men.
  • DP325i
    DP325i Posts: 677 Member
    Not JUST men are sexually attracted to women.

    I'm pretty sure that's what shes looking for....

    Anyway, for me, a good attitude is always a must, now on the "shallow" end, here's my 2 cents....
    BOYS are attracted to the skimpy dress...
    MEN are into a woman that shows self respect. =]
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    This thread again?


    Ask 1000 different men, you will get 1000 different answers.
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    Not JUST men are sexually attracted to women.

    Or women to men.

    ya i get it. thats the opinions i wanted though. i have plenty of lesbian friends to ask. however i dnt have male friends that id ask this so that why im here.
  • tnt008
    tnt008 Posts: 1,370 Member
    I like a woman who I can have an intellectual conversation with. Science, history, politics. I find that attractive. And a sense of humor
  • SlickFootAnna
    SlickFootAnna Posts: 611 Member
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  • SlickFootAnna
    SlickFootAnna Posts: 611 Member
    I like a woman who I can have an intellectual conversation with. Science, history, politics. I find that attractive. And a sense of humor

    Hi, where do you live sir?
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    Not JUST men are sexually attracted to women.

    I'm pretty sure that's what shes looking for....

    Anyway, for me, a good attitude is always a must, now on the "shallow" end, here's my 2 cents....
    BOYS are attracted to the skimpy dress...
    MEN are into a woman that shows self respect. =]

    thanks. hmm good answer so dnt dress like a hoochie? lol i dont anyways but good to know :)
  • sissiluv
    sissiluv Posts: 2,205 Member
    Not JUST men are sexually attracted to women.

    Or women to men.
    Or men to women. : P

    And then there's the trans* gender spectrum as well where ze could also be attracted to cisgendered women as well, even if they identify as neither male OR female.
  • sillygoosie
    sillygoosie Posts: 1,109 Member
    Be yourself. If they don't like it, they're not the one for you.
  • MightyDomo
    MightyDomo Posts: 1,265 Member
    I think it is a balance of a number of things. Having great confidence and self-esteem are usually attractive to anyone, taking care of yourself and being self-reliant but letting someone else take care of you sometimes. Also being active in activites that you enjoy you are likely to attract someone of similar likes (which similar likes are a good thing but also have many things that you don't share likes on is good as well, gives that 'space' from eachother when doing your own separate likes)

    Being happy is also very attractive, if you are smiling and laughing and looking like you are having a good time it really brightens you up and can make you seem very attractive.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    ok so what do yall men find most attractive about a woman....i want looks AND chararistics (yes i know i spelled it wrong). just curious cause im single and maybe looking to date but idk what guys in genreal find most attractive about women now a days lol.

    A strong, deadlift, squat and bench all with good form. If the form is bad that's a turn off. Lookswise a face is necessary and they have to able to cook bacon just the right level of crispyness.
  • LetsMakeupXtina
    LetsMakeupXtina Posts: 627 Member
    Not JUST men are sexually attracted to women.

    this.
  • gym_king_carlie
    gym_king_carlie Posts: 528 Member
    Me personally, I like the lioness in the room, what I mean by that is a woman who is confident but also herself without having to put on a show for everyone.Humor is always important to me.
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    Be yourself. If they don't like it, they're not the one for you.

    i know but thats the ing i think i scare them with my confidence and how open spoken i am. i guess im intimidating?
  • Windy_
    Windy_ Posts: 1,012 Member
    I like a woman who I can have an intellectual conversation with. Science, history, politics. I find that attractive. And a sense of humor

    Hi, where do you live sir?

    Did you call dibs?
  • wrotruck
    wrotruck Posts: 72 Member
    Intelligent and articulate with amazing eyes.
  • MightyDomo
    MightyDomo Posts: 1,265 Member
    ok so what do yall men find most attractive about a woman....i want looks AND chararistics (yes i know i spelled it wrong). just curious cause im single and maybe looking to date but idk what guys in genreal find most attractive about women now a days lol.

    A strong, deadlift, squat and bench all with good form. If the form is bad that's a turn off. Lookswise a face is necessary and they have to able to cook bacon just the right level of crispyness.

    I very much enjoyed your post :)
  • fairbanksk
    fairbanksk Posts: 52 Member
    From your looks you are a very attractive woman, I dont know you so I cant judge your personality which is an important thing that I look for in a woman. If you have the right personality and your looks you should go very far and be any man's dream woman. I wish you the best of luck in your search.
  • sillygoosie
    sillygoosie Posts: 1,109 Member
    Be yourself. If they don't like it, they're not the one for you.

    i know but thats the ing i think i scare them with my confidence and how open spoken i am. i guess im intimidating?

    So you're willing to change your personality to attract a man? I'd rather be forever alone.
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    I have found that most men appreciate a woman with functioning sex organs and a decent level of hygiene.
  • DP325i
    DP325i Posts: 677 Member
    Not JUST men are sexually attracted to women.

    I'm pretty sure that's what shes looking for....

    Anyway, for me, a good attitude is always a must, now on the "shallow" end, here's my 2 cents....
    BOYS are attracted to the skimpy dress...
    MEN are into a woman that shows self respect. =]

    thanks. hmm good answer so dnt dress like a hoochie? lol i dont anyways but good to know :)

    Lol I wasn't acusing you of it. =] Just responding with my personal prefrence. Just be yourself, I'm sure you wont have a problem. =]
  • olDave
    olDave Posts: 557 Member
    Kindness.
  • NotRailMeat
    NotRailMeat Posts: 509 Member
    Be yourself. If they don't like it, they're not the one for you.
    i know but thats the ing i think i scare them with my confidence and how open spoken i am. i guess im intimidating?
    That's the point. You can't change yourself for anybody. They either accept you as you are (faults and all) or they're not the right one for you.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    great smile, beautiful face, clean and manicured, intelligent, sense of humor, kind and considerate.
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    Be yourself. If they don't like it, they're not the one for you.

    i know but thats the ing i think i scare them with my confidence and how open spoken i am. i guess im intimidating?

    So you're willing to change your personality to attract a man? I'd rather be forever alone.

    um no never said i would change, im saying i think for the average man im too confident and out spoken. im not going to change that or anything else i say or do or enjoy ect. im trying to figure out what guys like in general to see if its me thats weird for standards or if i just havnt ran into the right person yet.
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    Breasts.

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