Date him or not - help please??

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  • yelliezx
    yelliezx Posts: 633 Member
    Go out with him! :D
  • Mermex84
    Mermex84 Posts: 7
    I met my man through work. We would just chit chat and then we decided to go out on a date. Fast forward a bit and now we live together and he is the love of my life. Go for it!
  • cynthiaj777
    cynthiaj777 Posts: 787 Member
    I have to ask, what does "taking the Mickey out" mean?

    Non American phrase. My English family uses it.

    And I say go for it as long as it isn't against company rules. I could see a potential conflict of interest there since he is one of your vendors. If you are in position to influence what vendors your company uses....specifically if they have to bid on contracts, as law dictates, I would be super careful. It could cost you your job.

    (P.S. I work for the government so this is drilled into us. HIGHLY UNETHICAL!)
  • Diary_Queen
    Diary_Queen Posts: 1,314 Member
    Well, I can honestly say that if I was in the same position, I wouldn't be able to accept. My work place has a policy against dating other employees or sales reps or vendors... basically, anyone connected with my work place in any way. I accidentally accepted a date with someone who worked for a fencing company. Little did I know, his company installed a fence at one of our properties and I got my warning then. Just curious if the OP checked company policies. Most places aren't as strict as my work place, but I know better than to do that again.
  • michelleLynette
    michelleLynette Posts: 289 Member
    Nothing to it , But to do it!
  • jlapey
    jlapey Posts: 1,850 Member
    It's a date, not a marriage proposal. Who knows? You might actually have fun. What have you got to lose? nothing. And if it is a joke, which I seriously doubt, then at least you'll know not to waste any more of your time. Don't over think it, just go and enjoy.
  • athenaheim
    athenaheim Posts: 496 Member
    I say go for it. Why not? You deserve to have one night (at least) to have fun. Go out and have fun see where the date takes you. Good luck.
  • Jerrypeoples
    Jerrypeoples Posts: 1,541 Member
    if rhianna and chris brown can go back to dating whats the worst that can happen here?
  • eatcleanNtraindirty
    eatcleanNtraindirty Posts: 444 Member
    F*** his brains out
  • BrittKnee_Rae
    BrittKnee_Rae Posts: 111 Member
    Is there a company policy saying you cant? bc that's the only issue I see.. WAIT, unless hes married or your married?
    If the answer to all those questions is NO, then its a no brainer.. GO FOR IT! :) Let yourself have some fun!

    Us women tend to worry wayyy to much and think too far into things!
    Yall obviously have chemistry, go enjoy yourself ma'am!!!
  • cheexy85
    cheexy85 Posts: 119
    Okay OP, it is past vals day now, please let us know what happened :wink:
  • sho3girl
    sho3girl Posts: 10,799 Member
    Okay OP, it is past vals day now, please let us know what happened :wink:

    ^^^ this i wanna know too
  • MandyMcAwesome
    MandyMcAwesome Posts: 109 Member
    Please tell me you havent responded to this because he wisked you away to the tropics and you havent been out of the bed since the 14th.
  • Jerrypeoples
    Jerrypeoples Posts: 1,541 Member
    Please tell me you havent responded to this because he wisked you away to the tropics and you havent been out of the bed since the 14th.

    i was thinking she hasnt responded yet because she's been taken to a meat locker somewhere on the north side of chicago never to be heard from again, but your theory may be right also
  • RekindledRose
    RekindledRose Posts: 523 Member
    Hey OP, you technically asked him out first! So I hope you went.

    Now tell us; how did it go?
  • Macgeek74
    Macgeek74 Posts: 298 Member
    You are overthinking, just do it and see where it leads. You already have the friends thing going.
  • SteveJWatson
    SteveJWatson Posts: 1,225 Member
    All the po faced 'workplace' replies remind me why I am self-employed.

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