Older guys...

literatelier
literatelier Posts: 209 Member
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So there's this guy at work that I'm really into. My roommate recently met him at a work function, and commented that she thinks it's reciprocal. I have no idea - I can never tell when a guy is flirting with me. I would normally just ask him if he wants to hang out, except in this case he is about fifteen years older than me, and I've no idea what's appropriate in this situation. Is that too big a gap? Will he just think I'm a stupid child? We were hanging out tonight at a function, and after a couple drinks he got a little touchy...but does that mean he likes me? I'm hopeless!

I'm 28 and he is 42. So guys, what would you think if a 28 year old hit on you?
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  • Cognito1025
    Cognito1025 Posts: 323 Member
    I don't see any issue with that age difference. If he was getting touchy feely with you he's into you. Go get some!
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I would think she is going to love what 48 years of experience and learning will bring. :smokin:
  • BurtHuttz
    BurtHuttz Posts: 3,653 Member
    I was done after the first sentence. The age thing is completely immaterial. The work thing is what you really, really need to think about.
  • mattagascar
    mattagascar Posts: 708 Member
    Age makes no difference
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    would bang
  • MidwestAngel
    MidwestAngel Posts: 1,897 Member
    Age makes no difference
    ONS x365x60
  • mattagascar
    mattagascar Posts: 708 Member
    Age makes no difference
    ONS x365x60

    How bout 30-40? I don't got 60 left in me
  • PhotogNerd
    PhotogNerd Posts: 420 Member
    Oooh those 40+ men....love 'em.
  • Cognito1025
    Cognito1025 Posts: 323 Member
    Age makes no difference

    That's what I kept telling the judge, now I have to register with the police every time I move to a new house. :noway:
  • Jenrosa28
    Jenrosa28 Posts: 732 Member
    Age ain't nothing but a number!! :)
  • MidwestAngel
    MidwestAngel Posts: 1,897 Member
    Age makes no difference
    ONS x365x60

    How bout 30-40? I don't got 60 left in me
    50-viagra
  • mattagascar
    mattagascar Posts: 708 Member
    Age makes no difference
    ONS x365x60

    How bout 30-40? I don't got 60 left in me
    50-viagra

    Deal
  • mattagascar
    mattagascar Posts: 708 Member
    Age makes no difference

    That's what I kept telling the judge, now I have to register with the police every time I move to a new house. :noway:

    Dude Chris Hansen busted you didn't he? HAHAA
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
    Dont kid urself....age always matters....doesnt mean it cant work but it matters and 42 IS old.

    Note, im.42 lol...jokes on me.
  • AllTehBeers
    AllTehBeers Posts: 5,030 Member
    I was done after the first sentence. The age thing is completely immaterial. The work thing is what you really, really need to think about.

    Me too. HR might not like that and who would survive a cut in the end?
  • robert_gonzalez
    robert_gonzalez Posts: 11 Member
    Age only matters if the maturity levels of the two involved aren't compatible. I'm 38 and I know a girl that is 23. She and I are a lot alike in many ways and we get along very, very well. :) She attracts older men (I suspect because she is a very mature 23 year old) but she has attracted a lot of 40ish year old men that act like they are 14. So if you two are compatible, have things in common, can carry on a conversation, can hang out while enjoying each other's company... seems to me that things could work out between you.

    And drinks or not, if dude is getting touchy feely with you, he's into you. Plain and simple. I'd say go for it.
  • TheLuSir
    TheLuSir Posts: 1,674 Member
    My friend (27) married a guy (45), so I hear all the concerns. Mostly, he's done everything she still wants to do or try, but he can't anymore (injuries, etc).
  • foxro
    foxro Posts: 793 Member
    Ahhhh - like her Dad :laugh:
  • Cognito1025
    Cognito1025 Posts: 323 Member
    Age makes no difference

    That's what I kept telling the judge, now I have to register with the police every time I move to a new house. :noway:

    Dude Chris Hansen busted you didn't he? HAHAA

    Did you see that episode? I knew I shouldn't have gone to Supercuts.
  • DeterminedAshley
    DeterminedAshley Posts: 297 Member
    I've always dated older guys :) It's all about the maturity level.
  • BuffyEat2Live
    BuffyEat2Live Posts: 327 Member
    I'm 28 and my boyfriend is 44. No regrets. When it's right, it's right

    When we started dating, we were 23 and 39. .:heart:
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,416 Member
    I would have to think really hard before I dated anyone I worked with......again. :tongue:
  • Admiral_Derp
    Admiral_Derp Posts: 866 Member
    Yeah, the work thing is the bigger deal imo.
  • Jenrosa28
    Jenrosa28 Posts: 732 Member
    I like older guys, they seem to have their stuff together and they usually want the same things as I do!!
  • literatelier
    literatelier Posts: 209 Member
    Thanks for the feedback! The work thing, while a concern because of potential awkwardness, is not an HR concern. Actually, he's technically in HR.... :)
  • matt2442
    matt2442 Posts: 1,259 Member
    I like older guys, they seem to have their stuff together and they usually want the same things as I do!!

    So younger guys dont have their stuff together? hmmm, younger guys dont have goals? hmmm
  • Jenrosa28
    Jenrosa28 Posts: 732 Member
    Im sure they do, its the ones that I've met that haven't figured out what they want yet. Again, I'm sure they have goals, and really awesome goals at that!!
  • LeanerBeef
    LeanerBeef Posts: 1,432 Member
    Sounds good to me.....
  • Jenrosa28
    Jenrosa28 Posts: 732 Member
    Thanks!! :)
  • Umeboshi
    Umeboshi Posts: 1,637 Member
    Only 5 years more han the age gap between me and my partner. I don't see it being a problem. :D

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