worst way to breakup with someone

not so much a break up (but closest i have come to aside from just going out separate ways)

our second time together i agreed to cut her yard and rake the leaves as she had a broken forearm. next night we went to the movies (little miss sunshine, her pick) and dinner. i figured when we got back to her place things would progress a bit.

so as she is stewing around the kitchen i ask her if she's tired cause she just looked exhausted. she looks at me and says, oh you can tell? i said yea, thought maybe you were preggers.

she stops dead in her tracks and says funny you should say that, i had my palm read and she told me theres a baby in my future. i chuckled and she looks at me dead serious and tells me she was late this week.

i said, wow, of all the ways we had sex in my head you were only going to get knocked up in 2 of the 15 positions.

she then tells me how shes been having unprotected sex with a guy who is a vendor at her job. i very calmly asked if she enjoyed my Gorillaz dvd and i told her i had to get going.

she called me for about a week after that and couldnt understand why i wouldnt call her back or pick up.

finally i said, oh, you know, youre out &^(*&^(&*^ some other guy while im doing all the ***** work and you dont have the courtesy to give me a handjibber?

Receive a restraining order while in jail along with divorce papers. I assume. It felt good at the time.

Waking up after a night of drinking to your significant other going to town with a local sleaze...in your bed right next to you... That was pretty awful. But I guess he didn't want to break up, because me throwing all his stuff out the door was 'ridiculous and childish'.

When I was 17 I broke up with a guy by showing up at his birthday party in his new apartment, grabbing my stuff out of his room and telling him we were done as I walked out the door. The party hadn't started yet and although he had cheated on me, it was pretty low. He told me 5 years later that he stopped celebrated his birthday after that.

Of course it didn't occur to him to stop cheating on his girlfriends instead :noway:

Waking up after a night of drinking to your significant other going to town with a local sleaze...in your bed right next to you... That was pretty awful. But I guess he didn't want to break up, because me throwing all his stuff out the door was 'ridiculous and childish'.

my guess is he didnt see you in your naughty school girl outfit eh?

having someone's mom tell you would really suck.

I recently got broken up with over a text. And wow did it make me angry. But then I thought to myself, why would I want to be in a relationship with a disrespectful coward anyways?

My high school sweetheart was a year ahead of me and two weeks after her HS graduation, out of the blue, announced she was going into the Army and was leaving for basic training in a week. If that doesn't count as a breakup, she did come back from leave after basic and MOS school to let me know she was 'married' to another girl. This was back in 1975 boys and girls. After I completed basic training, she sent me a letter asking me to come out to California to get married to her and be stationed with her. I was too excited about going to Germany to give it any thought. At least most of it was face-to-face. Then again, I am not sure if we ever officially broke up either.

Maybe when you're 12 and you were never really dating in the first place...?

But wow, wtf. Man up and do it face to face. And DON'T DENY the other person an explaination as to WHY you are breaking up. Be honest and up front.

Well, I guess I agree that you shouldn't refuse to give an explanation if asked. I just think I wouldn't want to know. Most of the time, people are not going to be completely honest anyway. They'll just give you something generic like "It's just not working for me anymore," or "I need space," or "I need time to figure some things out." I think it's rare that it's ever that simple. In most cases, there is a pretty specific reason. They've met someone else they're interested in, but they need to be single before they make a move. They already cheated on you, and they feel guilty. You've been hinting around about wanting to get married, and it freaked him out. You've been exceedingly moody lately, and he realized he doesn't love you enough to put up with it forever.

I just don't think it's common to wake up one day and go "You know, I don't think I like her anymore."

Text. In fact, doing anything important through text is total B.S!

and don't get me started on text lingo...