why do I seem to attract weirdos and stalkers?
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You said something offensive. You should apologise and edit that word out of your post. I doubt you will, but you should.
It's most likely already been reported.0 -
What a coincidence - I just got a text too!!
Is it still a fake text if it's a real MFP user? LOL0 -
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some of the comments on here have been pretty harsh and judgmental.
I'm not trying to get this kind of attention.
and I don't think anyone would find it "flattering" to be followed home or harassed.
The text conversation you put up didn't imply anyone following you home or harassing you. I think by complaining that you are being "stalked" is actually kind of minimizing the experiences of people who are actually physically stalked, internet bullied, or sexually harassed.
Unless there's more to the story. Someone telling you you're beautiful on the internet can be annoying and inappropriate, but you really have to look at intent to call it stalking or sexual harassment.
^ This. Once that person stalks you quietly to figure out your classes, what times you work, etc., and starts writing you letters about kidnapping you and locking you in a castle, THEN that's stalking.
Castle you say?
You said something offensive. You should apologise and edit that word out of your post. I doubt you will, but you should.
I said something offensive?
No, I think Contrarian meant to quote the other guy who was using the term "phaggot."
It's cool. No worries. I'm quick to apologize if I offend with anything but cold hard facts. Chronically, terribly unfunny I may be, but almost never intentionally offensive.0 -
OP, google your name. You are very findable. I would edit your MFP name to something else like someone suggested. (You should also not use the same user name on multiple sites if you would like to remain more anonymous.)0
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You said something offensive. You should apologise and edit that word out of your post. I doubt you will, but you should.
It's most likely already been reported.
Yup. By dis gurl.0 -
You said something offensive. You should apologise and edit that word out of your post. I doubt you will, but you should.
It's most likely already been reported.
Yup. By dis gurl.
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You said something offensive. You should apologise and edit that word out of your post. I doubt you will, but you should.""Hi, I'd like to point out to everyone how much attention men give me so I can get even more.""
I agree with this statement ^^
Also a lot of phaggoty men out there that worship the ground women walk on for no reason and the result is women with over inflated egos.
That was unnecessary.
Completely agree. Ugh.
sorry you can't handle the truth0 -
I get all kinds of messages in different social media outlets. And the response to his last text would be. "My boyfriend/fiance/husband wouldn't want me sending pics of myself to anyone" Depending on the message I get would be my answer. Just a plain old compliment, Thank you" and end it there. If they press, you are taken. End of it. Handle it the same way when it happens in person. That's what I do.0
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some of the comments on here have been pretty harsh and judgmental.
I'm not trying to get this kind of attention.
and I don't think anyone would find it "flattering" to be followed home or harassed.
The text conversation you put up didn't imply anyone following you home or harassing you. I think by complaining that you are being "stalked" is actually kind of minimizing the experiences of people who are actually physically stalked, internet bullied, or sexually harassed.
Unless there's more to the story. Someone telling you you're beautiful on the internet can be annoying and inappropriate, but you really have to look at intent to call it stalking or sexual harassment.
^ This. Once that person stalks you quietly to figure out your classes, what times you work, etc., and starts writing you letters about kidnapping you and locking you in a castle, THEN that's stalking.
Castle you say?
You said something offensive. You should apologise and edit that word out of your post. I doubt you will, but you should.
I said something offensive?
No,honeubee. I ****ed up. The posters who said I quoted the wrong post were correct.0 -
some of the comments on here have been pretty harsh and judgmental.
I'm not trying to get this kind of attention.
and I don't think anyone would find it "flattering" to be followed home or harassed.
The text conversation you put up didn't imply anyone following you home or harassing you. I think by complaining that you are being "stalked" is actually kind of minimizing the experiences of people who are actually physically stalked, internet bullied, or sexually harassed.
Unless there's more to the story. Someone telling you you're beautiful on the internet can be annoying and inappropriate, but you really have to look at intent to call it stalking or sexual harassment.
^ This. Once that person stalks you quietly to figure out your classes, what times you work, etc., and starts writing you letters about kidnapping you and locking you in a castle, THEN that's stalking.
Castle you say?
You said something offensive. You should apologise and edit that word out of your post. I doubt you will, but you should.
I said something offensive?
No,honeubee. I ****ed up. The posters who said I quoted the wrong post were correct.
No worries darlin...you're doing good work.
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No,honeubee. I ****ed up. The posters who said I quoted the wrong post were correct.
It's easy to do. This is the first forum I've ever been on that does not have names next to quotes.0 -
You said something offensive. You should apologise and edit that word out of your post. I doubt you will, but you should.
It's most likely already been reported.
Yup. By dis gurl.
Hardly. Reporting is a lot more passive than all the things I want to say.0 -
My KIK name is willwillywilson btw. Just throwing that out there for all you creepers.0
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Don't talk to me about stalkers until you start pulling home phone and cell numbers on first PM. I get all the dudes . . . FFS
I mean, really, any lady stalkers? Anyone? Please?0 -
My KIK name is willwillywilson btw. Just throwing that out there for all you creepers.
No.
*Oops. Sorry, crank*0 -
Sadly, this is the level of many boy's swagger anymore.0
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I think Im in love.....................hahahahahaha0 -
The expansion of the prevalence of weirdos and creepers is the product of the disappearance in society of the concept of adhering to the unenforceable virtues of chivalry, gentlemanly behavior and modesty. IMHO
p.s. Not all weirdos and creeps are harmless. Learn how to protect youself. And with what tools are (currently) legaly available. :flowerforyou:0 -
No,honeubee. I ****ed up. The posters who said I quoted the wrong post were correct.
It's easy to do. This is the first forum I've ever been on that does not have names next to quotes.
It does get a bit confusing sometimes. Especially with the really deeply embedded quotes.0 -
I think that is prime game in my opinion...0
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My KIK name is willwillywilson btw. Just throwing that out there for all you creepers.
No.
*Oops. Sorry, crank*
well I would Stalk you.... LOL if I even knew what KIK was :bigsmile:0 -
Came to see what all the fuss is about. Less than impressed.
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No,honeubee. I ****ed up. The posters who said I quoted the wrong post were correct.
It's easy to do. This is the first forum I've ever been on that does not have names next to quotes.
It does get a bit confusing sometimes. Especially with the really deeply embedded quotes.
I wish MFP would reconfigure the site to put who says what with the quotes.0 -
some of the comments on here have been pretty harsh and judgmental.
I'm not trying to get this kind of attention.
and I don't think anyone would find it "flattering" to be followed home or harassed.
The text conversation you put up didn't imply anyone following you home or harassing you. I think by complaining that you are being "stalked" it's actually kind of minimizing the experiences of people who are actually physically stalked, internet bullied, or sexually harassed.
Unless there's more to the story. Someone telling you you're beautiful on the internet can be annoying and inappropriate, but you really have to look at intent to call it stalking or sexual harassment.
AGREED.0 -
some of the comments on here have been pretty harsh and judgmental.
I'm not trying to get this kind of attention.
and I don't think anyone would find it "flattering" to be followed home or harassed.
The text conversation you put up didn't imply anyone following you home or harassing you. I think by complaining that you are being "stalked" it's actually kind of minimizing the experiences of people who are actually physically stalked, internet bullied, or sexually harassed.
Unless there's more to the story. Someone telling you you're beautiful on the internet can be annoying and inappropriate, but you really have to look at intent to call it stalking or sexual harassment.
^^^THIS0 -
The OP sounds silly. You just sound bitter.
you mad?
I'm not the one who called men 'phagotts' and was talking about women with inflated egos. Someone else pointing out your obvious anger/derision does not make them mad. It just makes them an acute observer.
This. And also, I'd like to point out that it's usually the bitter and unhappy men who can't find dates that stoop to blatant sexism and homophobia.
haha I think your both mad. Sorry the truth hurts!
Huh. Still stuck in 2010?0 -
The OP sounds silly. You just sound bitter.
you mad?
I'm not the one who called men 'phagotts' and was talking about women with inflated egos. Someone else pointing out your obvious anger/derision does not make them mad. It just makes them an acute observer.
This. And also, I'd like to point out that it's usually the bitter and unhappy men who can't find dates that stoop to blatant sexism and homophobia.
haha I think your both mad. Sorry the truth hurts!
To what "truth" do you refer?0 -
You don't attract them... you let them in.
There is a difference.
Ex: You are still having a conversation with said stalker/weirdo.
Conclusion: you like it.0 -
The OP sounds silly. You just sound bitter.
you mad?
I'm not the one who called men 'phagotts' and was talking about women with inflated egos. Someone else pointing out your obvious anger/derision does not make them mad. It just makes them an acute observer.
This. And also, I'd like to point out that it's usually the bitter and unhappy men who can't find dates that stoop to blatant sexism and homophobia.
haha I think your both mad. Sorry the truth hurts!
Huh. Still stuck in 2010?
more like 1980
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