Call All Those Who Have Been Cheated On!

I knew, you don't lock your phone and not tell your SO the password unless you have somehing to hide. Luckily, the cellphone bill was in my name and I called the repeated numbers. Needless tosay, his phone was shut off and he was kicked out.

My ex never admit as to how far he went with the other young lady while they were classmates studying abroad, but in my heart I knew there was something wrong. I had to break up with him because I knew that feeling of confidence and trust that I originally had in him was gone.

Go figure, now they're together. But I truly hope they're happy.

Have you talked to him about your suspicions first?

I have and he just says its nothing.

Well that confirms it. Him saying it's nothing means it's definitely something

I didn't know. That skank *kitten* hoebag...

I knew. You're right. Somehow you just know.

I was completely oblivious. Everyone knew except for me

I'm not bitter though haha...

cant turn a hooker into a house wife bro

You know... You just don't want to believe it

I knew..when he came home with a massive love bite near his willy and when I came on to him he said no. He was waiting for the love bite to disappear.
I went after the girl and gave her a hiding ( and him) and got arrested for it.

I knew, but didn't want to believe it and lived in denial for awhile.

It's definitely a 'gut' feeling. You just sense something's wrong.

My ex would act so obviously different after he'd been up to no good. He'd be really ratty and snappy and a little resentful of me - out of his own guilt.

He'd also be extremely suspicious of me, constantly ask who I was with, where I was going etc.

I knew something wasn't right. Looked through his phone while he was in the shower. Black and white evidence.

Sometimes I knew, sometimes I didn't. It's happened many, many times.

I had a gut feeling that something about the relationship with the person he cheated on me with was off, but I wouldn't say that I knew he was cheating on me.

The issue isn't that he is cheating on you. The issue is that you don't trust him to be honest, and he doesn't take your concerns seriously. The only advice I have since you are already married is to see a marriage counselor. If he won't go, then go alone.

I knew something wasn't right but after nearly ten years of marriage and two children, I just thought it was that we were growing apart...much to my surprise he called me one day at work and told me that he had been having an affair for the past year and a half...yes, he called me at work to tell me this. Why did he do that? Because his mistress was a co-worker and she came to work that day and informed him that her husband found out. It is the absolute worse feeling that one can even encounter. Although I felt that we weren't getting along, the feeling of betrayal is one that you will never forget. It is so hard to ever trust again. I "attempted" to make the marriage work but after almost a year of marriage counseling I realized that I deserved so much more. He was NEVER honest about all that he had done and I was constantly finding out more things and living like a private investigator, constantly checking on what your husband was doing was no way of living at all. I knew that it was going to be hard on my children but I also knew that having their mommy happy was much better than watching mommy lay around, cry and be depressed all the time so after almost a year of counseling I called it quits and filed for divorce.

My gut instincts was telling me that something was going on with my ex, but I brushed it aside. Then after a long while later I did some snooping and my instincts were right all along I felt rubbish, but good riddance I say

I'm a lot happier without him, thank goodness!