Anybody ELSE *hate* their neighbours?

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  • AngryDiet
    AngryDiet Posts: 1,349 Member
    My neighbours are quite nice. I'm glad they're there.
  • angmarie28
    angmarie28 Posts: 2,885 Member
    I used to live below a lady with a 15 year old daughter whos room was right above my sons (who was 18 months at the time) and would BLARE the most annoying music until midnight, Ive talked to them over and over and the moms response was "I hear you guys all the time during the day getting mad at your kid and your kid crying all the time and I dont come to your door complaining" first off, she worked and her kid went to school, they wernt home during the day, second I was not always yelling, ya, I would yell a little telling him to stop doing something he wasnt suppose too, third, duh he crys, hes a baby, and fourth, there is a HUGE diffrence from a little noise we make during the day to them and there loud *kitten* stereo with booming base right above my kids room from 8pm- midnight. I was so glad when the landlord (my husbands grandma) pissed me off and refused to sign a rent recite for me and I moved out 2 weeks later.

    ETA: I own a trailor now in a Trailer park, I have one annoying neighbor that is constently yelling the f word at his wife, but thats about it, but being we live in a trailer park, we get neighbors sometimes that just let there kids run all day with out being checked on and they all seem to end up at my house, we had 3 kids that would show up at my house at 7am everymorning and say "our dad told us to come here and leave him alone" but right now there isnt any really bad neighbors
  • Leannek74
    Leannek74 Posts: 374 Member
    My neighbours are great! :happy:
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    Yeah there are some right pikeys over the road, they sell cars to make a living, clearly dodgy ones as often they will be arguing and fighting people on the street. :frown:

    Actually they even fight each other.:indifferent:
  • Legs_McGee
    Legs_McGee Posts: 845 Member
    I live on 5 acres in the middle of the woods. I can't even see my neighbors.
  • flatbellybella
    flatbellybella Posts: 303 Member
    you sound like a real peach.

    Says the guy with the avatar taking a sh!it

    Lol what a loser. Never fails on these threads.
  • Briko3
    Briko3 Posts: 266 Member
    I have a neighbor that lets his grass grow thigh high and puts all of his junk out in his yard so we can look at it all day when we look out the window. When I first moved in, I was nice and gave him an extra ladder we had and now I get to look at it propped against his fence with weeds growing around it. He tries to be nice though.
  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
    I live next door to freshies. Freshies are people who are fresh from their countries to another. Living in Harlesden we have a high population of Somalians. Now, just to put it out there now, I'm not a racist, there is something about every race that pisses me off including my own :P

    Now, typical fashion of Freshies, the parent's speak absolutely no English, they're kids do however and I don't know what it is about kids from these types of families, they act like ****ing animals! The children scream and I mean SCREAM! all the bloody time! the outside garden of theirs is ridden with rubbish and broken furniture which brings in a lot of mice, rats and fox's! They even throw their rubbish into our bins which is a huge issue since if we don't recycle properly we will be fined £1000! they even dump their rubbish outside of our door! they even lit a firework on our balcony! if the window was opened they would of started a fire! THIS ISN'T ****ING SOMALIA!

    Every time you ring their doorbell, a child walks out. So you ask them to call their mother or father but they always say that they aren't in, which is bull****! so the parents come out and no English..none.

    Here's an idea, if you are going to live in this country, at least speak the damn language! I am sick to death of this bull****!

    :laugh: My own race bugs the **** out of me sometimes. I agree all races have annoying *kitten* stereotypes that are fun to poke fun of. Why I love Seth MacFarlane.

    Yeah, now that you mention it, at my condos, people that didn't live in our establishment (other neighborhoods) would come to ours and dump their garbage! Now we pay association fees for that stuff ($$$) and other people throwing away their garbage for free!! Garbage day was always depressing because there would be a MOUNTAIN of garbage. An otherwise nice neighborhood would be a dump for a whole day. There's fines for those that get caught, but it is seldom enforced!

    LOL "freshies". I might start using that.
  • Tebbspcad
    Tebbspcad Posts: 233
    My neighbours are hopefully moving out soon..:happy: ...I can't wait for the day as then I won't have to pick up the cig ends and rubbish they throw in my garden when they walk past! They even stole mine and another neighbours wheely bin and denied it even though both were clearly marked...they just crossed out our number and put theirs on...i think they just do it to get a reaction.....they are utter tramps!
    :frown:
  • Mikkimeow
    Mikkimeow Posts: 1,282 Member
    OMG YES!!! I have neighbors on either side of me, one of which have several children to whom I have given permission to use my basketball standard, the other is a divorcee with a teenage daughter. I recently got a dog and the divorcee called me 4 times in the same evening, left 2 voice mails informing me that my dog was barking so loud she couldn't hear herself think, ect ect. The other day the neighbor boys were shooting hoops while my hubby and I went out to get some food. Apparently the ball rebounded and hit one of our cars, not a big deal. Our "oh-so-charming" neighbor yelled at the boys and told them they couldn't play on our hoop anymore and had also come out a bit earlier to yell at them when the ball had rebounded into her yard.

    First off, it's a dog, they bark. You only have to deal with it when she's outside, I have to deal with it 24/7. Secondly, who the hell gave you the authority to tell the kids they can't play in MY yard!? You are overstepping your bounds big time. And lastly, it's winter. Your yard is dead. Why do you care? It's not like you have plants growing. What's the ball going to do? Smoosh the snow? Oh no!

    Other than that, I get along with the other neighbors just fine.

    The dog barking this is stupid. Train your dog to not bark 24/7. It's not your neighbors fault your dog barks, yet they have to listen to it.

    True story. If your dog is barking as much as you say it is (24/7), that is a sign of stress, not just normal dog behavior. Your responsibility.
  • ski0721
    ski0721 Posts: 109 Member
    I really don't care for my inconsiderate neighbors. I wish they would move. Actually, I wish I could move but I'm stuck with a condo that's not worth nearly as much as I paid for it. :sad:
  • LastMinuteMama
    LastMinuteMama Posts: 590 Member
    I don't hate my neighbours that's a very strong word but I can't say I like them either they can be very anal over the drive we share and get really annoyed whenever my friends use it, I mean it's a piece of frigging concrete they need to get a life

    We must have the same neighbors... I received an email once asking why our friends would turn around in their driveway ( just back in a teesie bit at the top as we share a long, one car width access road)

    We ended up taking down trees at the top of our driveway so people could turn around there.

    And like you said, I don't hate them, but we don't hang out with them either. We're way too "blue collar" for their liking :drinker:
  • MrsBobaFett
    MrsBobaFett Posts: 802 Member
    I don't hate my neighbour but she screams and shouts at her 3yo son and her 6mo daughter, I heard her tell the 6 month old to shut the F up before once. Not to mention her abusive boyfriend who comes around once a month and I have to leave the house with my little boy so we don't have to sit and listen to the shouting... Need a detached house!
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    I have this theory. People who say things about others having "no class" are rude, pretentious douches.
  • KodAkuraMacKyen
    KodAkuraMacKyen Posts: 737 Member
    I dislike our neighbors. We have 4 dogs and I can say with confidence they have never bothered our neighbors. All around us people have barking dogs. And they just let them, for hours and hours on end, at all times of the day and night. It's not that hard to let them inside. It's just not.
  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
    From past experience, it was mainly dog problems that made me loathe my neighbors, or probably vice versa. However, now my neighbors ARE dogs...wild dogs (coyotes) and sage brush and wild mustangs....closest person lives about 2-3 miles away.
  • MrsBobaFett
    MrsBobaFett Posts: 802 Member
    I live next door to freshies. Freshies are people who are fresh from their countries to another. Living in Harlesden we have a high population of Somalians. Now, just to put it out there now, I'm not a racist, there is something about every race that pisses me off including my own :P

    Now, typical fashion of Freshies, the parent's speak absolutely no English, they're kids do however and I don't know what it is about kids from these types of families, they act like ****ing animals! The children scream and I mean SCREAM! all the bloody time! the outside garden of theirs is ridden with rubbish and broken furniture which brings in a lot of mice, rats and fox's! They even throw their rubbish into our bins which is a huge issue since if we don't recycle properly we will be fined £1000! they even dump their rubbish outside of our door! they even lit a firework on our balcony! if the window was opened they would of started a fire! THIS ISN'T ****ING SOMALIA!

    Every time you ring their doorbell, a child walks out. So you ask them to call their mother or father but they always say that they aren't in, which is bull****! so the parents come out and no English..none.

    Here's an idea, if you are going to live in this country, at least speak the damn language! I am sick to death of this bull****!

    Oh god... I used to live in Harlesden too!! It's always been that way as far as I remember!
  • KrazyAsianNic
    KrazyAsianNic Posts: 1,227 Member
    I cannot stand my neighbors below me. I was told I couldn't have my neice and nephew over because the people downstairs "sleep during the day and work at night." Whether it's 12pm or 12am, or any time in between, they have their surround sound so loud I feel like I'm in a warzone and/or earthquake.

    Now that my place is finally unpacked, I can't wiat to get back into my Kinect Dancing games!
  • KrazyAsianNic
    KrazyAsianNic Posts: 1,227 Member
    Now, just to put it out there now, I'm not a racist, there is something about every race that pisses me off including my own :P

    Haha! I agree. My dad's full Chinese and I make the worse remarks out of them.
  • MostlyWater
    MostlyWater Posts: 4,294 Member
    You can "love your neighbor" but not actually like them. Nothing wrong with that.
  • leahartmann
    leahartmann Posts: 415
    I have the greatest neighbours. Yesterday one of them dropped by with chinese food for dinner, so I didn´t have to cook. Today she asked if we wanted to join her for dinner. Our other neighbour comes in regurlary with homemade cake or bread. They are so sweet and shows great hospitallity, but respect the private life. We talk to each other free and open. The woman above us (there´s four apartments in the house) is a single mother with four children, we sometimes look after and babysits. It´s a big family here.
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
    I love my neighbor. He gives me weed sometimes.
  • MidwestAngel
    MidwestAngel Posts: 1,897 Member
    My neighbor is my EX mother-in-law. You can imagine our relationship.
  • Kohadre
    Kohadre Posts: 316
    I hate my neighbors children, does that count?

    Dont get me wrong, I like kids. Just not when they are screaming and jumping up and down on the ceeling of the apartment directly above mine.

    When I'm home I want two things. Vodka, and quiet.
  • Pasukaru2
    Pasukaru2 Posts: 39 Member
    Well I can't say I HATE them , but I definitely don't like them very much... They live right above us, and are veryyyy noisy. Well if they were noisy at normal hours I could bear with it, but they listen to heavy rock from 8 P.M till midnight often :explode: I did try to talk to them, the girl is nice and almost seems like she's going to cry at times, but the guy LITERALLY avoid us! I did meet him a few times, tried to speak with him (just chit-chat, like ''Hi how you doin?'') and acts like we just don't exist! Talked to the Landowner too, and he called us back telling us that they were annoyed by us too because we were listening to movies too loudly. :noway: Last time I recall listening to a movie that was loud enough to be heard by our neighbours was last year and we did ask to our neighbours below us if that bothered them and they've said they didn't notice. So we just decided to let it go and put earplugs when they're too noisy, That guy seems a bit strange and I'd feel guilty if something happened because we complained too much :frown:
  • JusticeGirl25
    JusticeGirl25 Posts: 703 Member
    I don't hate my neighbors, but they smoke cigarettes all the time. I'm glad they don't smoke inside (as far as I know) but every time I see them, they've got a cigarette in the mouth. It's disgusting!
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    My neighbor is my EX mother-in-law. You can imagine our relationship.

    That's rough.
  • poedunk65
    poedunk65 Posts: 1,336 Member
    i have neighbors on both sides and one side are really nice, the other is a total idiot though. lol
  • TrailRunner61
    TrailRunner61 Posts: 2,505 Member
    I don't *hate* anyone. I do however, have a neighbor that has 4 little yapping dogs I can't stand, squawking parrots she keeps on her porch all summer, wind chimes and a son with a VERY loud truck. When I hear the noises and can't concentrate, sleep, etc., I pray for her. It instantly calms me. :)
  • jlapey
    jlapey Posts: 1,850 Member
    "Hate" is a strong word. I've had neighbors that I wished I didn't. Two years ago, I bought a house in nice neighborhood and I actually adore my neighbors (on one side). We are good friends with them now. The others I rarely see, but are friendly when I do. If I were you, I'd look into moving. Life is too short to be miserable.