DEAL BREAKERS for dating

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  • nitrogen_widget
    nitrogen_widget Posts: 92 Member
    I really can't stand it when they don't answer my calls & don't call back.

    total deal breaker for me.
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    To think, I don't even have a list. I'm pretty sure my hot level just plummeted!!

    Nah. You're hot. :wink:
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    I hate to say it, but the number of deal breakers people have is directly related to how hot or good looking they are. Top tier women are picky because they can be. They can have all the requirements in the world and there will be guys out there that meet it. The same can be said for top tier alpha males.

    I think what makes a lot of guys and girls laugh on here are people that have a laundry list of requirements when they really can't be picky themselves.

    What would women think about a 500lb, 50 year old guy who won't settle for less than a ivy league educated 23 yr old lingerie model? He'd looks absolutely ridiculous!

    Um, I think I am pretty attractive and my one "deal breaker" is no criminals. Yeah, so tell me more about your theory.

    Wasn't referring to you. A lot of men and women on here had reasonable deal breaker list. Some lists just made me chuckle a little.

    :huh:

    I think you missed the point -- just because somebody isn't conventionally attractive doesn't mean they should have lower standards. Yes, some people have ridiculous requirements, but they are ridiculous for anyone, regardless of what they look like.
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    LOL, thanks innerconflict and speshul
    To think, I don't even have a list. I'm pretty sure my hot level just plummeted!!

    married?

    Nope, but I have kids. A dealbreaker for you if I recall correctly! :)
  • dad106
    dad106 Posts: 4,868 Member
    I think what makes a lot of guys and girls laugh on here are people that have a laundry list of requirements when they really can't be picky themselves.

    I reserve my right to be picky.. even with my average looks and status.

    Last guy I was seeing, I took him to a nice restaurant for dinner. He show up wearing but a Ninja Turtle Tee-shirt, jeans and gym shoes.. and then wondered why I was mad.

    I need someone educated and on my level.. and I refuse to settle for anything less.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    I hate to say it, but the number of deal breakers people have is directly related to how hot or good looking they are. Top tier women are picky because they can be. They can have all the requirements in the world and there will be guys out there that meet it. The same can be said for top tier alpha males.

    I think what makes a lot of guys and girls laugh on here are people that have a laundry list of requirements when they really can't be picky themselves.

    What would women think about a 500lb, 50 year old guy who won't settle for less than a ivy league educated 23 yr old lingerie model? He'd looks absolutely ridiculous!

    Um, I think I am pretty attractive and my one "deal breaker" is no criminals. Yeah, so tell me more about your theory.

    I think you're hot, and I would totally date you.

    I think you're totally hot and would date you.
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    I hate to say it, but the number of deal breakers people have is directly related to how hot or good looking they are. Top tier women are picky because they can be. They can have all the requirements in the world and there will be guys out there that meet it. The same can be said for top tier alpha males.

    I think what makes a lot of guys and girls laugh on here are people that have a laundry list of requirements when they really can't be picky themselves.

    What would women think about a 500lb, 50 year old guy who won't settle for less than a ivy league educated 23 yr old lingerie model? He'd looks absolutely ridiculous!

    Um, I think I am pretty attractive and my one "deal breaker" is no criminals. Yeah, so tell me more about your theory.

    I think you're hot, and I would totally date you.

    I think you're totally hot and would date you.

    Let's hook up. Can your hubby drive?
  • JessieJanie
    JessieJanie Posts: 428
    I don't know that I really have any deal breakers. I have things I would prefer, I'd like a guy with tattoos, that likes comic books, and is funny. I would also prefer that he not be overtly violent or have an offensive odor, and it would be nice if he was able to form a complete sentence that is mostly free of grammatical error. I feel like if people have enough of the awesome stuff though, I can overlook some of the not so awesome. But, maybe I'm just not hot enough to have absurd standards?
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member

    Let's hook up. Can your hubby drive?

    His license was revoked.
  • gerard54
    gerard54 Posts: 1,107 Member
    Ugly feet...
  • rickyll
    rickyll Posts: 188 Member
    There are many things I look for but one thing that is important to me..somewhat of a deal break if she:

    -only sticks to the cardio machines at the gym!
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member

    Let's hook up. Can your hubby drive?

    His license was revoked.

    Damn. OK. I'll drive.
  • morgynsmama
    morgynsmama Posts: 83
    Dating sucks
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    Unrepentant body hair.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member

    Let's hook up. Can your hubby drive?

    His license was revoked.

    Damn. OK. I'll drive.

    Or I can drive. I'm an in charge kinda girl -- that's another thread though.
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member

    Let's hook up. Can your hubby drive?

    His license was revoked.

    Damn. OK. I'll drive.

    Or I can drive. I'm an in charge kinda girl -- that's another thread though.

    No. I will. I want to kick the strobe light in, and y'know. The epilepsy and all.
  • ModoVincere
    ModoVincere Posts: 530 Member
    Dating sucks
    hopefully.....
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member

    Let's hook up. Can your hubby drive?

    His license was revoked.

    Damn. OK. I'll drive.

    Or I can drive. I'm an in charge kinda girl -- that's another thread though.

    No. I will. I want to kick the strobe light in, and y'know. The epilepsy and all.

    I'd still have a pulse, anyway...
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member

    Let's hook up. Can your hubby drive?

    His license was revoked.

    Damn. OK. I'll drive.

    Or I can drive. I'm an in charge kinda girl -- that's another thread though.

    No. I will. I want to kick the strobe light in, and y'know. The epilepsy and all.

    I'd still have a pulse, anyway...

    Excellent/
  • LizCanDoThis
    LizCanDoThis Posts: 7 Member
    pot head women

    Boooooooooooo :smokin:
  • VeeBethTris
    VeeBethTris Posts: 301 Member
    Dating sucks
    hopefully.....

    OMG perverts are allowed on MFP???

    OK Maybe I don't have to hide my true character
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    There are many things I look for but one thing that is important to me..somewhat of a deal break if she:

    -only sticks to the cardio machines at the gym!

    oh hey...i lift heavy things up and down.
  • MightyDomo
    MightyDomo Posts: 1,265 Member
    I'm able to accept a lot for the right person, but dependency issues is a HUGE deal breaker for me. I just cannot stand clingy dudes. :explode:

    I agree with this but in a way.

    I would definitely like them to depend on me as much as they don't. And even balance of dependancy leaving a even balance of me and then us time is something I'd want. I wouldn't be able to stand someone doing everything with me all the time. I would feel so overwhelmed and start to resent them for it... hope that makes sense?
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Dating sucks
    hopefully.....

    OMG perverts are allowed on MFP???

    OK Maybe I don't have to hide my true character

    I hope you are being sarcastic.. Cuz.. if not, my FL is full of pervy women.
  • ChrisinGA
    ChrisinGA Posts: 116 Member
    WOW, Oh I forgot one darn i guess I do have a pretty long list but yet still simple,
    One I forgot no tats, I hate tats, unless there tiny and only one or two of them.

    I can over look some things sometimes, and depends on the person, if your sweet,caring,pretty, and good at things I overlook lots
  • VeeBethTris
    VeeBethTris Posts: 301 Member
    Dating sucks
    hopefully.....

    OMG perverts are allowed on MFP???

    OK Maybe I don't have to hide my true character

    I hope you are being sarcastic.. Cuz.. if not, my FL is full of pervy women.

    Yes sarcastic.
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Dating sucks
    hopefully.....

    OMG perverts are allowed on MFP???

    OK Maybe I don't have to hide my true character

    I hope you are being sarcastic.. Cuz.. if not, my FL is full of pervy women.

    Yes sarcastic.

    Whew!
  • Alyssah09
    Alyssah09 Posts: 357 Member
    No career
    Not able to support a family
    Does NOT want kids
    Long list of past infidelities
    Would prefer to go to a bar rather than having "family time"
    Someone who is not my fiance
  • Dr_Flo
    Dr_Flo Posts: 465
    I have to agree with a previous poster .. Drug Users of any kind absolutely kill it. I can't be associated with someone like that. :noway:

    Secondly and def just as important is Hygene. If you're someone that neglects yourself.. keep movin' :sick:
  • knittingwitch
    knittingwitch Posts: 231 Member
    Do drugs
    Act like they know every thing and think there right
    If they can't or don't make me laugh.
    Me and my husband have nothing in common at all, but he makes me laugh

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