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getting a FR rejected...

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  • Posts: 2,352 Member
    So you're the one that started this thread: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/937532-this-website-sucks
  • Posts: 3,677 Member
    Ok so there is one gal I think I sent an FR to, but I wasnt sure cuz I was kind of trying to make new friends at the time. I am just not sure if I sent her one and she rejected or if I never sent her an FR. I was not just sending them out, but like I said, I was in induction mode.

    So now I dont know if should resend and get rejected twice, if in fact she rejected me.

    Bummer


    I honestly don't know if I've been rejected. I think I have, but I lose track of anything that is not complimentary to me. It's a skill.
  • Posts: 4,733 Member
    i sent one to my sock puppet account, but it was rejected by me. :frown:














    (just kidding mods. i don't have a sock puppet account. that would be unethical.)
  • Posts: 1,914 Member
    the first butthurt is the worst! After that you're a little more, um, able to take it. :smokin:
  • Posts: 34,415 Member
    Ha ha!
  • Posts: 590 Member
    my mother use to tell me that if someone doesnt want 2b ur friend then they were not good enough to be ur friend. thinking back of my teenage yrs, there were alot of people not good enough 2b my friend :(
  • Posts: 135 Member
    That's what i do.:ohwell:
    36 FR's with no message from people I never interacted with. I just let them sit there.

    OMG...the OCD in me screamed bloody murder when I read that! Just the thought of them sitting there.....*shiver*
  • Posts: 5,044 Member
    <---- did you offer them this box??
  • Posts: 34,415 Member
    I sent one to a regular here who's name reminds me of an awesome Nickelodeon show.... [the only reason why I sent the FR to begin with. I figured, that if she knew about the show well she must be awesome..... guess not, lol]

    I guess she didn't get the reference because I sent her a gif of the actual show... bahahahah [LAME..... that show is awesome]
    I think she might have thought I said she looked like the gif or something, I don't know, bahahaha


    You make zero sense...

    ...which is why you will *never* be on my FL.

    Ever.
  • Posts: 3,958 Member
    OP is MINE.
  • Posts: 549 Member

    I honestly don't know if I've been rejected. I think I have, but I lose track of anything that is not complimentary to me. It's a skill.

    I had someone who was on my FL delete me once. When I discovered this it hurt. Not so much here... or here... but riiiight here.
  • Posts: 982 Member
    Its the chest hair braaahhhh:bigsmile:


    I accept people just for chest hair *scoffs*
  • Posts: 563 Member

    OMG...the OCD in me screamed bloody murder when I read that! Just the thought of them sitting there.....*shiver*

    Hahaha, I had the same reaction :laugh:
  • Posts: 124 Member
    it may be the sentence in your profile that you are mainly on MFP for entertainment - people think you aren't serious then....
  • Posts: 2,654 Member
    I can't recall having a FR rejected, but then again, I don't know how to keep track of ones I send. Now I am feeling kinda bad that there may be people out there who sent a FR to me and feel rejected if I didn't accept it. But surely they aren't losing sleep over it. I'm not nearly cool enough for that!
  • Posts: 8,646 Member
    I'm confused as to how accepting a FR is now considered a RULE.

    I'm also confused as to how declining a FR is now being compared to cyber bullying.
  • Posts: 3,863 Member

    Yeah, that's why i am majoring in biochemistry, got my NASM CPT (National Academy Of Sports Medicine Certified Personal Trainer). Have helped many people, now helping a lot more by rewritting in place of a road map(which is a weight loss guide). The facebook page has 500+ likes and growing daily. It's helping people with weight loss every day.

    So you can't state a fact without knowing the fact.

    The point i was making about the internet is that there are rules and ethics we should follow. I am sure you're aware of stories of kids committing suicide because of cyber bulling, committing a cyber crime i believe a minimum is 10years in jail.

    But, "HEY ITS JUST THE INTERNET."
    You mentioned the "b" word.


    I'm done with you.


    Cool story, brah.
  • Posts: 4,733 Member


    I accept people just for chest hair *scoffs*

    how YOU doin'?

    fake-chest-hair.jpg
  • Posts: 13 Member


    I accept people just for chest hair *scoffs*

    What about back hair?
  • Posts: 7,334 Member

    Hahaha, I had the same reaction :laugh:

    you desensitize... I have about 37 pending... ones that had messages that I think are awesome, but I already have so many that I am losing people... and I don't wanna reject them... so that red 37 glares at me, and the red banner on my home page yells at me to address the problem... and I try to ignore.
  • Posts: 1,606 Member

    This is also a very good point. I sent a FR to EDDavenport. He didn't accept me, kind of upset me. I would see him on the forums, and in my mind i thought he didn't accept me. 6 months later i got a notification saying "EDdavenport has accepted your friend request."

    I apologize to him for my thoughts, and told him how i felt. He has been a friend for a while now.
    Damn, same thing happened to me! I was never mad because I had forgotten that I sent it months earlier. I assume he was queuing them up because he accepting a couple dozen others at the same time as mine.
  • Posts: 1,606 Member
    That's what i do.:ohwell:
    36 FR's with no message from people I never interacted with. I just let them sit there.
    FYI: Someone had to point this out to me. If you're using the app as opposed to the website, you won't see the person's profile message. Therefore, you will have never seen the note saying "FRs without messages will be declined", yadda-yadda. I verified this is true with the Android app. Since then, I'm a little more lenient with incoming FRs.
  • Posts: 1,606 Member
    OK but please help me understand: lets say somebody came home from a night of drinking, totally smashed out of their brains, and while logging their shots, sent 50 FRs.

    Next day, they dont remember it and will never find out if they got rejected by anyone even if all 50 reject.

    Correct?
    A MFPal and I tested this a few weeks ago:
    1) You only receive notice if your FR is accepted. If it's declined, no notice sent.
    2) You can't see your sent or outstanding FRs. You can forget and send the same person multiple FRs and the system won't tell you.
    3) You also don't receive notification when a friend drops you or a friend deactivates their account.

    I noticed recently that my FL count dropped by 3. I could only remember 1 name accurately though and saw their account is still around. Another one I can't quite remember the spelling, so the search function is of little help. The 3rd I have no idea who it was. Oh well.
  • Posts: 982 Member

    how YOU doin'?

    fake-chest-hair.jpg


    call me *wink*
  • Posts: 1,025 Member
    I will be your friend.
  • Posts: 135 Member

    you desensitize... I have about 37 pending... ones that had messages that I think are awesome, but I already have so many that I am losing people... and I don't wanna reject them... so that red 37 glares at me, and the red banner on my home page yells at me to address the problem... and I try to ignore.

    I truly don't think I could ever desensitize....I really want to come to your house and decline or accept them all for you....they're going to haunt my dreams....
  • Posts: 1,914 Member
    I'm confused as to how accepting a FR is now considered a RULE.

    I'm also confused as to how declining a FR is now being compared to cyber bullying.

    A reportable offense, to be sure.

    Welcome to MCFP "My Communist Fitness Pal"!
  • Posts: 390 Member
    This just happened to me today! First one ever!
  • Posts: 2,654 Member

    Hahaha, I had the same reaction :laugh:

    I do the same thing. I don't want to add someone with a closed profile, no message, and no mutual friends, but I feel bad about hitting the decline button, so I let them sit there for a while til too many of them stack up, then finally clear some out.
    Altho there is one young hot guy with some serious abs that I leave on the queue. I don't have guys on my list, and besides, he friends everyone, but dang, he is pretty to look at. :blushing:
  • Posts: 135 Member

    Yeah, that's why i am majoring in biochemistry, got my NASM CPT (National Academy Of Sports Medicine Certified Personal Trainer). Have helped many people, now helping a lot more by rewritting in place of a road map(which is a weight loss guide). The facebook page has 500+ likes and growing daily. It's helping people with weight loss every day.

    So you can't state a fact without knowing the fact.

    The point i was making about the internet is that there are rules and ethics we should follow. I am sure you're aware of stories of kids committing suicide because of cyber bulling, committing a cyber crime i believe a minimum is 10years in jail.

    But, "HEY ITS JUST THE INTERNET."

    A *tad* dramatic....dontcha think?


    It's all fun and games until somebody gets defensive....
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