getting a FR rejected...

FYI: Someone had to point this out to me. If you're using the app as opposed to the website, you won't see the person's profile message. Therefore, you will have never seen the note saying "FRs without messages will be declined", yadda-yadda. I verified this is true with the Android app. Since then, I'm a little more lenient with incoming FRs.

This is actually not true. I use the Android app.

If you tap on the request, it will take you to the message or say "no message provided."

@1ConcreteGirl, you misunderstood. I'm not talking about FR messages. If you're in the app and want to look at someone's profile, you won't see their profile message. Therefore, you won't see if they have a note in there saying "FRs without messages will be declined".

I have had a few, i don't care. I already know they have their head where the sun don't shine, i don't want people like that on my friend's list.

So... the only reason someone would reject a FR is because there's something wrong with them?

Sounds legit.

I understand some women don't accept men as friends that's cool.

That's the only thing i get, how can someone judge determine anything about me without knowing me?
A few caveats, they read my profile(if they did and don't want to be friends, i am cool with that), they seen me around on the forums and just don't like me, (i am cool with that too).

If a girl sent me a FR and i didn't like her profile, i would accept her and tell her, "it looks like from your profile you're kind of ______________"

Some person on the fourms i just don't like, if they sent me a FR, I'd just give them a fair chance.

I didn't like jacwhite on the forums, but he sent me a FR and i consider him a good friend.

The ethical thing to do is to give people a fair chance. If they don't do that, then... yes something is wrong with them.

Um... you do realize that it's not actually considered offensive to ignore the occasional friend request from a complete stranger... right...? You aren't owed a "fair chance". That's why it's called a friend request.

If i am not given a fair chance, why would i want to be friends with someone who's narrow minded?

The best rejections are the ones who are friends with everyone but you and you get to see them everywhere and be reminded over ... and over ... and over ... about how you just weren't good enough for them ... it's like an emotional rollercoaster around here man!!! :sad:

This!! It makes you question your self worth.

This why I never sent a friend request on this website, I'm afraid the rejection will bring back the fat me and make me eat all the ice cream and pop tarts.

Sounds like something someone would say to help them sleep at night.

Jof, "joffing" is when you friend someone and then delete them. You should know; you invented that move.

You keep on trying to say i am wrong in my thoughts. Yet you haven't said anything about yours. So tell me under what situations have you personally declined people?

Sounds like something someone would say to help them sleep at night.

Jof, "joffing" is when you friend someone and then delete them. You should know; you invented that move.

You keep on trying to say i am wrong in my thoughts. Yet you haven't said anything about yours. So tell me under what situations have you personally declined people?

I personally decline people for way too many reasons to list here. Am I judging? Hell yes, I am.

Is that my right to determine who I want on my friend list by any criteria I choose? Of course.

And should other people decide that the only reason I declined is because I'm an a**hole? Well, I mean, that's their right. But it doesn't MAKE them right.

Sounds like something someone would say to help them sleep at night.

Jof, "joffing" is when you friend someone and then delete them. You should know; you invented that move.

You keep on trying to say i am wrong in my thoughts. Yet you haven't said anything about yours. So tell me under what situations have you personally declined people?

I personally decline people for way too many reasons to list here. Am I judging? Hell yes, I am.

Is that my right to determine who I want on my friend list by any criteria I choose? Of course.

And should other people decide that the only reason I declined is because I'm an a**hole? Well, I mean, that's their right. But it doesn't MAKE them right.

It's the "sour grapes" mentality. "They declined me? Oh well, I didn't want to be friends with them anyway, they must be a total b!tch for not accepting cuz there's nothing at all wrong with ME."

<---- did you offer them this box??

Oh ****. Wrong box. No wonder they turned me down!

And then sometimes, you wanna be friends cuz they have hot hot legs, but the profile is set to private. So you send the FR and the rest of them is not really that hot....and you're like....well..now what should I do.....true story.

I decline almost all friend requests, but it isn't because I think there is anything wrong with people who send them. I'm shy and kind of a weirdo and I like to keep my friend list small.

Jof, "joffing" is when you friend someone and then delete them. You should know; you invented that move.

I doubt i am sour, i might be, but i doubt it. I will agree partially wit the second part. There are many reasons why people don't accept FR... I get that, but it should be stated why in their profile. the conditions.

I even wrote on my profile why some people may not like me. maybe i sent a FR to someone and they read my profile and realized we have nothing in common and didn't accept. I got no issue with that.

If they did, they should email me or something saying "yeah i read your proifle, i don't think we'd make good friends." or something you know?

I guess my issue is more wit the "why didn't they?" If someone said, "it's because you seem like a complete jack *kitten*" i wouldn't care. I guess i am just looking for closure.