What is your dealbreaker when dating

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  • michaela4910
    michaela4910 Posts: 544 Member
    One thing I would pick up on quickly, if we went out to eat, is being rude, disrespectful or discourteous with wait staff. I can't stand that. And it is a good indication of how they treat people in general.
  • MrsBobaFett
    MrsBobaFett Posts: 802 Member
    Eating with their mouth open... AGHH!
  • tpittsley77
    tpittsley77 Posts: 607 Member
    I couldn't date anyone shorter than me. Makes me feel like a giant.
    Guys with long fingernails. That totally freaks me out.
    Guys that wear Axe body spray.

    Ironically, when I was younger, my list was much longer. My husband seriously had half the qualities that were on my list. We've been married five years now. Guess those things really didn't matter.
  • FitnSassy
    FitnSassy Posts: 263 Member
    A dumb guy faking intelligence! Just be your damn dumb self! LOL
  • dietdailey
    dietdailey Posts: 8
    Someone who acts better then someone else.
  • Thewatcher_66
    Thewatcher_66 Posts: 1,643 Member
    Arrogant, egotistical, self-centered, condescending, never wrong---- thank God I can't date myself he he he
  • MNA76
    MNA76 Posts: 1,541
    Lack of confidence. Oh and lack of male genitalia. That's a dealbreaker.
  • citygirl04
    citygirl04 Posts: 286 Member
    roaming eye
  • FitnSassy
    FitnSassy Posts: 263 Member
    Arrogant, egotistical, self-centered, condescending, never wrong---- thank God I can't date myself he he he

    Sounds like my kind of guy... entertaining!
  • odd_sock
    odd_sock Posts: 2 Member
    My dealbreakers are arrogance, bad manners and being disrespectful and they apply not only to dating but all areas of my life
  • Thewatcher_66
    Thewatcher_66 Posts: 1,643 Member
    Arrogant, egotistical, self-centered, condescending, never wrong---- thank God I can't date myself he he he

    Sounds like my kind of guy... entertaining!

    Thanks Fit N Sassy. :) Hey, I'm not afraid to admit that I'm a man who has his share of flaws. When I share my honesty with my dates, some of them run for the hills while others find my brutal honesty refreshing. After all, the truth shall set you free. :)
  • triciab79
    triciab79 Posts: 1,713 Member
    Deadbeat dad. If you left your kids and are not actively doing everything in your power to support them and see them as often as possible you do not deserve to live much less date anyone. If I was gay that would go for dead beat moms too. If all of us stopped being so damn accepting of losers they would stop being such losers.
  • Fast_Track
    Fast_Track Posts: 33 Member
    Jealously and no sense of humor.
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    excessive use of cell phone when in company.
  • RhiannonLeighh
    RhiannonLeighh Posts: 46 Member
    Wow! There seems to be a lot of judgemental/superficial people in this thread... :/
    I guess that right there would be my deal breaker.
  • littlebre33
    littlebre33 Posts: 318
    bad manners and bad teeth
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    Deal breakers for me include incompatibility (sexual, mental, emotional), being abusive in some way, being condescending, stingy, untrustworthy. Also, whiny, clingy, too possessive & jealous, not taking responsibility for his actions and blaming others instead, being closed-minded & having a herd mentality. Also, if a guy wasn't loving & affectionate it wouldn't work for me. And there needs to be a general harmony and enjoyment of being together on a day to day.
  • TheWiseCat
    TheWiseCat Posts: 297
    1)Sexual incompatibility

    2)If they eat my food. I didn't buy those Reese's Pieces for charity, yo.
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    After reading this I have come to the conclusion that I am Un_Date_Able
  • veggiehottie
    veggiehottie Posts: 590 Member
    Keeping in constant contact with exes
    Online flirting
    Rude to strangers, including waiters etc.
    Lying
    Sexual incompatibility
    Deadbeat dad
    Not health conscious
  • dirtyd89
    dirtyd89 Posts: 170
    I've got many...

    -Kids.
    (I'm not taking care of another man's kids and risk having to constantly deal with that past drama with those kids father. F*** it!)

    -Smoker.
    (Drop you on the spot.)

    -Too many tattoos & piercings.
    (Some tattoos & piercings are fine but if your a walking painting I find that unattractive.)

    -Alcoholic.
    (That's a given.)

    -Mentally unstable.
    (That's a given.)

    -Attention *kitten*.
    (Not your damn baby sister. Be an adult.)

    -Religious.
    (I don't mind your faith just don't preach it to me.)

    -Poor table manners & lack of courtesy.

    etc.
    (Those are just a fraction. I'll leave it at that.)

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