can i confide in you guys?

Delete his number and forget about him! He sounds like trouble >.>

OMG he's entered creeper status. walk away.

Tell him to S his own D.

Or don't!

What the heck, Marry him.

<~~~~jelly of the tipsy. *runs off to get some wine*

No, there are hot guys everywhere, forget it.

The only conditions under which this would be acceptably safe for you, imo, would have involved you being, probably, slightly shadier than you are.

Like, if, it happened to be objectively true that his relationship with his ex was already long-dead and they both knew it & were (both) just waiting for the right time to push it off the cliff, AND he told you about this on the night, AND you somehow correctly vibed that this was true, AND you got along really well conversation-wise too, AND you both stayed away from each other out of respect for this other still-involved person's feelings until they ended it like grownups, and ONLY THEN did he try to contact you again, in a respectful way, not just when he felt like it, AND you liked it.

Attacking you for turning him down is the kicker for me here.

don't take this thread too seriously, k ? it's saturday and i'm a little tipsy. don't judge.
i kissed a boy at a party that i was attracted to. found out he had a girlfriend(he denied having a girlfriend to me)
i was pretty upset and felt a little used.
now he broke up with his girlfriend a month ago (or longer)


anyway, he's been texting me for 2 months now begging me to date him. telling me that he's my "future husband" (like seriously, he's texting me every day since the kiss. or every second day. a LOT more than i'm used to from any other boy i've talked to)
and i've been polite, telling him i have school and work. and how i can't hangout much.
and now sometimes he gets frustrated and calls me a "hater" (wtf?)

seriously though.
girls? what would you do?
guys? wtf?

i don't know why i read a subtext of possible true love here. sorry guys. but is it ever possible that some people don't get out of a relationship soon enough and just kind of coast towards the end and then meet someone really great. and then get the nerve to leave. or a lightbulb goes on?

that said, I think HOW you "found out" is crucial. if it was word of mouth that could have been hearsay from someone less informed of his break up status than him. if it was his FB page that could depend on how often he logs in, simple scrollign thru his page should tell you if he had a chance to change it during the time you met.

The "hater" part I'm still not so crazy about. And the keeping trying for So long. Unless of course you have reciprocated any attention which then yeah, you guys are actually communicating back and forth and he cannot be blamed for still trying.

BTW, please PM me your kissing technique because I want guys to be all sprung on me with just a first kiss instead of having to fully put out to get them like that.

In the old days, I am 47 years old, we had to drive or walk to the girls house to stalk her. Now you bump phones and you have an instant stalker. I don't know that I could be a young adult in today's world.

Oh and for what it is worth, I think that the wine is probably better than this guy. I think he probably showed his true colors during that first kiss.

lol!
well lets put it this way; we talked for hours alone, because all our friends passed out. we saw each other at earlier parties and we both agreed that we wanted to talk to each other. he told me his "EX" cheated on him blah blah blah said he broke up with her,
we kissed, i left. friend told me he had a girlfriend. and so on and you know the rest.

yeah, he got really rude with me turning him down today, i finally replied "dude. i tell you every day i'm busy. tomorrow's not gonna change"

I'd say you dodged a bullet

lol!
well lets put it this way; we talked for hours alone, because all our friends passed out. we saw each other at earlier parties and we both agreed that we wanted to talk to each other. he told me his "EX" cheated on him blah blah blah said he broke up with her,
we kissed, i left. friend told me he had a girlfriend. and so on and you know the rest.

yeah, he got really rude with me turning him down today, i finally replied "dude. i tell you every day i'm busy. tomorrow's not gonna change"

just as i said. Misinformed hearsay. Give the guy a chance. he was in break up mode with a little cheater. and I'd be frustrated too if the love of my life were avoiding me and I knew why because of some possible rumor or misinformation.

p.s. i know you're only a little tipsy right now, but in a few hours after a few more drinks the answer will be crystal clear. drunk dial. and booty call. then in the morning you will know whether you have a keeper or not. Yes, I am the :devil:

That must have been a pretty good kiss!

anyway, if he is acting like that you need to dump him and go kiss another guy and see what happens!

forget about this one and ignore him.

i understand he wants sexy time. but what guy tries this hard for 2 months?
i'm just baffled.

Every guy you will ever meet. Some will try for 4 years.