You dont get a second date.....

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  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    1.Smoke
    2. Don't Put out.

    If you do #1, but don't do #2...that's okay.
  • terri0527
    terri0527 Posts: 678 Member
    Chew with their mouth open...:noway:
    Body odor :sick:
  • theCarlton
    theCarlton Posts: 1,344 Member
    if he's rude to servers or other staff, if he makes even a seemingly innocuous anti-woman or racist comment. I've walked out of 1st dates because their comments were so inappropriate.
    If she can't handle her firearms
    I actually went to a shooting range on my last first date. In hindsight, I suppose that could have been a bad move.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    spit.

    same
  • chantelp89
    chantelp89 Posts: 590 Member
    If they aren't respectful. I don't care if its just to get in my pants. Don't be a ****
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    If she's a jerk. If she doesn't "get" my sense of humor. If she smells weird. If she brings up religion then insists on trying to save my soul (no proselytizing). If she is ultra picky about food. Complains that the place I took her wasn't nice enough.
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    Aside from poor hygiene? Hmm.

    I went on a date months ago with a guy who dropped the F-bomb every two minutes. Seriously, he couldn't order his tacos without cursing. It was embarrassing. I even called him on it and he still didn't stop so I rushed the date and avoided his calls.

    A couple of weeks ago I went on a date with a guy who turned everything into a political commentary. Not cool. If I want to have a political debate (which I don't....ever), I'll hang out with my crazy family. He didn't get a return call either.
  • wykyd
    wykyd Posts: 68 Member
    Men who act like it is some big honor or some big news that they want to get laid. We KNOW... Trust me, we know. But desperation is about the unsexiest thing I know of. Plus the being rude to staff, smelling bad, etc. etc. etc.
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    if you get all bothered by me having a ring on my finger....oh yeah and a wife at home.....some people.... ya know??? \m/
  • Hadabetter
    Hadabetter Posts: 942 Member
    Too much make-up, perfect hair, and a lot of attention spent on nails.
    These are not compatible with hiking and kayaking.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I've been married for 21 years and dating was a little different back then.

    However, there are a couple of things that would be a deal breaker if I was dating now.

    -If you pull out your cell phone and text your friends an update on the date, there won't be a second date.
    -If you constantly talk about an ex, see ya'.
    -Smoker. No thank you.
    -Argumentative.

    Can't think of anything else right now. I would just want someone that was honest, straight forward and funny. Knows when to speak up and when to defer.
    Everyone has beauty of some kind. I like a woman who knows where her beauty lies and is confident, but not self-centered.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I've been married for 21 years and dating was a little different back then.

    However, there are a couple of things that would be a deal breaker if I was dating now.

    -If you pull out your cell phone and text your friends an update on the date, there won't be a second date.
    -If you constantly talk about an ex, see ya'.
    -Smoker. No thank you.
    -Argumentative.

    Can't think of anything else right now. I would just want someone that was honest, straight forward and funny. Knows when to speak up and when to defer.
    Everyone has beauty of some kind. I like a woman who knows where her beauty lies and is confident, but not self-centered.

    I forgot to add. Must enjoy riding on the back of my motorcycle. Looking good in leather wouldn't hurt.
  • dirtnap63
    dirtnap63 Posts: 1,387 Member
    Rudeness, ignorance, hatred, and instability.
  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    If we don't get along
    Smokes
    Into herself too much
    Not attractive to me
    Loves cats too much
    Isn't healthy
    Doesn't love dogs
  • Flab2fitfi
    Flab2fitfi Posts: 1,349 Member
    Being late - once had a date who was 3 hours late and never again. Rudeness would come in a close second.
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  • twelfty
    twelfty Posts: 576 Member
    no sex :P
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    If they don't put out. Ain't nobody got time fo dat!
  • maisid
    maisid Posts: 69 Member
    I don't date, I hate wasting my time, so I rather spend it on something important in life.. :D

    But if I would ever happen to go on a date I would want him to be honest and polite, but no momma's boy who can't make up his mind or does everything he thinks I like just to please me.
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    If you're my ex-husband...
    Never should have even given him the first date...:noway:

    If you're controlling and manipulative
  • jersey_jenn
    jersey_jenn Posts: 122 Member
    if they scratch their back under their shirt with a fork, then proceed to eat their meal with said fork. true story. ugh.
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    if they scratch their back under their shirt with a fork, then proceed to eat their meal with said fork. true story. ugh.

    Ha!
    Nice... :noway:
  • MNA76
    MNA76 Posts: 1,541
    If we have absolutely no spark or chemistry. Why bother?
  • jersey_jenn
    jersey_jenn Posts: 122 Member
    if they scratch their back under their shirt with a fork, then proceed to eat their meal with said fork. true story. ugh.

    Ha!
    Nice... :noway:


    yup, sexy. then wondered how I could resist his charms and not make out with him after the meal. he's lucky I sat through the meal after that lol
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    If I don't think I'd want to kiss you.
  • kcrxgirl
    kcrxgirl Posts: 114 Member
    If he's a mouth-breather, chews with his lips open, farts (not ok on the 1st date), has cats, smokes, has body odor, has a filthy car . . . I could go on . . .
  • Laura42012
    Laura42012 Posts: 180 Member
    Show up in your Dad's lexus
  • MSeel1984
    MSeel1984 Posts: 2,297 Member
    Hates dogs? It's over.

    Smothers me.../overly emotionally open on the first date...(has happened and yes, it's over with that person).
  • smtillman2
    smtillman2 Posts: 756 Member
    Rude in general
    Poor hygiene
    Bad conversationalist
    Too touchy feely
    And seemingly the most absurd thing but can't make myself get past it. Wearing solid white shoes :noway: I just can't do it.
  • hmandt70
    hmandt70 Posts: 45
    if he is too pushy with physical things when his gestures are obviously unwanted...i once had a guy who tried to kiss me at the end of our first date and i just wasnt feeling him so i turned my cheek...well then he grabbed my face, turned my head and kissed me anyway. it was nasty and i literally wanted scrub my lips with bleach after that

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