What should I do with my boyfriend for his birthday?

Clearly, he doesn't need a shotgun. Or anything of the likes. He will appreciate this gesture simply because I've run the idea past him on several ocassions. But, whatever.

My wife and I are very similar. Anything big, and we talk about it before hand to make sure the other likes it. She got me a new laptop for xmas, but I was the one that specced it out and everything. I got her jewelry, but she had tried it on and such and agreed she liked it before. We did that because we were each spending thousands of dollars, and wanted to make sure the other liked it.

If you're running the idea past him already, why not just ask him what he wants to do during the day?

take the second letter of the alphabet and put in front of the tenth letter, I'm sure you can cancel all other plans and save yourself a mint :drinker:

take the second letter of the alphabet and put in front of the tenth letter, I'm sure you can cancel all other plans and save yourself a mint :drinker:

Who knew there would be math involved in this????????????

Just give him sex. thats all they want.

If you're only having sex on special occasions then you're both doing it wrong.

What's wrong with people these days? Doesn't anyone know how to have relationships anymore?

Just give him sex. thats all they want.

If you're only having sex on special occasions then you're both doing it wrong.

What's wrong with people these days? Doesn't anyone know how to have relationships anymore?

I think you misunderstood my blantant comment. You should be having sex on more than just special occasions.
men want sex.
its his birthday - give him sex. he should have birthday sex. its what he wants im sure.
okay fine - buy him flowers and dont give him sex. That's perfect for a guy!

Sex and cake. ...sex WITH cake?

take the second letter of the alphabet and put in front of the tenth letter, I'm sure you can cancel all other plans and save yourself a mint :drinker:

Who knew there would be math involved in this????????????

i dont like math.

Just give him sex. thats all they want.

If you're only having sex on special occasions then you're both doing it wrong.

What's wrong with people these days? Doesn't anyone know how to have relationships anymore?

I have lots of sex during a normal week (no kids yet). I still really enjoy vacation week, anniversary, and our birthdays where the frequency like octuples. What's wrong with people these days? Don't they know how to make special days awesome by staying in bed the whole time anymore?

Sorry you are getting responses you don't want, but that should have been expected no matter how nicely you asked the question. Many men are different. Some would be good with the video games, some with guns or outdoors stuff and some have many other likes. If you are not looking for a specific "gift" to give him, (which none of us would be able to suggest anyway since we don't know him) here is what I would seriously suggest for what it is worth:
* Let him choose what you guys do from that morning until what you have planned (whether that is hiking, golf, shopping, whatever, just be with him doing what he wants
* Give him surprise sex whether that be in the morning, afternoon, in the car, while he is in the shower, whenever. Just spring it on him before that night since it is an almost certainty that night
* When you have dinner and the hotel that night, have a special nighttime outfit, bring a camera, something that may not be the norm that he would really enjoy also

I only say these because even though guys are different, there are a few things we all like; good food and good sex. If my wife gave me that along with just being with her that would be the best and I am sure he will feel the same. Hope it goes well. :bigsmile:

See!!!!!

I don't get why everyone is giving you such a hard time. Yes, on the surface, it does seem more like a scenario that a guy would do for a girl, but that doesn't by any means dictate that a guy also would not appreciate it! If I were in his position, I would be wowed just by the effort you put into this alone. I would be ecstatic if my wife got a room for us and made plans for a seduction!!!! LOL As far as what to do during the day, it's hard to say without knowing you both. In general, if I had my way, my birthday would be all about sex all day. Maybe incorporating scenarios, activities, etc. that are out of the ordinary for you guys. The suggestion about video-taping ... there's not a guy in the world who wouldn't love that! If you were looking for more casual, non-sexual things, take him out buy him some electronic device he wants but doesn't have. In any case, he will be grateful for you planning a great day & evening together.

Nah, the sarcasm just didn't translate. I'm goofing on the people who think sex is something "special" or a gift. In a good relationship it should be like breathing. You don't give each other the gift of air on a birthday.

(According to my newsfeeds, the #1 gift is a threesome. Yes, I have crazy friends.)

Just because you have it regularly doesn't mean it isn't special.

Wait, is your boyfriend a woman? Because it sure sounds like you're trying to seduce a woman

That what I thought too.

Take him to a steak house and give him a BJ in the car. He'll be happy.

People are unnecessarily harsh. Not ALL men are only into sports, or beer, or sex.

Having said that, as you have already forked out for an expensive hotel room, I would make the most of it, get some drinks and some nibbles in, and spend the day in it. It will save you the extra money and at least you know you will both have a good time.

Thank you for an Actual post. Of course I'm going to have sex with my boyfriend whether it's his birthday or not. And he's not into sports or beer. So I agree.

you sure he's a man?

Thank you for an Actual post. Of course I'm going to have sex with my boyfriend whether it's his birthday or not. And he's not into sports or beer. So I agree.

I'm noticing the only things you consider Actual Posts are the ones that you agree with. I imagine the same selection process was used when you presented ideas to your boyfriend for his Feminine Seduction Birthday and he "agreed" that your ideas were great. He presented his ideas, you presented yours, you only acknowledged yours.

Does the guy even eat strawberries?

He's probably allergic :laugh: