What is your TRUE reasons for wanting to get in shape?

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  • I want to look good naked. Boyfriend says I do and I believe that he really thinks that, but I don't think so and I'd like to.
    I also have posture issues that I need to fix and I'd like to be stronger in general :)
  • Pookylou
    Pookylou Posts: 988 Member
    To be able to escape zombies. The zombie Apocalypse is coming people! *cough* And look good naked.
  • rosettafaery
    rosettafaery Posts: 102 Member
    Firstly I want to improve my health. I had a kidney transplant 2 years ago and I want to prolong it as long as possible. I've also got heart failure - the left ventricle is weakened and I have a bit of a heart murmur. My resting pulse at the moment is between 90 and 105. I really want to bring this down as it is worrying me although my doctors don't seem too concerned.
    Secondly I want to feel comfortable in my skin and be slim and toned.
  • CandyAshes
    CandyAshes Posts: 18 Member
    My TRUE reasons for wanting to get in shape...
    - looking in the mirror, I want to be able to look at myself without being upset with my double chin, belly and rubbing thighs (my Grandma puts her hands on my face hinting at how chubby I've got, she doesn't have to say a thing for it to hurt)
    - my health (my mom was recently diagnosed with type 2 diabetes, shes lost a lot of weight due to her thyroid, blood pressure and diabetes... i don't want to have to experience that)
    - clothing... I absolutely HATE shopping for clothing due to the fact that nothing ever fits me, I try on bigger sizes and then I get frustrated... rather go shopping for truck stuff or makeup.
    - adventures... I want to be able to hike this one trail that leads up to a glacier, just so I can see the view and do it without having to gasp for air. (My bf smokes and can breathe better than I can at the end of a hike)

    Most of all, I want to do it for me, myself and I
  • jdhoward_101
    jdhoward_101 Posts: 234 Member
    To look good naked, and to stop comparing myself to my boyfriends perfectly-figured ex. I'm tired of comparing myself to her and feeling like a whale. It's a damn petty and silly reason i know, when i could put 'to be healthier' or 'to gain more confidence' but it's true.
  • brit_ks_89
    brit_ks_89 Posts: 433 Member
    my mom passed away in july at the age of 45 to several health issues , and i knew if i havent change i would be able to see my 30th birthday . so life it self inspired me !
  • Caaja
    Caaja Posts: 45 Member
    I want to feel good while naked. :drinker:


    ditto
  • XXXMinnieXXX
    XXXMinnieXXX Posts: 3,459 Member
    I had to type 2 diabetes, high heart rate and blood pressure. I was miserable, constantly either eating or sleeping, my fybromyalgia was horrendous. I had no life. I suddenly realised I wanted one and wanted to get my healthpproblems under control. Now I've reversed my Type 2 diabetes, my blood pressure and heart rate are excellent. Fybeomyalgia is still there but sooooooo much better than before

    I'm less depressed, and doing what's best for me is finally following through in other areas. At 27 I'm finally standing my ground andfighting for my happiness instead of being walked all over, I'm a totally ddifferent person to whom I was. Still mild mannered, loving, kind, etc.. But I'm losing the bad qualities... Door mat, not doing what's right for me, allowing people to treat me badly etc.

    There's no way I will go back to the old Zara psychologically or physically. Also don't p people around me doing what I was to myself at one time is a stark reminder to not go back there

    Yes I'd like to feel prettier, feel sexy, look good etc, but there's so much more to it than that. I've gone from 301-209. Another 50/60 to go!

    Zara
  • prudism
    prudism Posts: 149 Member
    I want what I had and didnt appreciate my sexy body back the wolf whistles when I walked down the street heads turning
    oh and good health and world peace lol
  • pinkraynedropjacki
    pinkraynedropjacki Posts: 3,027 Member
    I WAS obese. Now I'm not. MY reason for getting into the shape I am now is because I was fat. No other reason.
  • Kaasie1
    Kaasie1 Posts: 25
    Vanity - I wanna look sexy!
  • Lulzaroonie
    Lulzaroonie Posts: 222 Member
    My main one, though there were others, is insecurity.
    I used to be one of those girls who was quite popular, not like one of those high school *****y *look at me I'm so perfect* girls but I had a lot of friends, and guys asked me out a lot, and I'd never have a shortage of people to talk to when I went out and I could just make friends like that. I never really thought much of myself in that way, I never thought that I was good looking or better than anyone else, and I still don't now. I used to think I was fat back then, like legitimately fat, not like *oh woe, I gained a lb and now I'm an elephant*, but fat where I would wear ridiculously big clothing to hide in the summer, and never wore anything flattering, and looking back, I can see I should have kicked myself in the head and recognised the pretty slim girl I was.
    The only thing in my favour was that I was a confident person. Despite how I felt about myself, I was very confident.
    When I gained weight and the confidence vanished, the friends vanished, people stopped talking to me, no-one hit on me anymore, it was like a social nuclear armageddon.

    I never considered myself to be anything other than just a girl, and when that all went, I realised how much I had, and how I wasted it.

    I don't like feeling like I can't go to a friends BBQ without people eyeing me thinking I might start stuffing my pockets with burgers. I want to be able to go to the beach and not give a single toot that people might think I'm a little bit overweight still, I want to be able to look like I'm confident because I lost a lot of my confidence once I gained weight, and I think people react better to confidence than they do to physical appearance.
  • cheyennekl
    cheyennekl Posts: 90 Member
    So next time I tell someone I'm happy with my body, I mean it!!! :)
  • cheyennekl
    cheyennekl Posts: 90 Member
    I want ABS. ^^V

    Oh and this!!
  • SukieCookie
    SukieCookie Posts: 12 Member
    I want to look good for my wedding day :)
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
    My life became intolerable. I needed something to feel good about.
  • kindasortachewy
    kindasortachewy Posts: 1,084 Member
    To look like the sexy sister on my wedding day and not th frumpy one and to be a smokin hot wife for my smokin hot hubby to be
  • i dont want to drop dead of a massive heart attack in my forties and leave my 3 kids without a daddy.

    I've promised myself a really really expensive desinger suit when I hit my target weight. Only 30lbs to go!
  • NikinCilla
    NikinCilla Posts: 129 Member
    Love life :smile:
  • ozigal
    ozigal Posts: 173 Member
    I was morbidly obese. I started to feel that my life was leaving me behind and that I couldnt keep up with things. If I went out dancing I couldnt dance to more than one song at a time without becoming exhausted. I got to a point where I hated that Katie Perry Fireworks song because I couldnt keep up.

    My friends would go on walks and do energetic things and I couldnt do it. The only things I ended up being invited to were dinners!

    I went travelling and there were things I couldnt do because of my weight and at my age that shouldnt have been a factor. In some cases, I was left behind with a 70 year old woman who also couldnt keep up. Mind you she had just had surgery on both her knees. I didnt exactly have that excuse.

    Anyway... The more I thought about this and the more I got left behind, the more determined I became to lose weight and to get back into my life.

    I'm never going to have a perfect beach body. I accept that. Too much damage has been done by a lifetime of obesity BUT I am going to be fit and I am not going to get left behind again!
  • fit_ania
    fit_ania Posts: 26
    To look amazing on a beach :)
    Feel free to add me. I need friends to motivate me
  • I just want to look good, and I'm tired of have a big fat belly....................................................... health & vanity. :)
  • majasmi
    majasmi Posts: 133 Member
    health. to live long
    vanity. to look good
    functionality. to take part in activities
    ease. to find clothes.
  • mazdauk
    mazdauk Posts: 1,380 Member
    It all comes down to vanity in the end - if we weren't vain why would we care what we looked like? I couldn't blame "skimpy cheap cutting" any more as the reason UK 16 was too tight and I was having to buy the odd 18 (I was a small 12 when I married 23 years ago). I didn't like my holiday photos - my bare arms looked like big joints of pork - and when I bent over to tie up trainers I felt like I had a 5-month baby bump - and my "baby" is 13! Plus hubs is finishing his OU degree this year (and elder son is already nearly at the end of his first year at uni) and I want to look nice in the graduation pics

    With only 2 years to my half-century I knew that however hard it was to lose weight now, it was only going to get harder! And now I've started Zumba I've actually found an exercise I LOVE (not tolerate, not like, LOOOOOOOVE) which actually makes me hopeful the lifestyle change will stick this time.:smile:
  • Inazea
    Inazea Posts: 157 Member
    I was in shape until last summer, then I really let myself go and now I am overweight and everytime I see my muffin top I feel bad. It needs to be gone.
  • xALEXANDROx
    xALEXANDROx Posts: 3,416 Member
    overall health.

    better body composition.

    be able to actually say I did it.:drinker:
  • FlickMclightly
    FlickMclightly Posts: 31 Member
    70% Vanity - 30% Health
    I want to look good in a Bikini !
    All my friends (x3 besties) are qute petite (around 5'4) I am 5'8 - in photo's I always look like the 50foot woman --- and being slightly overweight doesn't help. I want to get rid of my muffin top, and just feel nice and slim, not wobbly, when I am in my summer clothes.
  • Vanity! I want to look good naked for hubby and I want to wear whatever clothes I want without fear of spilling out of them ;) I'm hoping it motivates me to be more social as well... When I'm fat I don't want people to see me that knew me when I was thin :-/
  • lacewitch
    lacewitch Posts: 766 Member
    I don't want to break my hand punching somebody again
    (i want to be fit healthy and strong)
  • jjski88
    jjski88 Posts: 24
    I'm vain enough to want to look good, lazy enough that I don't want to fight that fight when age sets in, and smart enough to know that my kids are learning my habits. I want them to understand what a healthy balanced lifestyle is.




    Edited for typosGhAt

    Same here. I also want to be independent when I get older.