You dont get a second date.....

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  • QueenGyn
    QueenGyn Posts: 106
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    If we don't get along
    Smokes
    Into herself too much
    Not attractive to me
    Loves cats too much
    Isn't healthy
    Doesn't love dogs

    Whats wrong with liking cats too much? :noway:

    If you have bad manners, then its bye-bye. :bigsmile:
  • whatshouldieat
    whatshouldieat Posts: 101 Member
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    Some of you are asking how do you find this information out on the first date. Well I hope before there is a first date two people are either calling, texting, or sharing emails back and forth. Why waste each other's time if you can't get straight to the deal breakers. I know what I want to date and I hope the other person knows what they want also. As far as the DEBT goes, well $10,000 is concider managable debt anything after that regardless of what kind of debt it is, its alarming and I dont want to marry someone and I end up taking there debt over because they chose to have poor money skills. Good thing I dont have to worry about this, since I am in a long term relationship. Keep counting those calories.
  • StrongAndHealthyMommy
    StrongAndHealthyMommy Posts: 1,255 Member
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    He is horrible
  • SerenaFisher
    SerenaFisher Posts: 2,170 Member
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    If we don't get along
    Smokes
    Into herself too much
    Not attractive to me
    Loves cats too much
    Isn't healthy
    Doesn't love dogs
    My cat will eat your dog. Is that a deal breaker? :p

    I saw someone say if they're vegan and that they were joking sort of. I would never date a vegan. I see "I am a vegan" and I run far, far away. From my experience the "vegan" people and I do not get along. I like to grow my burgers from babies then carve off what I want. I do not see anything wrong with this and I a hell of a lot nicer killing animals then animals are when they kill animals. At least I am not chewing their guts out while their squirming around. I don't care if you rip carrots out of the ground and sever them at the roots so leave me and Bessy alone.

    When I dated (eight years ago haha) deal breakers were a long list
    Smoker (of any kind)
    No job
    No motivation
    Had to be at least 5'10"
    Etcetera

    I ended up with a unemployed (but very tall) smoker. He is employed now, he still smokes. My new list would probably be
    What's their credit score?
    Are you employed?



    ....yeah that's it.
  • paintedr3d
    paintedr3d Posts: 40
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    Some of you are asking how do you find this information out on the first date. Well I hope before there is a first date two people are either calling, texting, or sharing emails back and forth. Why waste each other's time if you can't get straight to the deal breakers. I know what I want to date and I hope the other person knows what they want also. As far as the DEBT goes, well $10,000 is concider managable debt anything after that regardless of what kind of debt it is, its alarming and I dont want to marry someone and I end up taking there debt over because they chose to have poor money skills. Good thing I dont have to worry about this, since I am in a long term relationship. Keep counting those calories.


    HELL YEA!!!!!! MAN I AGREE WITH YOU ALL THE WAY. LADIES DON'T BASH HIM BECAUSE HE'S BEING COMPLETELY REALISTIC. WHEN I WAS YOUNGER ILL ADMIT I DIDN'T CARE ABOUT THAT STUFF BUT NOW NOT BEING ABLE TO MANAGE HER MONEY IS A TURN OFF. AND YES ON A FIRST DATE ID YOU ACTUALLY TALK ABOUT IMPORTANTNTHINGS YOU CAN FIND ALL THIS OUT. ALSO SOMEONE SAID "CHEMISTRY" EARLIER WELL CHEMISTRY CAN BE BUILT, AND IF YOU BELIEVE OTHER WISE YOUR NOT GIVING ANYONE A FAIR CHANCE PEOPLE PUT TO MUCH EMPHASIS ON STUFF LIKE THAT WHEN THEY IGNORE WHAT MATTERS MOST, COMPATIBILITY. AND WHILE WE ARE ON THIS TOPIC, LADIES BE GOAL ORIENTED! I CAN'T STRESS THAT ENOUGH, I DONT CARE WHAT GOALS YOU HAVE BIG OR SMALL JUST HAVE THE DRIVE AND ASPIRATIONS TO MEET THOSE GOALS.
  • myersmomma
    myersmomma Posts: 303
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    If you have bad breath...
  • whatshouldieat
    whatshouldieat Posts: 101 Member
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    Thank you for your MFP support here.
  • Lulzaroonie
    Lulzaroonie Posts: 222 Member
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    ...if you're disrespectful of anyone, while in my presence. This includes racism, homophobia, sexism, bigotry, misogyny... I could go on...

    What is it that is so damn hard about just being nice to other people, whether you're saying it to someone or about them? Just shut up and be nice, it won't kill you!

    Obviously I won't completely write you off if you happen to say something, and I say something like, "I would prefer if you didn't talk like that, we should try to respect everyone, regardless of whether we disagree" and if they continue or don't care, Bye bye....
  • stephelan
    stephelan Posts: 81
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    If they tell me they respect Tom Brady as a quarterback or if they idolize any rapists or dog killers....

    Haha! Why does Tom Brady fall into the same category as rapists or dog killers? I think this video is for you:
    http://youtu.be/aeYepdj1Hfs


    As for the topic, I went on a blind date with a friend's recommendation the other night and he spent the whole time comparing me to his past dates and asking me questions like: "What do you look for in your ideal man." and trying to tell me how the "AVERAGE" girl would react in certain situations.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
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    one guy recently took me out. He was tall, good looking, maybe talked about himself a little much, but how else do you get to know a person? And, then at the end, he bought a bottle of wine and mentioned something about coming over to drink it. To which I replied I was going to sleep. He said he was, too. I said not at my place. He then proceeded to repeatedly ask about staying and said he would sleep on the couch, even, if I felt better about it. I said I did not. He dropped me off and asked yet again. I said no. I went inside an he called 10 times and texted 3 that night asking if I'd changed my mind.... yea, no second date for him.
  • kitkat212
    kitkat212 Posts: 7 Member
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    If you are overly agreeable, have chest or back hair and wear socks with sandals
  • Coffeeholic8
    Coffeeholic8 Posts: 270 Member
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    Can I just get clarification of the rules here?

    Am I right in thinking you actually have to have a first date before you can say no to the second date? I think this is where I'm going wrong, no first dates. :cry: :brokenheart: :tongue:
  • bestbassist
    bestbassist Posts: 177 Member
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    If she has kids, is a feminist or religious in any, way she'd be history.
  • Lulzaroonie
    Lulzaroonie Posts: 222 Member
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    Being late - once had a date who was 3 hours late and never again. Rudeness would come in a close second.

    You waited for three hours? I'd have gone home after the first hour!
  • Lulzaroonie
    Lulzaroonie Posts: 222 Member
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    If she has kids, is a feminist or religious in any, way she'd be history.

    I'm almost 100% sure I shouldn't ask, but why would you not want a woman to be a feminist?
  • paintedr3d
    paintedr3d Posts: 40
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    If she has kids, is a feminist or religious in any, way she'd be history.

    I'm almost 100% sure I shouldn't ask, but why would you not want a woman to be a feminist?

    THEY HAVE NO SENSE OF HUMOUR AND TAKE THEMSELVES WAY TO SERIOUSLY THEY CAN'T LAUGH AT THEMSELVES AND MOST OF THE TIME JUST A PLAIN *****. AND EVERY FEMINIST I'VE MET GET PISSED AT MEN FOR HAVING A SET WAY OF THINKING INSTEAD OF BEING UPSET WITH OTHER FEMALES WHO PERPETUATE THE STEREOTYPE.
  • TheRealJigsaw
    TheRealJigsaw Posts: 295 Member
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    Some of you are asking how do you find this information out on the first date. Well I hope before there is a first date two people are either calling, texting, or sharing emails back and forth. Why waste each other's time if you can't get straight to the deal breakers. I know what I want to date and I hope the other person knows what they want also. As far as the DEBT goes, well $10,000 is concider managable debt anything after that regardless of what kind of debt it is, its alarming and I dont want to marry someone and I end up taking there debt over because they chose to have poor money skills. Good thing I dont have to worry about this, since I am in a long term relationship. Keep counting those calories.


    HELL YEA!!!!!! MAN I AGREE WITH YOU ALL THE WAY. LADIES DON'T BASH HIM BECAUSE HE'S BEING COMPLETELY REALISTIC. WHEN I WAS YOUNGER ILL ADMIT I DIDN'T CARE ABOUT THAT STUFF BUT NOW NOT BEING ABLE TO MANAGE HER MONEY IS A TURN OFF. AND YES ON A FIRST DATE ID YOU ACTUALLY TALK ABOUT IMPORTANTNTHINGS YOU CAN FIND ALL THIS OUT. ALSO SOMEONE SAID "CHEMISTRY" EARLIER WELL CHEMISTRY CAN BE BUILT, AND IF YOU BELIEVE OTHER WISE YOUR NOT GIVING ANYONE A FAIR CHANCE PEOPLE PUT TO MUCH EMPHASIS ON STUFF LIKE THAT WHEN THEY IGNORE WHAT MATTERS MOST, COMPATIBILITY. AND WHILE WE ARE ON THIS TOPIC, LADIES BE GOAL ORIENTED! I CAN'T STRESS THAT ENOUGH, I DONT CARE WHAT GOALS YOU HAVE BIG OR SMALL JUST HAVE THE DRIVE AND ASPIRATIONS TO MEET THOSE GOALS.


    Why are you yelling?
  • paintedr3d
    paintedr3d Posts: 40
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    My bad.
  • bestbassist
    bestbassist Posts: 177 Member
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    If she has kids, is a feminist or religious in any, way she'd be history.

    I'm almost 100% sure I shouldn't ask, but why would you not want a woman to be a feminist?

    Apart from what what paintedr3d mentioned, I only want to date a woman who gets by on her own merit, without needing the government or affirmative action holding her hand. I don't want to date a woman with such a corrosive herd mentality, or a woman who doesn't respect men, and mostly, I don't want to date a child or any other self-entitled, self-absorbed, princess-minded, toxic parasite.

    http://avoiceformen.com

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