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jasmineconley
jasmineconley Posts: 438 Member
Are you the real you at all times, or are you the person you think others want you to be?
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  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
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    real take it or leave it.

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  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
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    On the internet I am not shy at all.

    IRL? That's another story.
  • tryingsooohard
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    Ok here we go.year 10 i got subscribed dexys and I got honours in just about every subject.(got ds and I got As)still today I have them but only on days off and tend to smoke and drink more than I normally would.i bench 140 comfortably and really still perform at the gym.i need a personal opinion on what to do?
  • jasmineconley
    jasmineconley Posts: 438 Member
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    On the internet I am not shy at all.

    IRL? That's another story.

    Why would you want to be shy irl?
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
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    I'm just a figment of your imagination.
  • jasmineconley
    jasmineconley Posts: 438 Member
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    real take it or leave it.

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    I totally feel you on that! I'm the same in person as I am online as I am to a stranger or a friend. Why bother with changing up around everyone?
  • jasmineconley
    jasmineconley Posts: 438 Member
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    I'm just a figment of your imagination.

    You are not the catrinah I am seeking..... ;)
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
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    I only try to please the voices in my head.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
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    I am what you want to believe I am.
  • Sharkington
    Sharkington Posts: 485
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    I DON'T KNOW ANYMORE!! :cry:
  • JeneticTraining
    JeneticTraining Posts: 663 Member
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    I think most of the time we're all actors. But, when we are vulnerable we're showing our core self
  • jasmineconley
    jasmineconley Posts: 438 Member
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    Those are the best to please . They let you sleep at night ;)
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
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    I am always real, and you have to know my personality often times to understand me. So random strangers I will just make a comment to, or say things on the internet that can easily be mistaken as an innuendo or some other type of meaning.

    my thought is if people dont like me, oh well...
  • jasmineconley
    jasmineconley Posts: 438 Member
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    I am what you want to believe I am.

    But what if I don't believe anyone to be anything in particular?
  • jasmineconley
    jasmineconley Posts: 438 Member
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    I DON'T KNOW ANYMORE!! :cry:

    I give you props for honesty :)
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
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    I am always me. I have no choice, unfortunately.
  • Teddy_B
    Teddy_B Posts: 69 Member
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    Everyone pretends to be someone else at some time. Even if it's only a little or only to certain people.
  • Ramberta
    Ramberta Posts: 1,312 Member
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    I grew up obsessing over what people thought about me, and it continued up through college (because let's be real, going away to a university is extremely similar to high school)

    But a few years ago I finally stopped giving a *kitten*. I'm pretty darn real, I say what I think, I share real things about my life, and I'm not ashamed to be silly or controversial or outspoken. However, the one caveat to that is that I fully believe in picking your battles, because unnecessary drama is... well... unnecessary.

    Pretty much the only situation where I still act 'fake' is when I'm new at a job, or around customers -- because you can never let on that you are angry or upset when you work in retail. I've gotten really good at plastering on a smile when I would love nothing more than to say "well **** you too ma'am" to a b!tchy customer...
  • jasmineconley
    jasmineconley Posts: 438 Member
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    I think most of the time we're all actors. But, when we are vulnerable we're showing our core self

    Unfortunately there are a lot of actors in this world. There is no being naked like being vulnerable.
  • kennie2
    kennie2 Posts: 1,171 Member
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    On the internet I am not shy at all.

    IRL? That's another story.

    thats me summed up.