Anyone Else get Upset When Someone Say U Got Big Bewbs!

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  • BarbaraCarr1981
    BarbaraCarr1981 Posts: 903 Member
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    Of all the things not to get annoyed about...this ranks fairly high. If you have big boobs...you do. Or you don't. I used to...now I don't, reallly. Whatever. Now....spelling it "bewbs".....THATS annoying.

    bewbs bewbs bewbs bewbs!!!
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    what is this "normal" you speak of?

    I wear a size 36 c. That size should be considered normal to everyone in my book... I don't like when men say they are big either. Just tell me im hot or something - don't pin point a body part. Thanks

    I would consider that normal, but maybe your sister is smaller. Maybe she wishes she could be a 36c. Coincidentally, I'm presently a D-cup and even though my goal is to lose another 40 or 50 lbs, I'm dreading that I might lose it in my breasts... considering I was a double D before losing 90 lbs.
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
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    what is this "normal" you speak of?

    I wear a size 36 c. That size should be considered normal to everyone in my book... I don't like when men say they are big either. Just tell me im hot or something - don't pin point a body part. Thanks

    apparently you miss the fact "normal" is subjective. There truly is no such thing as "normal". Shoot learn to embrace your body and don't hate what you have been blessed with. I love my girls - and I am a 42D and to me that is "normal".

    So basically suck it up cupcake and enjoy life and your girls
  • alisonlynn1976
    alisonlynn1976 Posts: 929 Member
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    I like my breasts. It is pretty dumb when a stranger informs me that they're big, though. Yeah, wow, I HAD NO IDEA.
  • BarbaraCarr1981
    BarbaraCarr1981 Posts: 903 Member
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    I like my breasts. It is pretty dumb when a stranger informs me that they're big, though. Yeah, wow, I HAD NO IDEA.

    I like this comment :)
  • southpaw211
    southpaw211 Posts: 385 Member
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    Anyone else get upset when someone (like ur sister) says u got big bewbs? I freaking hate being associated with "big"!!! Anything. I like to be normal. Normal bewbs, normal face, just normal normal normal. NOT big!!! Big is bad to me.... Thank God that when I told my hubby this, he said he loves my bewbs and that they are normal size!!!

    Nobody has ever said that to me, although my husband does not want them to get any smaller (though I would like them to drop a cup size over the next few months).

    HOWEVER, I just wanted to say I'm going to spell it "bewbs" from now on because every time I read that it cracks me up! :laugh:
  • Sqeekyjojo
    Sqeekyjojo Posts: 704 Member
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    Normal's vastly overrated.






    Nonetheless, average bra size in the US is 34B/36C. Which is actually the same volume of breast, it's the back/ribcage measurement that makes the difference.


    If anyone knows the mode value, that's the one that the highest proportion of women buy. As most are incorrectly fitted, this includes a hell of a lot of over optimistic 36s who should really be in 38s, because many ranges stop at 36. That size is given online as being 34B. (but of course, there are lots of variables that affect the validity of the claim, such as did they ask specialist manufacturers, other companies that only offer up to 36D, is it based upon sales or retailer orders, etc?)

    The median value is the one slap bang in the middle. That will be a lot higher, simply because of the existence of very large sizes, no matter how small the numbers of women who buy them, as would the range and mean value.





    It's a fairly inappropriate comment for anybody to make, so I would treat it with the distain it deserves. Don't flatter them by asking for reassurance.
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
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    You're a nice sister. I would say, "Yep, they're almost as big as your penis".
  • calibriintx
    calibriintx Posts: 1,741 Member
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    Nope. But I guess it depends on who is saying it and how. If someone uses the phrase tig ole bitties, fun bags, knockers, etc. it irritates me. They just don't sound like they're referring to something "pretty" and my b00bs are fantastic. I do wish they were a little smaller just so I could buy bras anywhere rather than the super expensive lingerie store, but I don't dislike them. They are big and honesty doesn't offend me.

    I guess you could compare it to being called overweight vs fat. If someone described me as overweight or a little heavy, I wouldn't be offended. But if they said I was fat or chunky, it would p1ss me off because those sound like insults, rather than generic descriptions. I'm sure some people aren't bothered by the word fat, others may find overweight offensive and prefer curvy (even though, IMO, that's more about shape than size or weight, but I hear that word thrown around a lot to describe size/weight) and I'm sure some women with small b00bs might prefer to be described as perky or something (even though big b00bs can be perky too). If someone says it and it bugs you, just remember that it's one persons opinion. There aren't "normal" b00bs. One persons big is another persons too big or too small, just right, etc. Plenty of other things to worry about.
  • SnazzyTraveller
    SnazzyTraveller Posts: 458 Member
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    You'll feel differently about it when you grow up.

    Lol, ouch?

    I have no problem at all with having big boobs. Wouldn't have it any other way
  • gr8pillock
    gr8pillock Posts: 374 Member
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    be proud to have big boobs

    THIS!

    Every post I've seen where someone complained about having big boobs makes me want to spit and kick. I theorize every woman complaining about big boobs (especially in public) is just trying to draw attention to the fact that they have big boobs. If anyone really dislikes their big'uns, don't complain, go get a reduction, move on...

    Might be just me. 34DDD here.
  • 5n0wbal1
    5n0wbal1 Posts: 429 Member
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    I wish someone would tell me I had big boobs. I don't and never have. The biggest I've had is at the peak of engorgement (when my milk came in for my kids) and I swelled to a small C. I'm usually a small B, big A.
    My husband tells me I have a nice butt. Not a big one. That makes me feel warm and fuzzy, but then he told me that before we got married, he knew guys who would think of my butt as a visual during their "personal time"...now that made me uncomfortable.:sick:
  • iWaffle
    iWaffle Posts: 2,208 Member
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    I don't like when men say they are big either. Just tell me im hot or something - don't pin point a body part. Thanks

    Your aura is luminous and warm.
  • brower47
    brower47 Posts: 16,356 Member
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    I wear a C 36. That should be considered normal to everyone in my book....

    To me, having boobs in general is 'normal' for women, size (except in extreme situation) is not.
  • nikkis01
    nikkis01 Posts: 45 Member
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    I have 42HH boobs - and they're not big, they are massive!! They are always getting attention (them, not me) and I wouldn't change them for the world! If you wear the right bra they don't give you backache or bad posture! I have just started my weight loss journey and I will be gutted when they get smaller - so far, 30lb down and none off my boobs, get in!!! :D:D:D
  • VorJoshigan
    VorJoshigan Posts: 1,106 Member
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    I used to, but my boobs are a lot smaller now.
  • TiaFerrera
    TiaFerrera Posts: 93
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    I just get upset at spelling them as "bewbs" wth
  • vixtris
    vixtris Posts: 688 Member
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    ill take your boobs, i have small ones.
  • liz111006
    liz111006 Posts: 26
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    One time, when I was visiting my family, my sister, who mind you is an adult, picked up my bra and put it on her head, simply because it fit. And then apparently, I wasn't there, decided to show every person in the house that it fit. Awkward.
  • greeneyes0809
    greeneyes0809 Posts: 422 Member
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    I try not to be upset when people are merely stating facts