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    boyfriend trouble. help a girl out?

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    • Posts: 2,305 Member
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      It's called grooming behavior. He is trying to get you in bed with other women. He is trying to both set the stage and illicit a response from you to open that door.

      Move on.

      ohh *kitten* he did bring it up twice.
    • Posts: 381 Member
      Drop the douche fast, very fast! He is purposely trying to get you jealous. Sorry, but he sounds like a big A-HOLE!
    • Posts: 97 Member
      what an asshat. you can do better. :)
    • Posts: 813 Member
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      It's called grooming behavior. He is trying to get you in bed with other women. He is trying to both set the stage and illicit a response from you to open that door.

      Move on.

      my thoughts exactly. he's seeing how willing you are to play around and make it more of a team sport!
    • Posts: 6,573 Member
      My guy would never do that and never has in the 30+ years we've been together but then he thinks I am the hottest woman and tells me so.
    • Posts: 148
      He sounds like a narcissist. Does he ever tell you how pretty YOU are? That's where his focus should be!
    • Posts: 2,082 Member
      He is just looking for a third teammate and wants to see if you are game.

      Honestly this guy just a disrespectful loser. And as hot as you are you you should chalk the 8 months as a loss and find a dude that would drink your bathwater. ( Not literally that is gross...unless you are into that :ohwell: )
    • Posts: 642 Member
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      What if it's a hot guy?

      Then I'll say so. We're very open with each other.
    • Posts: 1,126 Member
      Maybe he is testing you and trying to bait you to say something. He might WANT you to care.

      ****ing games people play. SIGH
    • Posts: 26
      In my personal opinion.. I would leave him.
      He obviously doesn't see what a catch you are...
      I don't know you personally or him.. but judging by your profile pics
      and the fact that you have ask for other peoples opinions.. You seem
      like a very pretty and intelligent lady.. I think you could do much better than him.
      If he can't see that it bothers you or that you are fond of him saying things like that..
      then maybe he needs a reality check.
    • Posts: 30
      I'm seeing him tonight so I'm going to bring it up. I'll keep you posted.
    • Posts: 1,258 Member
      Break up.
    • Posts: 290 Member
      I had a long term bf who was telling me that he wanted to have lots of hot female buddies because he thought it was cool + he pointed big boobs on the street to me. He wanted to be a web designer so he was offering to do free web sites to models/pretty girls. Guess what? He cheated on me with a vide chat girl!
      Run away while you still can because sooner or later he will hurt you.
    • Posts: 1,126 Member
      I'm always amazed by the level of doucheyness that I hear of from women. Men really **** you over.
    • Posts: 2,305 Member
      I'm seeing him tonight so I'm going to bring it up. I'll keep you posted.

      OMG, the cliffhanger of greys anatomy and now this!?! I'm gonna rip my pyjamas in a minute!

      so. much. anticipation!
    • Posts: 1,018 Member
      It's called grooming behavior. He is trying to get you in bed with other women. He is trying to both set the stage and illicit a response from you to open that door.

      Move on.

      Yep.

      Either get adventurous or move on.

      If you do get adventurous though we'd all appreciate an update (with photos).
    • Posts: 328 Member
      It isn't often I say this, but he sounds like an absolute *kitten*.

      I would send him packing.
    • Posts: 739
      I think there are 2 possible things going on here, the first is what Chaelaz said and the second is maybe he is purposely trying to make you jealous to see your reaction. I have known guys who purposely make their gf's/wives jealous because it boosts their ego. I don't know why you would want to purposely make someone jealous but some people seem to enjoy or get off on it.



      ^^ Right here^^ He is a azz clown douche nozzle, you outta move on. Many more decent guys out here .....

      I just checked out your profile, You are an extremely attractive young woman, you need to send him packing. You should have no problem finding a decent guy ......
    • Posts: 551 Member
      I'm always amazed by the level of doucheyness that I hear of from women. Men really **** you over.

      Yes. But only when we let them. Women rule the world, and so many are insecure. Scary.
    • Posts: 2,855 Member
      Didn't we have a fake thread just like this one yesterday?
    • Posts: 4,021 Member
      Clearly, your boyfriend is a jerk, but you teach people how to treat you. This guy has been doing this for 8 months because you've allowed him to. You should've told him you had a problem with it a long time ago. Dump him, and use your free time to develop some respect for yourself.
    • Posts: 2,332 Member
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      It's called grooming behavior. He is trying to get you in bed with other women. He is trying to both set the stage and illicit a response from you to open that door.

      Move on.

      ^^ this...he wants a threesome ...you're boy is a perverted freak...which is awesome if you like that sort of thing (I do) but if you're not into it you need to move on...cause he isn't going to change.
    • Posts: 41
      He sounds totally disrespectful of your relationship! I learned the hard way that if someone you're in a relationship with jokes about cheating on you, the idea is already planted into their head. Perhaps you should try tell him that you're uncomfortable when he talks about other women in such ways and see how he responds. If he gets upset at you for just trying to talk about how you're feeling, it might be time to reevaluate the relationship.
    • Posts: 246 Member
      Next time he jokes about it! Just be like sort it out! How old are you? Sounds all very childish behaviour to me!!!!
    • Posts: 33 Member
      hhhmmmmmm.....if it walks like a *kitten*,talks like a *kitten*,then in all reality,it is infact a *kitten*.a nice guy,a good guy wouldnt disrespect you that way.someone who cares about you doesnt talk about other women,etc.walk away now while you still have some self respect remaining.
    • Posts: 246 Member
      Plus! He sould count himself lucky! You're bloody stunning!
    • Posts: 1,791 Member
      I think you should find someone who is a man instead of a douchecanoe.

      douchecanoe could be one of my new favorites, right along with twatwaffle
    • Posts: 363 Member
      You don\t sound insecure at all - HE sounds like an asshat, period. When you REALLY care about - and especially love - someone, you wouldn't behave in such a way that you know would make the other person uncomfortable, which is what he seems to be constantly doing to you without any guilt. Perhaps it's because he's an insecure little boy inside, but that still doesn't excuse the things he's saying to you and the things he's doing. Such as, HOW is it appropriate for him to be sleeping at his female friend's house - was it just the two of them there? If so, that's SO not okay.. which pretty much sums up ALL of his actions. Ask yourself: if YOU did and said the things he's done to you, would HE get upset about it? Obviously he would, but he doesn't seem to care about your feelings. You deserve better and I really don't think this relationship is going to get any better (speaking from experience) - do yourself a favour, get out while it's still early and dump his *kitten*.
    • Posts: 147
      sounds like a little boy to me who needs a lot of growing up to do. we need men in our lives not BOYS :)
    • Posts: 814 Member
      don't have any advice you haven't been given already...but i really wanna hear the rest of this....
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