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  • Posts: 820 Member
    I hope they like it, because I am a natural flirt. I do it without even realizing it, i'm very glad i have an understanding husband who is also a natural flirt and understands where I coming from.
  • Posts: 117 Member
    "Do guys like a girl that flirts?" Errrrm, have you MET men?

    You don't need an answer, just give it a try and see what happens.

    Personally, my hubby and I are both outrageous flirts with all of our friends. They all know it's harmless and the vast majority of them join in, it's part of what keeps us feeling young and vivacious as we get older. Try it on for size - I think you'll like it. :wink:
  • Posts: 3,965 Member
    What is flirting anyway. I get accused of it even when I'm just goofing around and being friendly.

    Haha same here...
  • Posts: 493 Member
    You can always play it cool like RDJ:

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  • Posts: 2,780 Member
    This girl has no traffic tickets. Know what I mean?
  • Posts: 3,303 Member
    I dont mean to brag, and Cartman knows I am a 3, but I have gotten out of a ticket from a female cop just by being real smoove and funny!
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    you could ask the guy out instead of trying to flirt when it really isn't your style.

    guys appreciate when a woman is straight forward and just asks them to coffee or dinner.

    i'm a real dumb *kitten* and i'm slow to pick up on when a girl flirting or just being nice its confusing even to this day
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    who farted?

    LOL!!
  • Posts: 3,965 Member
    I have gotten out of a ticket from a female cop just by being real smoove and funny!

    you?? :huh:
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    you?? :huh:

    Yes me, I think I was drunk at the time!
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    Yes me, I think I was drunk at the time!

    aahhhh ok that makes more sense
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    Yes me, I think I was drunk at the time!

    Nice...I used to get stopped for no reason all the time. Until that one cop moved out of town lol. I think he was stalking me lol.
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    ^ this was in Alexandria VA circa 2002/03. I was doing 40 in a 30 zone, got flagged, had this stupid grin on my face, the lady was a blonde, decent looking, let me off the hook with a verbal warning, which I thoroughly enjoyed.
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    Sure I like it but only when its more subtle. If you're laying it on too thick it comes across as obnoxious. Your body language usually gives away your interest level before you start talking anyways. :tongue:
  • Posts: 1,643 Member
    Of course. I don't see any harm in it. If she buys me a drink........even better. :)
  • Posts: 566 Member
    Yes, I do so long as it is done in a non-creepy way and it isn't over the top. Sure, why not?
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    Yes me, I think I was drunk at the time!

    Drinking and driving??? M.A.D.D
  • Posts: 2,305 Member
    I can say for sure, i not into girls that flirt with everyone.

    id say if you are trying to let him know, come on softly.

    I think straight forward from a non committal angle is best.

    "you know theres this great _______* that I've been meaning to go to, I thought maybe we could go together?"

    in this one sentence you make it clear that you like him without coming on too strong, but it makes it easy for either party to save face if it turns out that if hes not into you.

    * stands for waffle house, restaurant, bar, art gallery, sports event, whatever you are into. it would also help if you have something in common. that helps.



    thats how I do business.
  • Posts: 2,312 Member
    I like it when a girl flirts. I am just usually oblivious to the fact that it is occurring :-/
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    I can say for sure, i not into girls that flirt with everyone.

    id say if you are trying to let him know, come on softly.

    I think straight forward from a non committal angle is best.

    "you know theres this great _______* that I've been meaning to go to, I thought maybe we could go together?"

    in this one sentence you make it clear that you like him without coming on too strong, but it makes it easy for either party to save face if it turns out that if hes not into you.

    * stands for waffle house, restaurant, bar, art gallery, sports event, whatever you are into. it would also help if you have something in common. that helps.



    thats how I do business.

    Brilliant. I plan on using these tools, since I am the worst at figuring this out, on my own.
    :flowerforyou:
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    Thanks for that answer I am really serious!! I have a guy who I would like to go out with but I have no idea how to let him know Im interested..

    Flirt a little, but not too much. Don't make him think you are a *kitten*.
  • Posts: 137
    heck yes, as long as they can deal with being flirted back at
  • Posts: 1,337 Member
    I'm married, so I'm basically dead when it comes to flirting. However, I find it a turn on when a man can match wits with me - which I consider a delicate form of flirting. The less blatant it is, the better.
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    Brilliant. I plan on using these tools, since I am the worst at figuring this out, on my own.
    :flowerforyou:

    That's not subtle, that's pretty straight forward in my opinion.

    "I'm going dancing tonight down at XYZ bar. I love dancing and I can shake my hips and butt like no other. I understand it's a real turn on to guys, but I don't really have anyone to watch me do it. Oh well, at least I'll have fun anyways grinding away on my girlfriends."

    Now THAT is how you get a man's attention.
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    That's not subtle, that's pretty straight forward in my opinion.

    "I'm going dancing tonight down at XYZ bar. I love dancing and I can shake my hips and butt like no other. I understand it's a real turn on to guys, but I don't really have anyone to watch me do it. Oh well, at least I'll have fun anyways grinding away on my girlfriends."

    Now THAT is how you get a man's attention.

    Give me the address to "XYZ" bar....when you headed there? :laugh: :laugh:
  • Posts: 4,907 Member
    Ehhhh.....Id personally go with none of the above. To me, flirting is simply introducing myself and from there, it's not about a zingy one liner....it's about body language and conversation. It's much less about what I say and more about how I say it. Details people!! :)
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    I'm married, so I'm basically dead when it comes to flirting. However, I find it a turn on when a man can match wits with me - which I consider a delicate form of flirting. The less blatant it is, the better.

    agree. its an art form.
  • Posts: 2,900 Member
    Sure I like it but only when its more subtle. If you're laying it on too thick it comes across as obnoxious. Your body language usually gives away your interest level before you start talking anyways. :tongue:

    ^^ this is usually why I smile to show interest. I never want to be seen as the obnoxious chick.
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    Ehhhh.....Id personally go with none of the above. To me, flirting is simply introducing myself and from there, it's not about a zingy one liner....it's about body language and conversation. It's much less about what I say and more about how I say it. Details people!! :)

    how YOU doin?
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    agree. its an art form.

    Well HELLLOOOOOO, Mr. DaVinci.
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