Infidelity & MFP - What Gives?

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  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
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    I cant say that I've seen infidelity in the forums/among my friends (but I also dont normally peruse this "chit-chat" forum because I dont find most of the topics beneficial to my weight loss journey). With that being said, I respect my husband and our marriage so I dont entertain ANY conversations that (1) I wouldnt want him to have with other women and (2) that I would NOT have in his presence.


    ^^^^^^^^^^^I feel the same way^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^. I am on here for one thing and one thing only. Weight loss and if that is not your purpose of being in my MFP circle...you can step!!!

    This topic has nothing to do with weight loss, and yet, you replied to it...in the Chit Chat forum. Apparently, weight loss isn't the only thing thing you're here for. You're also here to share your opinion.

    Apperently I can respond to what the hell I want to and dont need your approval or reponse. GTFOH

    Wow so angry, and it's Apparently
  • Iron_Maiden
    Iron_Maiden Posts: 326 Member
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    I agree with you in that people's conduct online should be such that they wouldn't be uncomfortable saying those things in front of their spouse in real life.

    Really, though . . . this is the internet. Have you ever read the comments section below any news story, video, editorial, etc.? All sorts of people come out of the woodwork. Concerning yourself with their morality is very overwhelming and not likely to be productive!
    Definitely! Lesson learned mama!. :flowerforyou: (it was just a simple question to cause all this fuss) hahah
  • downinaggieland98
    downinaggieland98 Posts: 224 Member
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    You said something that's going to hit a little too close to home for a lot of people.

    Expect them to react poorly.

    Doesn't mean you're wrong.


    Definitely this ^

    I'm with ya. I don't need or want to flirt, I don't get it? Totally happy with my choice.
  • Morninglory81
    Morninglory81 Posts: 1,190 Member
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    In my time here, I've witnessed a fair amount of dating, canvasing, flirting, propositioning, attention seeking, etc (whatever you want to call it - in it's many shades) among married people. Tho single, I've been married and and have full respect for the institution (forgive the pun).

    If there's one thing I really love... it's getting marriage advice from people who failed at it.
    Snap!:noway:
  • Iron_Maiden
    Iron_Maiden Posts: 326 Member
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    This thread is making me horny.
    You're welcome

    Don't feel too special. Everything makes me horny.
    Would've never guess that!
  • avlama
    avlama Posts: 502 Member
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    I just found out this thing had a food diary yesterday.

    lol...awesome
  • Iron_Maiden
    Iron_Maiden Posts: 326 Member
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    In my time here, I've witnessed a fair amount of dating, canvasing, flirting, propositioning, attention seeking, etc (whatever you want to call it - in it's many shades) among married people. Tho single, I've been married and and have full respect for the institution (forgive the pun).

    If there's one thing I really love... it's getting marriage advice from people who failed at it.
    Snap!:noway:
    No, not really a "snap". More of a "meh".
  • BOOMaggedon
    BOOMaggedon Posts: 244 Member
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    This thread is making me horny.
    You're welcome

    Don't feel too special. Everything makes me horny.

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  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
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    This thread is making me horny.
    You're welcome

    Don't feel too special. Everything makes me horny.

    we know.:drinker:
  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
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    I came to MFP to do two things lose some weight and judge people's personal lives, and I'm almost out of weight to lose
  • ACepero79
    ACepero79 Posts: 711 Member
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    In the time it took for this thread to get to 5 pages, I've sent 10 junk shots. Just sayin.
  • mdjcpa75
    mdjcpa75 Posts: 17
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    I just found out this thing had a food diary yesterday.

    There's a food diary here? :huh:

    Yeah, I'm still lost!!! There's a FOOD DIARY?!?!? WHERE !!!!!!!!!
  • TX_Thundercat
    TX_Thundercat Posts: 2,437 Member
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    I came to MFP to do two things lose some weight and judge people's personal lives, and I'm almost out of weight to lose

    And the infidelity, right?
  • crista_b
    crista_b Posts: 1,192 Member
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    I cant say that I've seen infidelity in the forums/among my friends (but I also dont normally peruse this "chit-chat" forum because I dont find most of the topics beneficial to my weight loss journey). With that being said, I respect my husband and our marriage so I dont entertain ANY conversations that (1) I wouldnt want him to have with other women and (2) that I would NOT have in his presence.


    ^^^^^^^^^^^I feel the same way^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^. I am on here for one thing and one thing only. Weight loss and if that is not your purpose of being in my MFP circle...you can step!!!

    This topic has nothing to do with weight loss, and yet, you replied to it...in the Chit Chat forum. Apparently, weight loss isn't the only thing thing you're here for. You're also here to share your opinion.

    Apperently I can respond to what the hell I want to and dont need your approval or reponse. GTFOH
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  • TX_Thundercat
    TX_Thundercat Posts: 2,437 Member
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    In the time it took for this thread to get to 5 pages already, I've sent 10 junk shots. Just sayin.

    True story. Two of them were sent to me...
  • LuHox
    LuHox Posts: 136
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    For everyone saying "why would you care" and "it's none of your business" IMO it's not about how people work their own relationship/marriage. If both partners are aware and okay with whatever it is you're doing on the internet forums these days that's one thing. I kind of got the impression the OP was about things that are being hidden from one's S/O.

    Because hiding things is always healthy for a relationship. Only good can come of it.

    Also, for everyone who's flirting and hiding it, there's someone on the other side of that relationship with the potential to get hurt badly. Are you totally insensitive to these people?
  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
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    In the time it took for this thread to get to 5 pages, I've sent 10 junk shots. Just sayin.

    Knew I shouldn't have clicked my message box
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
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    Perhaps your definition of infidelity differs to that of other people's?

    Other relationships understand harmless flirting doesn't always lead to rolling around in the bed sheets.

    I had my own comment in mind until I read this one...it sums it up quite nicely!!
  • Capt_Inzane
    Capt_Inzane Posts: 733 Member
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    I'm single but I can't wait until I become Internet porn candy to the ladies...
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
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    This thread is making me horny.
    You're welcome

    Don't feel too special. Everything makes me horny.

    I like you. :flowerforyou:
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