creepy conduct!!

I'm just going to shoot straight!! I've just been told by one of my former MFP friends through PM that my conduct on the forums is "creepy" and this former friend then proceeded to hurl all manner of insults at me!! I disagree! I think my conduct on the forums has been as good or bad as anyone else's!!

I guess those who have seen my posts on the forums can tell me if they agree with my former friend or not!! And please be truthful! No punches pulled! And also at what point does conduct, especially on the threads that carry a lot of sexual connotations become creepy? Anybody care to elaborate?

From what i have seen of you in the forums,you are not a bad person.You shoot straight from the heart and are too touchy for my taste .You are definitely not a creeper but you hardly think twice before saying anything ever.You could really use some social tactic for the lack of a better word imo

see, i have no idea if he is creepy or not.

BUT...

i've enough experience to know that the public face a person presents is no proof that they aren't an utter turd in private. you can't say he's 'definitely' not a creeper.

(well, clearly you can say it. but it doesn't carry much weight.)

Okay, Runner, we are friends and you have done nothing towards me that I found creepy. However, if any of what stephx4 or ironaddict86 said are true, then you might want to reexamine your conduct. Asking a woman, whom you only know through mfp and is in a happily committed relationship, to leave her partner, is crossing the line. Also, if there have been multiple complaints about you by other women, you should look at yourself and think about things you've said, it's unlikely that it's a coincidence if there have been that many complaints.

Like I said, we are friends on here and I am not trying to be rude or upset you, but you did ask for brutal honesty. Just my two cents.

Okay, Runner, we are friends and you have done nothing towards me that I found creepy. However, if any of what stephx4 or ironaddict86 said are true, then you might want to reexamine your conduct. Asking a woman, whom you only know through mfp and is in a happily committed relationship, to leave her partner, is crossing the line. Also, if there have been multiple complaints about you by other women, you should look at yourself and think about things you've said, it's unlikely that it's a coincidence if there have been that many complaints.

Like I said, we are friends on here and I am not trying to be rude or upset you, but you did ask for brutal honesty. Just my two cents.

Keep in mind, though, that he is from a different culture. If you are his friend you know he hands out compliments. I personally have never found any of them to be creepy, but for people that don't realize that it's just the kind of person he is may get creeped out or offended by it. Although, Tsephe, you may want to figure out how a person will react to compliments before you give them out as often as you do. :flowerforyou: Some people may find it off putting (obviously!)

Sorry, buddy, I know I said I wouldn't reply to this one, but I couldn't help myself lol.

I'm a girl, so I can say the same things as a guy but not be considered creepy. =p

I'm an aesthetic male, I also posses the ability to speak freely without being considered creepy.

From what i have seen of you in the forums,you are not a bad person.You shoot straight from the heart and are too touchy for my taste .You are definitely not a creeper but you hardly think twice before saying anything ever.You could really use some social tactic for the lack of a better word imo

see, i have no idea if he is creepy or not.

BUT...

i've enough experience to know that the public face a person presents is no proof that they aren't an utter turd in private. you can't say he's 'definitely' not a creeper.

(well, clearly you can say it. but it doesn't carry much weight.)

At least you're being logical. Some of you give me a serious fear of being tried in court, by jury.

i'm all smart & stuff. it's adorable.

Lets see. Why the **** would the ladies in question feel the need to bring up evidence to justify his behaviour when HE created this thread in the first place & they are doing their best to leave him well behind? Why have their profiles deleted for violating mfp rules over this dude?

Sure there is a block option btw. One several have had to take him of just to see if he is STILL stalking their *kitten* even after all this & what a surprise he still is!

His behaviour on the forums is irrelevant as that is not the real issue here due to him misconstruing the true nature of their PM & his he sent first I've seen with my own eyes! This issue is how he conducts himself mainly through personal messaging (especially after I & several others already tore him a new *kitten* when this type of behaviour did used to be public!)

The fact this thread even still exists goes to show admin should be upping their game & sorting his *kitten* out!

He shouldn't have aired a private conversation if he didn't want the people he PM'd to respond (whether truthfully or not). Of course we have no idea what went on. Before this I didn't know anything about the guy. But, after seeing this thread, I would certainly be more cautious of this internet stranger. This is the internet, not a court (ridiculous comparison).

I agree that you're creepy.