What did they mean by this? Can't stop crying

It really makes me sad that there are ADULTS that think that cyber bullying is ok...

Get over yourself.

Exhibit A....smh

Telling someone to get over themselves is cyber bullying? Ummmm...wow. How do people function in life?

I was mostly referring to the people that keep coming back and making nasty comments to this girl who has already stated that she KNOWS that she has issues that she needs to work on. THAT is cyber bullying. One of the guys even called her an attention *kitten*. YES, that IS cyber bullying. What was said to me was just rudeness for no reason. My point is that adults should NOT be acting this way. Its ridiculous.

It really makes me sad that there are ADULTS that think that cyber bullying is ok...

Get over yourself.

Exhibit A....smh

It makes me sad that there are ADULTS who have no idea what cyber bullying is. A difference of opinion is not the same as bullying :flowerforyou:

It really makes me sad that there are ADULTS that think that cyber bullying is ok...

Get over yourself.

Exhibit A....smh

Telling someone to get over themselves is cyber bullying? Ummmm...wow. How do people function in life?

I was mostly referring to the people that keep coming back and making nasty comments to this girl who has already stated that she KNOWS that she has issues that she needs to work on. THAT is cyber bullying. One of the guys even called her an attention *kitten*. YES, that IS cyber bullying. What was said to me was just rudeness for no reason. My point is that adults should NOT be acting this way. Its ridiculous.

you must be new to the internet

It really makes me sad that there are ADULTS that think that cyber bullying is ok...

Get over yourself.

Exhibit A....smh

Telling someone to get over themselves is cyber bullying? Ummmm...wow. How do people function in life?

Haha I know right?

I'm a"bully" because I dont base my self worth on what random people online or on the street think of me?
I'm perfectly ok with that because it means I'll survive in this world and won't be reduced to tears over stupid ****.
Thats what being bullied as a kid does to you. Creates a thick skin.

So again, get over yourself and look up what bullying really is. Because this **** ain't it.

^this

It really makes me sad that there are ADULTS that think that cyber bullying is ok...

Get over yourself.

Exhibit A....smh

Telling someone to get over themselves is cyber bullying? Ummmm...wow. How do people function in life?

Haha I know right?

I'm a"bully" because I dont base my self worth on what random people online or on the street think of me?
I'm perfectly ok with that because it means I'll survive in this world and won't be reduced to tears over stupid ****.
Thats what being bullied as a kid does to you. Creates a thick skin.

So again, get over yourself and look up what bullying really is. Because this **** ain't it.

^This. Quoted for truth!!!

First of all you need to not worry what others think, what's important is how you feel. There will always been someone out there that says something cruel. Since I've lost weight I've been told I'm too skinney. I don't feel 125 for 5'3" is too skinney and I like my size. You definitely don't look fat. Your going about this the right way slow and steady so keep it up :}

It really makes me sad that there are ADULTS that think that cyber bullying is ok...

Get over yourself.

Exhibit A....smh

It makes me sad that there are ADULTS who have no idea what cyber bullying is. A difference of opinion is not the same as bullying :flowerforyou:

Makes me sad that the phrase is thrown around so easily.

I've noticed it's usually proceeded by the poster saying the same thing over and over on the same post, no-one quotes or agrees with them so suddenly they are the victim of bullying...

Thats what being bullied as a kid does to you. Creates a thick skin.

I see where you're coming from on that one, but some people have different responses and coping mechanisms to the same experiences. And the point I and others are trying to make here is that THIS is supposed to be a supportive website, and attacking the OP is not helping at all. You think she doesn't realize she's more sensitive than some would think she should be? She does. Is pointing it out using harsh language going to change that? Nope. All it's going to do is make her even more upset than she was when she made the cry for help in the first place.

It really makes me sad that there are ADULTS that think that cyber bullying is ok...

Get over yourself.

Exhibit A....smh

It makes me sad that there are ADULTS who have no idea what cyber bullying is. A difference of opinion is not the same as bullying :flowerforyou:

Makes me sad that the phrase is thrown around so easily.

I've noticed it's usually proceeded by the poster saying the same thing over and over on the same post, no-one quotes or agrees with them so suddenly they are the victim of bullying...

I wasn't even talking about ME I was talking about THE OP. I did NOT make this post! I wasn't talking about anyone bullying ME. I was talking about the OP who probably isn't even reading this anymore! How is making fun of her and calling her an "attention *kitten*" supposed to help? She obviously needs to get some counselling or something to help her issues so why does it make you feel better to push her even further down?! It pisses me off when people attack others when they are already at a low point. Do you really want to be the person to push someone over the edge? One of my best friends killed themselves after something similar to this. If you must know THAT is why I feel the need to stand up for people like this. Yes, this is the internet and people are mean BUT that doesn't mean that I don't have the right to point out that it's wrong. Last time I checked this website was about motivation and support, not tearing each other down. Hopefully the mods help will keep it the way it's supposed to be. I will continue to tell people when they are in the wrong, even if I am one of the only ones that feels that way. Luckily, I have a thicker skin than the OP and I don't give a rat's behind what you think about ME but I DO care when you're hurting someone else who may not be as strong as I am.

I'm HONESTLY not fishing for any compliments and would much rather people were honest with me

Seriously allow me to doubt that...you need to speak to someone about your self esteem issues IRL darlin...posting 2 threads (a second one because you didn't like the way the other was going?) on an internet forum to have random people explain to you "what did they mean by this?" is a bit much.
Self esteem issues are one of the hardest things to overcome and you aren't going to resolve them online. Best of luck to you.