Why are people so judgey here?

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  • Junken_Diraffe
    Junken_Diraffe Posts: 716 Member
    I have noticed it, and I am sure you are going to get more of it in this post. It's one of the perils of the internet. People are more likely to say whatever pops into their heads because there is a certain amount of anonymity with it.

    *headdesk*

    Not true at all for me. I'm much more likely to be open and direct IRL...

    ...because 1) there are no remarkably broad Community Guidelines (all hail) that could lead to three strikes and out IRL, and 2) because I can make sure the person I'm speaking with knows that I truly believe they are a special kind of idiot. Here, thanks in part to a certain amount of ambiguity made necessary by my first enumerated point, many people misinterpret what I'm saying as a joke instead of an evaluation of their worth as a person.

    *shrug*


    Edit: to remove an errant article that made its way into my post.

    Jof - I love you. Even if you deleted me because I was boring or attention whorey or some such infraction. I :heart: you so hard.
  • dirtnap63
    dirtnap63 Posts: 1,387 Member
    Welcome to real life.

    Is this real life?

    Or just a fantasy....

    caught in a landslide...

    No escape from reality...

    Open your eyes
    Look up to the skies and see..
    If you like Pina Coladaaaaaas....

    Alright, STOP, colaborate and listen....

    Youn man, there's no need to feel down....

    Y!M!C!A!
    The girl with colitis goes by...

    Hold me closer Tony Danza

    'Scuse me, while I kiss this guy.

    Kick 'em when they're up, kick 'em when they're down.

    Play my guitar on the MTV.

    I just want to bang on the drum all day.

    Bang! Bang! Bang! On the door baby - Love shack, baby, love shack!

    Knock Knock Knockin' on Heaven's door.

    Heaven isn't too far away...
    Come sail away! Come sail away! Come saaaail awaaay with meeee
    Momma...I killed a man.

    Cause Mama, Mama I'm comin' home.


    Mamma Mia Here I go again. (Changed it to make it easier for the next person to go with a nice 80s segue)

    He's a Magic Man, Momma!

    Video killed the radio star

    Stahp! Living on Video, Stahp!

    Oh we're half way there oh oh living on a prayer
  • Mountainbiker2015
    Mountainbiker2015 Posts: 129 Member
    Because people are judgey everywhere it's human nature

    Unfortunately this is true. You know why you are here though and there are great people here who don't judge. Let the rest slide. :) We all are here for mostly the same reasons. :bigsmile:
  • StarChanger
    StarChanger Posts: 605 Member
    Welcome to real life.

    Is this real life?

    Or just a fantasy....

    caught in a landslide...

    No escape from reality...

    Open your eyes
    Look up to the skies and see..
    If you like Pina Coladaaaaaas....

    Alright, STOP, colaborate and listen....

    Youn man, there's no need to feel down....

    Y!M!C!A!
    The girl with colitis goes by...

    Hold me closer Tony Danza

    'Scuse me, while I kiss this guy.

    Kick 'em when they're up, kick 'em when they're down.

    Play my guitar on the MTV.

    I just want to bang on the drum all day.

    Bang! Bang! Bang! On the door baby - Love shack, baby, love shack!

    Knock Knock Knockin' on Heaven's door.

    Heaven isn't too far away...
    Come sail away! Come sail away! Come saaaail awaaay with meeee
    Momma...I killed a man.

    Cause Mama, Mama I'm comin' home.


    Mamma Mia Here I go again. (Changed it to make it easier for the next person to go with a nice 80s segue)

    He's a Magic Man, Momma!

    Video killed the radio star

    Stahp! Living on Video, Stahp!

    Oh we're half way there oh oh living on a prayer

    Oh...tainted love! Tainted love!
  • astartig
    astartig Posts: 549 Member
    Every time I make a topic, there's always a few people who are very on topic and pleasant, and then the other half of the people go completely off topic judging my diet and the things I say in my topics. What gives? Everyone here thinks they are nutritionists apparently, and that I hired them!
    Haha, no, but some of you are alright :) But there seems to be more people here like that than most places. Anyone else notice it?


    That will be 1 year hard labour. NO chance of parole!
  • Kindone
    Kindone Posts: 138 Member
    Welcome to real life.

    Is this real life?

    Or just a fantasy....

    caught in a landslide...

    No escape from reality...

    Open your eyes
    Look up to the skies and see..
    If you like Pina Coladaaaaaas....

    Alright, STOP, colaborate and listen....

    Youn man, there's no need to feel down....

    Y!M!C!A!
    The girl with colitis goes by...

    Hold me closer Tony Danza

    'Scuse me, while I kiss this guy.

    Kick 'em when they're up, kick 'em when they're down.

    Play my guitar on the MTV.

    I just want to bang on the drum all day.

    Bang! Bang! Bang! On the door baby - Love shack, baby, love shack!

    Knock Knock Knockin' on Heaven's door.

    Heaven isn't too far away...
    Come sail away! Come sail away! Come saaaail awaaay with meeee
    Momma...I killed a man.

    Cause Mama, Mama I'm comin' home.


    Mamma Mia Here I go again. (Changed it to make it easier for the next person to go with a nice 80s segue)

    He's a Magic Man, Momma!

    Video killed the radio star

    Stahp! Living on Video, Stahp!

    Oh we're half way there oh oh living on a prayer

    Oh...tainted love! Tainted love!

    Don't touch me, please. I cannot stand the way you tease.
  • beachlover317
    beachlover317 Posts: 2,848 Member
    Come on, come on, come on, now touch me babe, Can't you see - that I am not afraid?
  • Kindone
    Kindone Posts: 138 Member
    Come on, come on, come on, now touch me babe, Can't you see - that I am not afraid?

    Come on, Baby, don't fear the reaper.
  • jofjltncb6
    jofjltncb6 Posts: 34,415 Member
    Welcome to real life.

    Is this real life?

    Or just a fantasy....

    caught in a landslide...

    No escape from reality...

    Open your eyes
    Look up to the skies and see..
    If you like Pina Coladaaaaaas....

    Alright, STOP, colaborate and listen....

    Youn man, there's no need to feel down....

    Y!M!C!A!
    The girl with colitis goes by...

    Hold me closer Tony Danza

    'Scuse me, while I kiss this guy.

    Kick 'em when they're up, kick 'em when they're down.

    Play my guitar on the MTV.

    I just want to bang on the drum all day.

    Bang! Bang! Bang! On the door baby - Love shack, baby, love shack!

    Knock Knock Knockin' on Heaven's door.

    Heaven isn't too far away...
    Come sail away! Come sail away! Come saaaail awaaay with meeee
    Momma...I killed a man.

    Cause Mama, Mama I'm comin' home.


    Mamma Mia Here I go again. (Changed it to make it easier for the next person to go with a nice 80s segue)

    He's a Magic Man, Momma!

    Video killed the radio star

    Stahp! Living on Video, Stahp!

    Oh we're half way there oh oh living on a prayer

    Oh...tainted love! Tainted love!

    Don't touch me, please. I cannot stand the way you tease.

    You can dance if you want to...
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,029 Member
    Welcome to real life.

    Is this real life?

    Or just a fantasy....

    caught in a landslide...

    No escape from reality...

    Open your eyes
    Look up to the skies and see..
    If you like Pina Coladaaaaaas....

    Alright, STOP, colaborate and listen....

    Youn man, there's no need to feel down....

    Y!M!C!A!
    The girl with colitis goes by...

    Hold me closer Tony Danza

    'Scuse me, while I kiss this guy.

    Kick 'em when they're up, kick 'em when they're down.

    Play my guitar on the MTV.

    I just want to bang on the drum all day.

    Bang! Bang! Bang! On the door baby - Love shack, baby, love shack!

    Knock Knock Knockin' on Heaven's door.

    Heaven isn't too far away...
    Come sail away! Come sail away! Come saaaail awaaay with meeee
    Momma...I killed a man.

    Cause Mama, Mama I'm comin' home.


    Mamma Mia Here I go again. (Changed it to make it easier for the next person to go with a nice 80s segue)

    He's a Magic Man, Momma!

    Video killed the radio star

    Stahp! Living on Video, Stahp!

    Oh we're half way there oh oh living on a prayer

    Oh...tainted love! Tainted love!

    Don't touch me, please. I cannot stand the way you tease.

    You can dance if you want to...
    Just let it whip, let's whip it baby, let's whip it right, let it whip

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness industry for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
  • hookilau
    hookilau Posts: 3,134 Member
    Love threads like this one...helps to weed out the dooshbags.
    Lurv lurv lurv my ignore button, use it with impunity and watch the quality of the time you spend here soar.. :drinker:
  • SakuraRose13
    SakuraRose13 Posts: 621 Member
    The beauty of formum's just as in real life you can ignore the negative , never mind if someone is being a jerk move past it, and I for one have never said anything negative for me it serves no purpose and helps no one,

    If I don't have anything nice to say I don't and If I cant help than I leave it someone else.