Total jerk.
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I'm from East Texas- and I like using that so-sweet-that- sugar-wouldn't-melt-in-your-mouth approach. Kill 'em with kindness. Call me a B? "why thank you, darling, same to you. have a nice day now, you hear?" Or just say what you want in the nicest way possible followed by "bless your heart" EX: "Why aren't you just a jealous little man with a small penis? Bless your heart."
Respectfully maam; no offense meant, but the only thing that scares me worse than an angry Texas gal, is an angry East Texas gal! :flowerforyou: Hope I didnt ruffle your feathers or anything like that.....
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The question I'd be asking is why my boyfriend wasn't defending me against this guy?
The first time the guy made those comments my boyfriend didnt say anything. He just ignored the comment and said goodnight to everyone else. He was extremely mad and when we left he explained why he didnt say anything. His reasons were all legit and it didnt cause an issue between us. He said if comments like that were ever made again he would do something about it.
The second comment my boyfriend wasnt there to hear it. I didnt tell him it happened.
We both hate this guy for more reasons that just the comments he has made.
I didnt want to add fuel to a fire.
I think you're wise not to make an issue of it, and not to lower yourself to the guy's level with snappy comebacks. It sounds like he has mental problems or cognitive deficits - concussions maybe? If you want to be proactive, say hello to him when you see him and use his name.0 -
There's a lot of great replies on how you should ignore this comment, and how this dude is just a d-bag. They are all true.
However let me offer you another way to take this. Use it as fuel. Think about it when you work out or before you stray from your goals. Don't forget it, own it baby. Own it like he is your leetle beeotch.
Use your anger... let it flow through you. Channel your anger and together we can rule the GALAXY!!! MUAHHAHAHAHHA.
Or I mean.. stick to our MFP goals that is what I meant. Galaxy just slipped out.0 -
He's not a jerk for stating what he see. He knows little of who you are.
Your emotional interpretation and track record for seeking the negative within comments is allowing your perception to be heavily weighed as thus...
I see MANY positives from his comment that can be utilized to not only motivate, but bash him right back...You the mind for greater0 -
He's not a jerk for stating what he see.
I don't think someone needs a "track record" to take being called a "fat **tch* as an insult, She should ignore you and listen to me. I need the attention anyways.0 -
He's not a jerk for stating what he see.
I don't think someone needs a "track record" to take being called a "fat **tch* as an insult, She should ignore you and listen to me. I need the attention anyways.
edit because I read the original post wrong.
I dont have a track record with taking the negative out of situations. Im very positive, and always use bad situations to better myself. this is the first instance that has knock me off my feet so to speak.0 -
Walk up to him kinda shy like you are not sure you really want to talk to him. Ask him if you can talk. Then when he agrees, kick him in the ding-ding and say, "Yup your still have a pair. Next time use them if you got something to say about me and say it to my face". Then turn around and walk away like nothing happened...
Note: The above suggestion may, or may not, be based on real life experiences.
Oh. My. Gosh. Thank you for posting this!0 -
Just punch him in the face. It helps.
And then carry on losing weight.
^^^Best advice I've seen on the forums today.0 -
First, if you were my woman and I was your man - me and that guy would have a serious heart to heart. Second, if I were you, I would let the guy know that what he is doing is a form of harrassment/bullying and you have not problem suing his silly but.0
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Just punch him in the face. It helps.
And then carry on losing weight.
^^ Works every time.
Just to help the sting, I like to add that I'm fantastic in bed.0 -
If it were me, I would say something like this,
"I may be fat but at least I'm not a douche bag. Also, you seem to be really interested in who my guy is dating... Do you have feelings for him?"0 -
Pee in his cleats.
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His cleats? Shoot. Go for broke. Pee in his HELMET!
In all seriousness, try not to let him get to you and just ignore him.0 -
Just punch him in the face. It helps.
And then carry on losing weight.
Yup this. They act completely different afterwards. Promise!0 -
I think you are being easy on him calling him a total jerk. The loser isn't worthy of your worry or concern. If I were your BF, I'd set this guy straight and ask him to keep his friendship and comments to himself. Keep up the great work and remember that this deuche bag isn't the person you see in the mirror or wake up next to everyday.
I love it when I guy posts something like this. You should listen to this one^^^
Hopefully your BF will set him straight. Till then I would ignore him.0 -
Pee in his cleats.
:laugh:
His cleats? Shoot. Go for broke. Pee in his HELMET!
In all seriousness, try not to let him get to you and just ignore him.
No go all out and put Icy hot in his jock!
But seriously.. ignore the jerk.0 -
This guy sounds like the type that gets kicks out of putting others down because he needs the confidence boost. His words mean nothing, there's nothing behind them besides the intent to say the most hurtful tings possible. I bet he makes fun of others for being to skinny, tall, wearing makeup, not wearing makeup, having blonde hair, being smart, wearing dresses... you name it and he'll probably find a way to insult it. Pay no attention to him, he's stupid and you're not.
Good job to you and your boyfriend for taking the high road. If you don't add fuel to the fire he'll get bored with making fun of you. If it gets excessive though, and he just won't let up, then I'm not adverse to a well thought out snarky comeback 0 -
No go all out and put Icy hot in his jock!
HAH! :laugh:0 -
BAM. Right in the confidence. I never get this upset about stupid comments and Im really a strong confident person but this guy....totally knocked me down and now i cant forget his comments.
It should have been BAM, right in the kisser! Stand up to the jacka$$, don't be a doormat to ANYONE. EVER.0 -
He's probably just jealous of your boyfriend :P
Actually, this could totally be a possibility.0 -
Everyone is saying where is the boyfirend but I think this woman is strong enough to fight her own battles and win.
Forget your bf and kick this guys *kitten*.
While this woman (and others) may be strong enough to fight their own battles, a REAL man is not going to make HER fight her own battles with ANOTHER MAN!! If it were another female, then yes . . . .I'd see your point. I know my husband would NEVER permit some man to disrespect me in his presence (or outside of his presence).0 -
You could be lke that one girl a few months ago who was mad at her bf for making similar contents. She was going to get all hot, and then dress up in super sexy lingerie and bang the hell out of him, then leave so he would know he would never get that kind of mind blowing sex again.
Just in your case. Bang the BFs teammate, and then never let him have any again.0 -
... just eww.You could be lke that one girl a few months ago who was mad at her bf for making similar contents. She was going to get all hot, and then dress up in super sexy lingerie and bang the hell out of him, then leave so he would know he would never get that kind of mind blowing sex again.
Just in your case. Bang the BFs teammate, and then never let him have any again.0 -
So my boyfriend plays on a football team, and last year there was an awards ceremony that was held a 9 hour drive away from the city we live in. My boyfriend decided that he didnt want to go out and party with the guys after because we had a long ride home and he was tired. This one guy on his team started saying that he wasnt going out because of me. (not true at all, im not that kind of person) The guy then went on to say that my boyfriend should come out and he will find him a "new one"and "a waaaay better one" (in reference to me) and tons of other rude comments. After a long night of being upset, having a total breakdown and arguing with my boyfriend - even though it wasnt his fault - girl logic..... I forgot about the comment and moved on.
A few days ago, I was going to a practice and the guy was there and saif to his friend loud enough for me to hear...."Wow. I cant believe he is still with that fat b*#$h".
BAM. Right in the confidence. I never get this upset about stupid comments and Im really a strong confident person but this guy....totally knocked me down and now i cant forget his comments.
How do you guys deal with jerks like that? I just feel so defeated.
When I was reading this and got to the "BAM" I was hoping that meant that you hit him with something very hard.0 -
Also, I forgot to add that my boyfriend isnt friends with this guy.
They play on the same football team and that team practices 6 days a week plus game days.
So I didnt want to create a conflict between them.
There may already be a conflict between them. What better way to pick a fight with your BF than by calling his girlfriend names?0 -
I spend a lot of time in jail for assault and battery. :smokin:
Nah, I usually just tell them to *kitten* off.0 -
I'm from East Texas- and I like using that so-sweet-that- sugar-wouldn't-melt-in-your-mouth approach. Kill 'em with kindness. Call me a B? "why thank you, darling, same to you. have a nice day now, you hear?" Or just say what you want in the nicest way possible followed by "bless your heart" EX: "Why aren't you just a jealous little man with a small penis? Bless your heart."
Respectfully maam; no offense meant, but the only thing that scares me worse than an angry Texas gal, is an angry East Texas gal! :flowerforyou: Hope I didnt ruffle your feathers or anything like that.....
Darlin, East Texas ladies don't get ruffled... we get even j/k j/k - 0 -
quick punch to the junk should help0
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Remember:
1 - Stick and stones.
2 - Did you BF break up with you?
3. In about 5 - 10 year's you will be a perfect 10 and he will be the perfect 6, Homer Simpson, Peter Griffen. etc.0 -
So, boyfriend has a date with you and jerk-off has a date with his hand....hmmmm.0
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That wasn't nice of him at all.0
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