I am mean, and I don't make any friend requests

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  • BeachIron
    BeachIron Posts: 6,490 Member
    The only reason I send friend requests is so I can delete people later.

    It's part of my evil plot to end up with no friends and hurt feelings.

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  • WisiPls
    WisiPls Posts: 359
    I get more friend requests than I should, somethings wrong the people on mfc
  • _Danno_
    _Danno_ Posts: 165
    I will send them once in awhile. The rejection always stings. :cry:

    That's not nearly as bad as having a guy except your FR long enough to check out your pics...then delete you. :brokenheart:

    Does this actually happen? That's a bit pervy

    If anybody wants to add me I promise not to do this lol
  • blaxican26
    blaxican26 Posts: 11
    That's way homophobic! I appreciate dudes that are in great shape sharing advice. Doing the same routine week in and week out sucks. If any of you (Male or Female) wanna add me, feel free. Always looking for for more Circuit Training variations (i.e. Spartacus workout etc). I have my own versions as well to share.
  • Some_Watery_Tart
    Some_Watery_Tart Posts: 2,250 Member
    The only reason I send friend requests is so I can delete people later.

    It's part of my evil plot to end up with no friends and hurt feelings.

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  • Excuse_less
    Excuse_less Posts: 874 Member
    I get more friend requests than I should, somethings wrong the people on mfc

    That's because you're in your 20's !! Wait until you get to be my age.......... lol
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    I sometimes wish I had more time to accept FR's or to send some FR's because there are many cool people who statuses I'd like to creep and annoy their friends.
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    I get more friend requests than I should, somethings wrong the people on mfc

    That's because you're in your 20's !! Wait until you get to be my age.......... lol
    ^^^^^^ You're my friend and I love the 30s :smooched:
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I'm the standard by which mean is measured and I don't accept friend requests. I only have two friends on my MFP page and they are my daughters. And...once I accepted their friend requests I made them get off MFP.
  • _Krys10_
    _Krys10_ Posts: 1,234 Member
    I too fear rejection :cry:
  • The_Enginerd
    The_Enginerd Posts: 3,982 Member
    I prefer to stalk until they send me the request. It's more effort, but it makes them think it was their idea.
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    I prefer to stalk until they send me the request. It's more effort, but it makes them think it was their idea.
    ^^^^ I offered to be his mistress to be his friend, true story. It's worked out so far.
  • xvxCelticWandererxvx
    xvxCelticWandererxvx Posts: 2,890 Member
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  • WisiPls
    WisiPls Posts: 359
    I too fear rejection :cry:

    would not reject/10
  • jimnelson1028
    jimnelson1028 Posts: 2 Member
    Could be the picture...
  • brattyworm
    brattyworm Posts: 2,137 Member
    I'm the standard by which mean is measured and I don't accept friend requests. I only have two friends on my MFP page and they are my daughters. And...once I accepted their friend requests I made them get off MFP.

    this i would never have suspected based on your forum activity (although the making them get off makes sense based on the same thing)
  • Some_Watery_Tart
    Some_Watery_Tart Posts: 2,250 Member
    I prefer to stalk until they send me the request. It's more effort, but it makes them think it was their idea.

    ^^^This.
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  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    I've never sent a friend request and ignore more than I accept. I don't need the motivation and I'm not a particularly motivating person. I have no criteria for accepting FR. It's really random.
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
    I too fear rejection :cry:

    would not reject/10

    what about me?
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    I get more friend requests than I should, somethings wrong the people on mfc

    That's because you're in your 20's !! Wait until you get to be my age.......... lol

    Or mine. Wait. I still get a lot of FRs. never mind.
  • MacInCali
    MacInCali Posts: 1,012 Member
    I feel so conflicted ... if I don't send a FR, we'll never be friends ...

    But now I know that if you accept my FR, it's just because you generally accept all FR's and don't necessarily want to be my friend ...

    But if you ~don't~ accept my FR, it means that you really don't want to be my friend because you generally accept all requests ...

    This is so much pressure on a Monday!
  • WisiPls
    WisiPls Posts: 359
    I too fear rejection :cry:

    would not reject/10

    what about me?

    nah brah, would not reject


    nohomo

    I never reject any friend requests, because it's funny seeing the reactions of people that view my food logs
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    I too fear rejection :cry:

    I don't get the fear of rejection. Also, I don't get when someone FRs me and then I accept, and they are responding with "Whew. You accepted me. I wanted to send this a long time ago, but you intimidated me."

    I really don't get that. I am far from initimidating in my eyes. I like all kinds of people, and as long as I get some kind of message, or I know you from a friend's wall, or the forums, you're gonna get accepted. I even say as much on my profile.
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
    I too fear rejection :cry:

    would not reject/10

    what about me?

    nah brah, would not reject


    nohomo

    I never reject any friend requests, because it's funny seeing the reactions of people that view my food logs

    Why do some people feel the need to write nohomo?

    I don't get it.
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member

    nohomo

    I never reject any friend requests, because it's funny seeing the reactions of people that view my food logs

    They are interesting. Got milk?
  • brattyworm
    brattyworm Posts: 2,137 Member
    I too fear rejection :cry:

    I don't get the fear of rejection. Also, I don't get when someone FRs me and then I accept, and they are responding with "Whew. You accepted me. I wanted to send this a long time ago, but you intimidated me."

    I really don't get that. I am far from initimidating in my eyes. I like all kinds of people, and as long as I get some kind of message, or I know you from a friend's wall, or the forums, you're gonna get accepted. I even say as much on my profile.

    did you tell stories about younger days? i would've been intimidated by that if i hadnt been there done that as well.
  • dpwellman
    dpwellman Posts: 3,271 Member
    I fear the reaper.
  • Some_Watery_Tart
    Some_Watery_Tart Posts: 2,250 Member
    I too fear rejection :cry:

    I don't get the fear of rejection. Also, I don't get when someone FRs me and then I accept, and they are responding with "Whew. You accepted me. I wanted to send this a long time ago, but you intimidated me."

    I really don't get that. I am far from initimidating in my eyes. I like all kinds of people, and as long as I get some kind of message, or I know you from a friend's wall, or the forums, you're gonna get accepted. I even say as much on my profile.

    But...the title of this post begins, "I am mean..."
  • _Krys10_
    _Krys10_ Posts: 1,234 Member
    I too fear rejection :cry:

    I don't get the fear of rejection. Also, I don't get when someone FRs me and then I accept, and they are responding with "Whew. You accepted me. I wanted to send this a long time ago, but you intimidated me."

    I really don't get that. I am far from initimidating in my eyes. I like all kinds of people, and as long as I get some kind of message, or I know you from a friend's wall, or the forums, you're gonna get accepted. I even say as much on my profile.

    Well I have sent 2 FR's in my time here and both have accepted but I did NOT send the Whew you accepted me but that is funny
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
    I fear the reaper.

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