S/O Threatens to Leave if You Lose / Don't Lose Weight...

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  • Laces_0ut
    Laces_0ut Posts: 3,750 Member
    realize they are concerned for my health and its gotten to so bad that it has come this. id use it as a wake up call to get my life/health back.
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    Tell him all the people you KIK'd a naked pic to said they would hit it....(the rest will take of itself)
  • creech6317
    creech6317 Posts: 869 Member
    You could lose 180lbs just by kicking his *kitten* out the door!

    :drinker:
  • shutupandlift13
    shutupandlift13 Posts: 727 Member
    I'd make dumb posts all day on MFP.

    Lol

    :drinker:
  • LowFatMama
    LowFatMama Posts: 625 Member
    He's the man and the wife always obeys the husband. I would do what I'm told.


    Ummmm Say wha?? ^^^

    leave em, then lose the weight & find someone who isn't such an *kitten* :happy:
  • Cre8veLifeR
    Cre8veLifeR Posts: 1,062 Member
    You could lose 180lbs just by kicking his *kitten* out the door!

    ^^^ totally that. Kick him to the curb. Who wants to be with someone so shallow???
  • HeidiCooksSupper
    HeidiCooksSupper Posts: 3,839 Member
    It depends. If your BMI is in the super-obese category and going up AND the S/O loves you and is heartbroken and can't watch you continue down the path you are on -- well, that's one thing. Otherwise? Dump the bum.

    In the words of a downstairs neighbor years ago, loudly, so the whole building heard in the middle of the night, say, "If you don't like it, why don't you just LEAVE!!" She seemed much more cheerful after he, indeed, left.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    Dump him and have sex with his best friend.
  • corgicake
    corgicake Posts: 846 Member
    Call up the nearest sushi bar for takeout and ask the manager how many empty boxes they have on hand.
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    He's the man and the wife always obeys the husband. I would do what I'm told.

    Yes absolutely, the only role as a wife is to make my husband happy and if he order me to lose weight, it is my duty as a submissive wife to do so. It is really not that complicated sheesh
  • ReneeReiser
    ReneeReiser Posts: 28 Member
    He's the man and the wife always obeys the husband. I would do what I'm told.

    Then WHERE is my sammich???:angry:



    Hahaha!
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    did the weight come on after the relationship started?

    if i buy a porsche and 2 years later i open my garage and it turned into an '87 geo, i'd be pissed.
  • justaloozer
    justaloozer Posts: 122 Member
    Bye b*tch! :drinker:

    Yup!
  • PicNic00
    PicNic00 Posts: 269 Member
    I would say "*kitten* you". *Autobots roll out*

    ^^^^Snort! LMAO!!!
  • neskapolita1978
    neskapolita1978 Posts: 33 Member
    My ex was overweight and called me fat when I was 133 pounds. (Even at 5'2" that's not fat)

    So he got to f*** right off
  • tmm_0127
    tmm_0127 Posts: 545 Member
    Losing weight is hard enough, who needs to be motivated by negatives like that? I would ditch him and fill my life with more positive people.

    It's one thing to be motivated by negative posibilities of heart disease and things like that, but if my s/o told me he'd leave me if I didn't lose weight I'd tell him he'd better just leave now because his attitude sucks. I'd always have that fear of "omg I've gained he's going to leave me." Who needs that? No one.
  • Elheffe99
    Elheffe99 Posts: 27 Member
    Bam!
  • Fozzi43
    Fozzi43 Posts: 2,984 Member
    He's the man and the wife always obeys the husband. I would do what I'm told.

    Then WHERE is my sammich???:angry:

    I'd offer to make you one but you denied my FR :sad:



    :wink:
  • Happy_10yr
    Happy_10yr Posts: 287 Member
    Wave.

    YES!!!!

    BYE!!!!!!!!
  • JUDDDing
    JUDDDing Posts: 1,367 Member
    I'd make dumb posts all day on MFP.

    On an unrelated note, has your proposed scenario happened to you, OP?

    OP seems to be posting hypotheticals today...

    But it's more fun than more recipes for abusing cauliflower so...




    I would do my best to lose the weight. I'd assume that this sort of ultimatum would not come on a whim over 10-20 vanity pounds, but rather from an amount of excess weight that would be likely to negatively impact my health and our lifestyles going forward - and after more subtle approaches have failed for some time.

    I would not choose to get divorced so that I could remain unhealthy.
  • MyaPapaya75
    MyaPapaya75 Posts: 3,143 Member
    It depends ...if you got married heavy perhaps that's the attraction...you still have to do what makes you happy but you cant expect someone else to live with you if they are not attracted to you anymore..
  • celadontea
    celadontea Posts: 335 Member
    Leave them first and tell them you're too good to put up with that @!#$! Live YOUR life for YOU.
  • yaseyuku
    yaseyuku Posts: 871 Member
    Lose the S/O first. Then, lose the weight.
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    I would just go have meaningless sex with Adini.
  • ShellyBell999
    ShellyBell999 Posts: 1,482 Member
    Buh, Bye!!
  • ShannanLaNae
    ShannanLaNae Posts: 434 Member
    A lot of people said some interesting things. Im just gonna add on that I would...
    1. pray
    2. lose weight
    3. then dumb his wack *kitten*

    No one deserves to be treated like that! If he/she cant me as I am then watch me as I go.
  • ChitownFoodie
    ChitownFoodie Posts: 1,562 Member
    Peace! It's my body, I own it. Which means I make my own decisions on what I should do with it.
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    Probably suggest counseling 'cause that's messed up. If he doesn't agree, then send him on his way.
  • whitebalance
    whitebalance Posts: 1,654 Member
    My response: "Don't let the door hitcha where the Good Lord splitcha."
    Unless losing or gaining weight was a clear and present life-or-death health issue. But I wouldn't get into that kind of situation, so it wouldn't be.
  • griffith5150
    griffith5150 Posts: 123
    I think it depends on the situation, I mean if your SO other is using it get straight to your head your weight is killing you. Case in point my Uncle was so overweight, in and out of the hospital, and he lost his foot due to his diabetes. His wife couldn't deal with the emotional toll wondering if his next trip to the hospital would be his last, stated she couldn't handle it and didn't want to see him die because of his weight threatened to leave him. It worked he lost the weight. If you are putting your SO through that emotional turmoil than yes lose the weight. If you read my profile I had a similar experience and that's why I lost the weight before my SO would do the same way.

    Now if your SO is going lose the weight because well I don't want to date someone who is over weight by 5 lbs or whatever, than dropped the jerk to the curve.

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