S/O Threatens to Leave if You Lose / Don't Lose Weight...

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  • Julzanne72
    Julzanne72 Posts: 468 Member
    I'm so glad that my husband's not a sexist, religious pig who'd tell me to lose weight or else or who would want me to 'obey' him. I rather enjoy being a valued human being on equal footing in my marriage.

    If my husband told me to lose weight or we were over and he meant it, he'd also be expecting me to kick his butt out the door.

    Religious pig huh?
    Yep. Women needing to be submissive and obey men comes from male dominated religions.

    I'm curious as to what religions these might be so I can steer clear....
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    I'm so glad that my husband's not a sexist, religious pig who'd tell me to lose weight or else or who would want me to 'obey' him. I rather enjoy being a valued human being on equal footing in my marriage.

    If my husband told me to lose weight or we were over and he meant it, he'd also be expecting me to kick his butt out the door.

    Religious pig huh?
    Yep. Women needing to be submissive and obey men comes from male dominated religions.

    Don't you know......a woman that choose to be submissive goes against anything feminist worked so hard for.
  • teddabod
    teddabod Posts: 222 Member
    Well, I'd say leave that mofo.... OR

    Use it as motivation to actually lose the weight... then when he says, "damn, you did it, you look great!" you say, "Yeah, ****face. Bye now."
  • simsburyjet
    simsburyjet Posts: 999 Member
    I think she should listen to people on a weight loss site and do whatever they tell her.
    also have a lot of wild sex with him.

    :noway:
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    I'm so glad that my husband's not a sexist, religious pig who'd tell me to lose weight or else or who would want me to 'obey' him. I rather enjoy being a valued human being on equal footing in my marriage.

    If my husband told me to lose weight or we were over and he meant it, he'd also be expecting me to kick his butt out the door.

    Edit: He said "It's not my butt I'd be worried about you kicking."

    I'll pray for you, too. I know that these nasty things you say are just the Devil inside you speaking. Don't give the Devil that power! Trust in Christ, our lord and savior. He will forgive you for your sins, do not worry.
  • tumblyweed
    tumblyweed Posts: 416 Member
    Tell him he's fat :bigsmile:
  • wildbill64
    wildbill64 Posts: 28 Member
    THIS!
  • chunkydunk714
    chunkydunk714 Posts: 784 Member
    suck his.....

    nevermind.
  • sugah11
    sugah11 Posts: 156 Member
    Seriously what a looser!
  • ReinasWrath
    ReinasWrath Posts: 1,173 Member
    I would say "*kitten* you". *Autobots roll out*

    +5 for the TF reference

    :laugh:
  • melly_fluous
    melly_fluous Posts: 13 Member
    Wave.

    ^This.
  • chancock6
    chancock6 Posts: 87
    I'm so glad that my husband's not a sexist, religious pig who'd tell me to lose weight or else or who would want me to 'obey' him. I rather enjoy being a valued human being on equal footing in my marriage.

    If my husband told me to lose weight or we were over and he meant it, he'd also be expecting me to kick his butt out the door.

    Religious pig huh?
    Yep. Women needing to be submissive and obey men comes from male dominated religions.

    I'm curious as to what religions these might be so I can steer clear....

    Um, a majority of them? Ever read the bible (as one example)? It regards women as property of their father and then property of their husband. That's why you take your husband's last name. They're traded like livestock. Genesis claims women brought about the fall of man, Eve and Adam's expulsion from paradise. Leviticus tells you to stone your wife to death if she isn't a virgin on her wedding night.

    Some versions of Islam require the private parts of young women to be mutilated so they experience no pleasure during sex and thus won't stray from their husbands.
  • Jennikitten
    Jennikitten Posts: 142 Member
    I would say that if he could walk away from me then he doesn't love me how I deserve to be loved, then I would kick his *kitten* out of my life.
  • juliemouse83
    juliemouse83 Posts: 6,663 Member
    Tell him, "I can lose weight. You're gonna need a penile implant." :glasses:
  • escloflowneCHANGED
    escloflowneCHANGED Posts: 3,038 Member
    I'm so glad that my husband's not a sexist, religious pig who'd tell me to lose weight or else or who would want me to 'obey' him. I rather enjoy being a valued human being on equal footing in my marriage.

    If my husband told me to lose weight or we were over and he meant it, he'd also be expecting me to kick his butt out the door.

    Religious pig huh?
    Yep. Women needing to be submissive and obey men comes from male dominated religions.

    I'm curious as to what religions these might be so I can steer clear....

    Um, a majority of them? Ever read the bible (as one example)? It regards women as property of their father and then property of their husband. That's why you take your husband's last name. They're traded like livestock. Genesis claims women brought about the fall of man, Eve and Adam's expulsion from paradise. Leviticus tells you to stone your wife to death if she isn't a virgin on her wedding night.

    Some versions of Islam require the private parts of young women to be mutilated so they experience no pleasure during sex and thus won't stray from their husbands.


    Awwww the good old days....
  • ABCee26
    ABCee26 Posts: 1
    Yessum, absoLUTEly, a wife should obey her husband.....he is the man of the house...she's just a housewife! As of tomorrow, August 24, 2013, I have been telling my wife that every DAY --- and I'm getting really TIRED of looking at that "Hawaiian Good Luck Sign" she gives me...along with that ****eating grin of hers!

    Fact is, I'm thinkin' 'bout gittin' me one of them deevorces so I can find me a new mama.

    Anybody know any 80-year-old broads that are still in heat? :flowerforyou:
  • codeezy21
    codeezy21 Posts: 19 Member
    Wave.

    Pretty much
  • jenjencin78
    jenjencin78 Posts: 4,415 Member
    Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya. Good riddance.
  • admegamo
    admegamo Posts: 175 Member
    I'm so glad that my husband's not a sexist, religious pig who'd tell me to lose weight or else or who would want me to 'obey' him. I rather enjoy being a valued human being on equal footing in my marriage.

    If my husband told me to lose weight or we were over and he meant it, he'd also be expecting me to kick his butt out the door.

    Religious pig huh?
    Yep. Women needing to be submissive and obey men comes from male dominated religions.

    Don't you know......a woman that choose to be submissive goes against anything feminist worked so hard for.

    I'm told that I have a femenist attitude and I probably do but I've never understood this thought process. I thought feminism was about women being allowed to choose how they live their lives for themselves. If a woman chooses to be submissive because she likes or believes living that way is right, then she's really not going against anything. She's just choosing to live her life in away that we we think is ridiculous and would never choose.
  • suziepoo1984
    suziepoo1984 Posts: 915 Member
    He's the man and the wife always obeys the husband. I would do what I'm told.

    ^^Ofcourse this
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I'm so glad that my husband's not a sexist, religious pig who'd tell me to lose weight or else or who would want me to 'obey' him. I rather enjoy being a valued human being on equal footing in my marriage.

    If my husband told me to lose weight or we were over and he meant it, he'd also be expecting me to kick his butt out the door.

    Edit: He said "It's not my butt I'd be worried about you kicking."

    I'll pray for you, too. I know that these nasty things you say are just the Devil inside you speaking. Don't give the Devil that power! Trust in Christ, our lord and savior. He will forgive you for your sins, do not worry.
    It is known.
  • tumblyweed
    tumblyweed Posts: 416 Member
    Hmm... I thought a bit more about this one... Did he say this because he is worried about you neglecting an underlying health issue? As in, 'I can't sit around and watch you eat yourself to death?'. If not, buy him a nice goodbye gift and move on.
  • Sarahs2576
    Sarahs2576 Posts: 418 Member
    I'd say think about what YOU want rather than what the S/O wants. Do YOU want to be with someone who gives ultimatums rather than having the ability to voice their concerns like an adult and be supportive? Do YOU want to live in a relationship where you will have the constant pressure that you may not be good enough for your S/O? I absolutely guarantee the S/O is by no means perfect and maybe you should look at their flaws and figure out if it's something YOU want to live with. I'd say start with the S/O being a *kitten* and make the list from there.
  • adiostrasero
    adiostrasero Posts: 127 Member
    I'm so glad that my husband's not a sexist, religious pig who'd tell me to lose weight or else or who would want me to 'obey' him. I rather enjoy being a valued human being on equal footing in my marriage.

    If my husband told me to lose weight or we were over and he meant it, he'd also be expecting me to kick his butt out the door.

    Religious pig huh?
    Yep. Women needing to be submissive and obey men comes from male dominated religions.

    I'm curious as to what religions these might be so I can steer clear....

    Um, a majority of them? Ever read the bible (as one example)? It regards women as property of their father and then property of their husband. That's why you take your husband's last name. They're traded like livestock. Genesis claims women brought about the fall of man, Eve and Adam's expulsion from paradise. Leviticus tells you to stone your wife to death if she isn't a virgin on her wedding night.

    Some versions of Islam require the private parts of young women to be mutilated so they experience no pleasure during sex and thus won't stray from their husbands.

    Because all factions of a huge religion follow the most extreme end of the spectrum?

    Seriuosly, people who quote the Bible (or Qur'an, or anything else) in that manner are no better than the religious zealots who take out of context quotes to "prove" that homosexuality is wrong. I don't really care what you believe, but fight fair (and logically.)
  • babyj0
    babyj0 Posts: 531 Member
    Leave S/O then lose the weight so you look BOMB!
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member


    Because all factions of a huge religion follow the most extreme end of the spectrum?

    Seriuosly, people who quote the Bible (or Qur'an, or anything else) in that manner are no better than the religious zealots who take out of context quotes to "prove" that homosexuality is wrong. I don't really care what you believe, but fight fair (and logically.)
    It is known.
  • MelMoly
    MelMoly Posts: 1,303 Member
    He's the man and the wife always obeys the husband. I would do what I'm told.

    Are you frekin kidding me! First, read the entire passage! A man gives. imself to the woman as well as the wife to him.... 2nd you again!!! You are quite possibly one of the most judgemental "Christian" women on this site...

    Insane!!! Pray for yourself!
  • ImSoOTired
    ImSoOTired Posts: 186 Member
    Well, I'm already losing weight, have lost a fair bit since our marriage, so I'd give him such a night of holy hell he'd think twice about sneezing in my presence for a while. We don't do ultimatums here. Thakfully, this is a strict hypothetical, 'cause he's not an *kitten* like that.

    Divorce is probably out of the question. We've been together for 13 years. That isn't something I'd throw away on a passing remark.

    But his *kitten* would be in couples therapy, he'd be talking to MY doc, who is pleased with my weight loss, and he'd be cleaning his diet up tout d'suite. He eats like ****, I try to make better choices, so if he wants to play hardball about health, well, guess who loses his deep-fried-fat fried everything and 4 cans of Mt Dew a day?

    If he's just decided that it is time for him to upgrade to the new model Mercedes over the sedan that's gotten him so far, well, I'd have a sudden 190-lb weight loss and his bank account would incur a sudden weight loss as well.

    ^totally this

    Also I agree with what the others said about The SO being concerned if that is the situation I would lose the weight. Though the ultimatum seems a bit harsh...support and motivation would be more helpful to the relationship in this situation.

    If it is about looks SO should surely get an ear full and maybe even be shown the door...I understand that physical attraction is important in a relationship but IMO it doesn't mean as much as everything else. Looks doesn't keep a relationship going for 10+ years.
  • MelMoly
    MelMoly Posts: 1,303 Member
    I would say "*kitten* you". *Autobots roll out*

    I like your style!
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    He's the man and the wife always obeys the husband. I would do what I'm told.

    Are you frekin kidding me! First, read the entire passage! A man gives. imself to the woman as well as the wife to him.... 2nd you again!!! You are quite possibly one of the most judgemental "Christian" women on this site...
    It is known.

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