Question for the ladies....NO MEN!!! :)

I am an older woman not attached. No, I don't date younger men. I only like mature men.

I can't help responding to a women only thread

Nope. I'm 44. Will not date under 40 and that's still kinda young for me.

"Mature men" . . . kind of an oxymoron . . . hee-hee!

Totally depends on the guy . . . although I usually don't go younger than 4-5 years. That being said, the last guy I dated was 5 years younger, and after four months he told me I was too old! He told me I looked good now but . . .
Hmmmph! There is nothing old about me . . . I work two jobs, one of them is as a personal trainer, take care of my skin and body, have a very young outlook, etc. At first he was all onboard about us, so I would not rush into it . . . really get to know him as friends first. See how he acts with him mom, and if he has older sisters. They seem to be a better bet.
Good luck!

I AM an older woman, I'm 64. If I were to lose my husband, as will happen eventually, I doubt I would date again at all, but if I did, I cannot imagine a younger man being interested in me. I'd be wondering if he thought I had money , or had some other agenda.

Hypothetically it would depend on

1) how much younger
2) the individual man in question

Yes.

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Define "date".

Am 55. Have tried it. Cannot get on with them at all. Nothing in common. Cultural references too different. Values, current place we're in in life, goals, outlook, philosophy, life history and experiences, all just too different and so there is just no common ground whatever.

Also, I've put in the years and learned the lessons and reached a certain level of emotional maturity -- they haven't, and nurse-maiding them isn't what I want in a proper man-woman emotional relationship. Often they still want lots of dramas, display lots of immaturity etc.

So do you mean a relationship or do you mean just having sex with them? If the latter, still not a great match, in my experience.

They are only interested in older women because of porn. They seek a MILF, they think we can "teach them" all about sex. They think we WANT to teach them what to do, that we don't want a man who already knows.... HUH! They think that what an older woman really wants is a nervous, inexperienced, clumsy bloke who has to be taught what to do.

They also most have not learned any sort of impulse control. They nag for sex on the selfish grounds that THEY want a release - and hold you responsible for keeping them happy at all times.

If you do happen to be "lucky" enough to meet one who isn't any of the above, then he'll break your heart by leaving you for a woman he can have kids with.

So I guess it is a lose-lose situation all round.

If you were an older woman and unattached, would you consider dating a much younger man?

There are a lot of women here doing that already. You're not alone.

If I was a much older and rich woman, and I was single, I'd date me.

No.

Ok...so here's my question...

If you were an older woman and unattached, would you consider dating a much younger man?

Not trolling, just curious.

Thanks.

Yes, as long as he is at least 18 y/o (legal age in Canada, or 21 y/o to cover all countries).