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    signs your man is cheating?

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    • Posts: 732 Member
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      That is a breach of trust.

      Not if he has been caught cheating in emails, sending nudes and stuff. Swears he wants your marriage to work and then does it again LOL, that is not a breach of trust when it already has been shattered.
    • Posts: 2,486 Member
      You find him naked on the couch giving your best friend a massage. With his penis.
      Thanks, now I want a penis massage.
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    • Posts: 14,025 Member
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      Not if he has been caught cheating in emails, sending nudes and stuff. Swears he wants your marriage to work and then does it again LOL, that is not a breach of trust when it already has been shattered.

      At that point you already know he has been cheating. And why were you checking his emails in the first place?!
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      Thanks now I want a penis massage.

      well hey there
    • Posts: 14,025 Member
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      Thanks now I want a penis massage.

      Sorry boobear, I'm on cooldown for the night.
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      So privacy has no bearing?
      once he shows initial signs and becomes suspicious then he loses that privacy. Many people hire private investigators even to prove infidelity. This goes for either partner.
    • Posts: 945 Member
      if he is on MFP
    • Posts: 732 Member
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      At that point you already know he has been cheating. And why were you checking his emails in the first place?!

      I didn't check his emails until after I read a text message that he was sent. He thought the text was from his mother so told me to read it because he told his "girl" to not text passed a certain time and well she obviously was stupid lol
    • Posts: 14,025 Member
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      once he shows initial signs and becomes suspicious then he loses that privacy. Many people hire private investigators even to prove infidelity. This goes for either partner.

      He doesn't lose that right because YOU have become suspicious.

      You are immoral. :angry:
    • Posts: 14,025 Member
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      I didn't check his emails until after I read a text message that he was sent. He thought the text was from his mother so told me to read it because he told his "girl" to not text passed a certain time and well she obviously was stupid lol

      I'll allow it.
    • Posts: 732 Member
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      once he shows initial signs and becomes suspicious then he loses that privacy. Many people hire private investigators even to prove infidelity. This goes for either partner.

      ^^ this
    • Posts: 2,401 Member
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      Not if he has been caught cheating in emails, sending nudes and stuff. Swears he wants your marriage to work and then does it again LOL, that is not a breach of trust when it already has been shattered.


      if trust has been shattered so has your relationship. you cannot have a relationship built on constantly keeping watch over your partner's every move in place of trust. that's just absurd.
    • Posts: 2,890 Member
      His sudden case of VD?
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      once he shows initial signs and becomes suspicious then he loses that privacy. Many people hire private investigators even to prove infidelity. This goes for either partner.

      That's by far the stupidest thing I've ever heard, if you have to hire a private investigator, then obviously the relationship isn't going to work out, even if hes not cheating
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      ^^ this

      NO
    • Posts: 5,537 Member
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      Thanks, now I want a penis massage.
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      My best friend really loved them apparently.
    • Posts: 14,025 Member
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      That's by far the stupidest thing I've ever heard, if you have to hire a private investigator, then obviously the relationship isn't going to work out, even if hes not cheating

      Yeah, let's say he finds nothing. Would she tell him?


      Or if any of you would check cellphones and emails and find nothing. Would you admit it to your S/O?
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      if trust has been shattered so has your relationship. you cannot have a relationship built on constantly keeping watch over your partner's every move in place of trust. that's just absurd.

      Actually no its not, we are still married and go to counseling and the issues have stopped. I haven't checked anything in 3 years. After he committed to going to counseling, I figured a man wouldn't really waste his time and money in that to keep up his stupid ways.
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      Actually no its not, we are still married and go to counseling and the issues have stopped. I haven't checked anything in 3 years. After he committed to going to counseling, I figured a man wouldn't really waste his time and money in that to keep up his stupid ways.

      Or he respecced into Deception.
    • Posts: 2,401 Member
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      Actually no its not, we are still married and go to counseling and the issues have stopped. I haven't checked anything in 3 years. After he committed to going to counseling, I figured a man wouldn't really waste his time and money in that to keep up his stupid ways.


      so you repaired the trust. your relationship no longer entails.checking up on everything he does. see what I'm saying?
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      Or he respecced into Deception.

      *shrugs* well if he wishes to pay the 150$ a session and still keep it up, LOL have at it as its his money he is wasting.
    • Posts: 2,401 Member
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      Yeah, let's say he finds nothing. Would she tell him?


      Or if any of you would check cellphones and emails and find nothing. Would you admit it to your S/O?


      I don't check emails or phones. I'm not insecure so if I get suspicious feelings I normally have good reason. however I'm thinking that if I was to do that and I didn't find anything, no, I wouldn't tell them because then I am the one who has broken their trust.
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      I don't check emails or phones. I'm not insecure so if I get suspicious feelings I normally have good reason. however I'm thinking that if I was to do that and I didn't find anything, no, I wouldn't tell them because then I am the one who has broken their trust.

      That is hypocritical.
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      I don't check emails or phones. I'm not insecure so if I get suspicious feelings I normally have good reason. however I'm thinking that if I was to do that and I didn't find anything, no, I wouldn't tell them because then I am the one who has broken their trust.

      then if you got a suspicious feeling, what would you do? nothing? confront him to have him say I am not doing anything, then by a fluke you find out from a friend or family member he is?
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      That is hypocritical.


      it was also hypothetical. if I was paranoid and into checking phones, I am breaking my partner's trust by checking up on them. it also shows I do not respect my partner's privacy.
    • Posts: 945 Member
      I had a gf who checked on everything...emails, phone records, bills, atm usage,she would go feel my truck hood if I told her Id been home for awhile to make sure it wasn't warm, she would count how many pairs of clothes I had used, etc etc etc....

      it was impressive actually...I should of cheated on her so at least her efforts didnt go unrewarded
    • Posts: 1,333 Member
      The cell phone is a big helper ! Look at his calls and texts. Also look on his Facebook page or twitter etc. Does he walk away when he gets phone calls ? Is he starting to take better care of himself ? Wearing cologne when he used to not ? Check out his vehicle. They hide a lot there ! Is he buying more gum and breath freshener than he used to ? Is he using the credit cards more or the ATM ? Staying late at work ? Going out with 'the guys' more ? Trimming his croch hairs if he didn't before ? Goes missing for hours ? Gives lame excuses ? I'm sure I can think of more. I have experience !

      Yep, I have a couple of friends whose husbands cheated and in both cases the men suddenly started taking extra care in their appearance. New clothes, new haircuts, etc. I didn't ask about manscaping but there was probably that too. As for the cellphone...he might get a prepaid if he's really sneaky. Check the credit/debit accounts.
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      it was also hypothetical. if I was paranoid and into checking phones, I am breaking my partner's trust by checking up on them. it also shows I do not respect my partner's privacy.

      I can understand this when in a gf/bf relationship. But when you get married all his stuff is yours and all your stuff is his. You normally all have the same emails and so forth.
    • Posts: 2,401 Member
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      then if you got a suspicious feeling, what would you do? nothing? confront him to have him say I am not doing anything, then by a fluke you find out from a friend or family member he is?


      yes, I would confront him. I have been in this situation before. I confronted and he denied, I kept getting suspicious, I ended things because I didn't want to be crazy in my own head. he was cheating, by the way. like I said, suspicion only for good.and verifiable reasons.
    • Posts: 2,474 Member
      What type of cheating???? There are so many different levels
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