I need help.

Making up your mind to get back on track is half the battle. I've just recently gotten back on track myself. I'd suggest giving the cupcakes away Start tracking your food. Really makes us accountable! Good luck!

You should use them to sabotage the girls that are prettier or skinnier than you. Give them all the cupcakes and laugh internally as they get fat.

Excellent strategy!

Put them in the blender - add milk, serve......

Cupcakes in a Cup !

Also, this.

New favorite person award goes to...

Out of all posts in a forum ever, this may be the most painful to read.

I worry about humanity.

I do actually. My boyfriend asked me to lose another 15-20 pounds.

:huh: I can think of something other than cupcakes you might want to throw out...

That is offensive.

Your boyfriend asked you to lose more weight and you find THIS offensive?

Clearly we're being pranked. Ha!

Freeze them and save them for a day you have extra cals and need a little sweetness

+1 toss 'em-- eating them won't help starving children anywhere. instead, write a $5 check to a non-profit who will help others.

I do actually. My boyfriend asked me to lose another 15-20 pounds.

:huh: I can think of something other than cupcakes you might want to throw out...

That is offensive.

Your boyfriend asked you to lose more weight and you find THIS offensive?

*sigh*

Does the fact that he wants me to look good for him make him a bad person?

Obviously he cares for your health and relationship. It's refreshing really.

Freeze them, defrost & nuke when u need one as an occasional treat.

Can you really do that to cupcakes? How would the frosting hold up?

On a more serious note ... freezing them will work ... just do so in individual freezer bags so that they don't take on that "freezer" flavor ... but no, you can't nuke them, the frosting will melt ... you just have to let them come to room temp on the counter ...

You don't even have to wait for them to defrost. I've eaten them straight out of the freezer. I mean, so I've heard.


(We saved the leftover wedding cupcakes this way but they were the mini cupcakes)

My boyfriend cares very much about my health, but he would never say a word about my weight. Not in a million years.

Then he could be doing you a disservice. Why would he not want to tell you how to be more attractive for him?

My boyfriend cares very much about my health, but he would never say a word about my weight. Not in a million years.

Then he could be doing you a disservice. Why would he not want to tell you how to be more attractive for him?

I agree. In my relationship he strongly suggests my outfits, hair color, hair length (what guy doesn't make you have it long though, right ladies?) and I love that he's so outspoken so I can do my part in ensuring that he's not pushed into cheating.

You are, or will make, an excellent wife. :flowerforyou:

My boyfriend cares very much about my health, but he would never say a word about my weight. Not in a million years.

This isn't very supportive.

My boyfriend cares very much about my health, but he would never say a word about my weight. Not in a million years.

Then he could be doing you a disservice. Why would he not want to tell you how to be more attractive for him?

I agree. In my relationship he strongly suggests my outfits, hair color, hair length (what guy doesn't make you have it long though, right ladies?) and I love that he's so outspoken so I can do my part in ensuring that he's not pushed into cheating.

So...you need to make yourself look how HE wants in order to be assured he won't cheat? So if you want to dye your hair a different color, and your man tells you no, it's end of discussion? And if you are completely healthy and of good weight, but happen to have curves, and he doesn't like them, what then? Get surgery to appease him? I mean after all, if you don't obey, he might just cheat!

HOW ABSOLUTELY UNHEALTHY. JESUS CHRIST.

The person you're with should be attracted to you in the first place, not slightly and then try to change you! There's a difference between them wanting you to be healthy and them wanting to change you! If you can't form your own opinions and answer to his demands even if you disagree, then you honestly have a problem. If you're happy living your life this way, fantastic. Go for it. But personally, it sounds to me like you're encouraging women to lose their self respect and follow someone else's guidelines for their appearance and thoughts.

I mean, what ever happened to couples talking things through and coming to an agreement, and not just accepting what they're told and being walked all over? And it's pretty scary that you'll change yourself just so he won't cheat. That's not commitment. You're like a pet.

So...you need to make yourself look how HE wants in order to be assured he won't cheat? So if you want to dye your hair a different color, and your man tells you no, it's end of discussion? And if you are completely healthy and of good weight, but happen to have curves, and he doesn't like them, what then? Get surgery to appease him? I mean after all, if you don't obey, he might just cheat!

HOW ABSOLUTELY UNHEALTHY. JESUS CHRIST.

The person you're with should be attracted to you in the first place, not slightly and then try to change you! There's a difference between them wanting you to be healthy and them wanting to change you! If you can't form your own opinions and answer to his demands even if you disagree, then you honestly have a problem. If you're happy living your life this way, fantastic. Go for it. But personally, it sounds to me like you're encouraging women to lose their self respect and follow someone else's guidelines for their appearance and thoughts.

I mean, what ever happened to couples talking things through and coming to an agreement, and not just accepting what they're told and being walked all over? And it's pretty scary that you'll change yourself just so he won't cheat. That's not commitment. You're like a pet.

100% AGREE WITH THIS ^^

Be with someone who loves you for you, makes you want to be a better person but tells you how perfect you are just as you are. Supports your goals, does not make them for you and above all else respects your decisions.