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I need help.

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  • Posts: 7 Member
    Making up your mind to get back on track is half the battle. I've just recently gotten back on track myself. I'd suggest giving the cupcakes away :) Start tracking your food. Really makes us accountable! Good luck!
  • Posts: 1,432 Member


    I do actually. My boyfriend asked me to lose another 15-20 pounds.

    :huh: I can think of something other than cupcakes you might want to throw out...
  • Posts: 411
    You should use them to sabotage the girls that are prettier or skinnier than you. Give them all the cupcakes and laugh internally as they get fat.


    Excellent strategy!
  • Posts: 5,537 Member
    Freeze them till you can afford to eat them.

    I already bought them, they're in my fridge.
  • Posts: 1,432 Member
    Put them in the blender - add milk, serve......

    Cupcakes in a Cup !

    Also, this.

    New favorite person award goes to...
  • Posts: 7,463 Member

    Are you actually insane?

    It's true - I read about a guy who was trapped in a room full of diet coke and twinkies. He would have starved to death, if he hadn't first died of dehydration because he couldn't get any water.
  • Posts: 5,537 Member

    :huh: I can think of something other than cupcakes you might want to throw out...

    That is offensive.
  • Posts: 90 Member

    I already bought them, they're in my fridge.

    put them in ziplock baggies and they freeze well. Yeah it will melt off the frosting if you nuke them.
  • Posts: 96 Member
    Out of all posts in a forum ever, this may be the most painful to read.

    I worry about humanity.
  • Posts: 39,744 Member
    JSF
  • Posts: 96 Member

    That is offensive.

    Your boyfriend asked you to lose more weight and you find THIS offensive?

    Clearly we're being pranked. Ha!
  • Posts: 5,537 Member

    Your boyfriend asked you to lose more weight and you find THIS offensive?

    *sigh*

    Does the fact that he wants me to look good for him make him a bad person?
  • Posts: 1,195 Member
    Freeze them and save them for a day you have extra cals and need a little sweetness ;)
  • Posts: 14,025 Member

    Your boyfriend asked you to lose more weight and you find THIS offensive?

    Clearly we're being pranked. Ha!

    Why is asking your girlfriend to lose weight offensive?
  • +1 toss 'em-- eating them won't help starving children anywhere. instead, write a $5 check to a non-profit who will help others.
  • wow you lost 37# that's my goal
  • Posts: 4,810 Member

    Does the fact that he wants me to look good for him make him a bad person?

    Obviously he cares for your health and relationship. It's refreshing really.
  • Posts: 5,537 Member

    Obviously he cares for your health and relationship. It's refreshing really.

    Thank you. I don't know why some people don't get that.
  • Posts: 27,167 Member


    On a more serious note ... freezing them will work ... just do so in individual freezer bags so that they don't take on that "freezer" flavor ... but no, you can't nuke them, the frosting will melt ... you just have to let them come to room temp on the counter ...


    You don't even have to wait for them to defrost. I've eaten them straight out of the freezer. I mean, so I've heard.


    (We saved the leftover wedding cupcakes this way but they were the mini cupcakes)
  • Posts: 2,836 Member
    My boyfriend cares very much about my health, but he would never say a word about my weight. Not in a million years.
  • Posts: 14,025 Member
    My boyfriend cares very much about my health, but he would never say a word about my weight. Not in a million years.

    Then he could be doing you a disservice. Why would he not want to tell you how to be more attractive for him?
  • Posts: 4,810 Member

    Then he could be doing you a disservice. Why would he not want to tell you how to be more attractive for him?

    I agree. In my relationship he strongly suggests my outfits, hair color, hair length (what guy doesn't make you have it long though, right ladies?) and I love that he's so outspoken so I can do my part in ensuring that he's not pushed into cheating.
  • Posts: 14,025 Member

    I agree. In my relationship he strongly suggests my outfits, hair color, hair length (what guy doesn't make you have it long though, right ladies?) and I love that he's so outspoken so I can do my part in ensuring that he's not pushed into cheating.

    You are, or will make, an excellent wife. :flowerforyou:
  • Posts: 5,537 Member
    My boyfriend cares very much about my health, but he would never say a word about my weight. Not in a million years.

    We're all different.
  • Posts: 16,913 Member
    My boyfriend cares very much about my health, but he would never say a word about my weight. Not in a million years.

    This isn't very supportive.
  • Posts: 4,966 Member

    We're all different.

    But why are we here?
  • Posts: 38 Member

    I agree. In my relationship he strongly suggests my outfits, hair color, hair length (what guy doesn't make you have it long though, right ladies?) and I love that he's so outspoken so I can do my part in ensuring that he's not pushed into cheating.

    So...you need to make yourself look how HE wants in order to be assured he won't cheat? So if you want to dye your hair a different color, and your man tells you no, it's end of discussion? And if you are completely healthy and of good weight, but happen to have curves, and he doesn't like them, what then? Get surgery to appease him? I mean after all, if you don't obey, he might just cheat!

    HOW ABSOLUTELY UNHEALTHY. JESUS CHRIST.

    The person you're with should be attracted to you in the first place, not slightly and then try to change you! There's a difference between them wanting you to be healthy and them wanting to change you! If you can't form your own opinions and answer to his demands even if you disagree, then you honestly have a problem. If you're happy living your life this way, fantastic. Go for it. But personally, it sounds to me like you're encouraging women to lose their self respect and follow someone else's guidelines for their appearance and thoughts.

    I mean, what ever happened to couples talking things through and coming to an agreement, and not just accepting what they're told and being walked all over? And it's pretty scary that you'll change yourself just so he won't cheat. That's not commitment. You're like a pet.
  • offensive or not she is right. what boyfriend with an sensitive bone in his body would ask that. and what girl with self repect would do it. eat the damn cupcakes. and maybe a big mac.
  • Posts: 190 Member

    So...you need to make yourself look how HE wants in order to be assured he won't cheat? So if you want to dye your hair a different color, and your man tells you no, it's end of discussion? And if you are completely healthy and of good weight, but happen to have curves, and he doesn't like them, what then? Get surgery to appease him? I mean after all, if you don't obey, he might just cheat!

    HOW ABSOLUTELY UNHEALTHY. JESUS CHRIST.

    The person you're with should be attracted to you in the first place, not slightly and then try to change you! There's a difference between them wanting you to be healthy and them wanting to change you! If you can't form your own opinions and answer to his demands even if you disagree, then you honestly have a problem. If you're happy living your life this way, fantastic. Go for it. But personally, it sounds to me like you're encouraging women to lose their self respect and follow someone else's guidelines for their appearance and thoughts.

    I mean, what ever happened to couples talking things through and coming to an agreement, and not just accepting what they're told and being walked all over? And it's pretty scary that you'll change yourself just so he won't cheat. That's not commitment. You're like a pet.

    100% AGREE WITH THIS ^^

    Be with someone who loves you for you, makes you want to be a better person but tells you how perfect you are just as you are. Supports your goals, does not make them for you and above all else respects your decisions.
  • Posts: 4,966 Member
    OP and other girl...ignore the haterz...you guyz do you

    This is a support site and WAY too much judgment in here. We all have to do whats right for us and make our relationships work.

    We are all here for the same reason
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