What personality trait turns you off the most?
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anti-social
Being inherently anti-social is tough. It can be a constant battle to deal with. Introversion is a lonely road. Getting out and mixing with others is uncomfortable making going it alone a simple choice. I'm not whining, just sayingl
Did anyone ask? It's just something that turns that person off....0 -
lack of independence. I can't deal with clingy.0
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Oh god.. My ex. MY EX...lack of independence. I can't deal with clingy.
Sometimes I felt like yelling I AM NOT YOUR MOTHER at him...0 -
When someone just sits around upset about the current state of their life but yet does nothing to change it. Drives me insane.0
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The constant need to one-up anyone else... and OMG it's my husband's biggest flaw.
But he knows it, and when I call him out on it, we all joke about it. It's a good thing that my favorite quality about him is that he's easy to forgive and doesn't take things personally. 0 -
rudeness / self righteous0
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People who brag about being mean.0
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Abusers women and men. I also don't like people who always take and never give back in any and every aspect of their life. Selfishness and rude people.0
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Since you asked me what the biggest turn-off is to me...MY biggest turn-off is a tie between:
-being racist/homophobig/prejudiced/anti-equality
-accepting things that people say without doing your own research and finding out whether or not these things are true
-thinking that letting people starve and be homeless is a better option than expecting good business ethics or our government to provide temporary unemployment to people who lose their jobs is tough economic times
-calling children and the elderly (among others) "moochers" and "takers"
-preventing people from exercising their right to vote by using misleading information or voter suppression tactics in the name of preventing "election fraut" or "voter fraud" (which make up - LITERALLY - a whopping .000003% and .000000001%, respectively, of all votes in the US)
-Claiming that there's such a thing as "legitimate rape" which the female body can magically "shut down" - and that, if you do get pregnant, you secretly wanted it and it was an act of God
-claiming to want small government and then trying to pass laws that impose one's religious beliefs on others
-And similar things that involve hate, (often willful) ignorance of facts, bad logic/being a hypocrite, or inequality.0 -
Man, picking just one is HARD. I'm going to have to go with self righteousness and cockiness. Last time I checked none of us are perfect.0
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neediness0
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Mean/hateful.0
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People who lack confidence/ very insecure people0
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arrogance!
there is a fine line between confidence and cocky.0 -
Racism (intolerance or close-mindedness in general), narcissism, holier-than-thou-ness, condescension, and lying.0
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people who think the word "trait" is plural.
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Racism (intolerance or close-mindedness in general), narcissism, holier-than-thou-ness, condescension, and lying.0
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Helplessness. I can't, I don't know how, do it for me.....0
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Dishonesty0
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Hypocrisy0
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Lying...closely followed by arrogance...0
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Lying...closely followed by arrogance...
These including selfishness and overly cocky.0 -
Shallow and very judgemental derived from his/her own insecurities0
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Being Irresponsible / breaking promises repeatedly
Refusing to engage in conversation with reason (the "because-I-say-so-approach", is a sign of arrogance if you ask me )
entitlement snob behavior/ demanding things you haven worked or earned0 -
When you are unable to have a serious conversation, always joking around... I guess that would be a person that is not confident and low self esteem...
I like to laugh and joke around, but there's limits... I have co-workers like that...0 -
Dishonesty0
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cocky0
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anti-social
Being inherently anti-social is tough. It can be a constant battle to deal with. Introversion is a lonely road. Getting out and mixing with others is uncomfortable making going it alone a simple choice. I'm not whining, just sayingl
I agree with you. And it's not like I can't be sympathetic to their struggles, but dealing with them can be a chore at times.
I took the anti-social comment as being people who might actually suffer from anti-social personality disorder. As in, those who have a complete lack of disrespect for the rights of others and frequently engage in immoral (e.g., theft, rape, etc.) and anti-social behaviors... So not people who are shy, but rather people who are sociopaths. Maybe I'm the only one who read it that way :0/0 -
A tie between braggarts & drunks.0
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Moodiness. Can't stand moody people. Also, complainers. The two seem to go hand-in-hand to me, though.0
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