Death by candy...sabotage ?
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We had a cookie exchange yesterday, and I took a bite out of the several cookies and dumped the rest... its all about moderation...0
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I am completely on your side. Move it! Let someone else put it 2" from their face. Geezzzz. Sorry your co-workers are so unsupportive.0
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The tree is decoration that I assume the OP isn't going to eat. I see no problem with moving a candy dish. She isn't being unreasonable, but this attitude certainly is unreasonable.
what about the other employees that want the candy bowl under the tree????????????????0 -
I think they're being passive-aggressive, honestly.
what about the other employees that want the candy bowl under the tree????????????????
Why does it NEED to be under the tree? They're in offices, not looking at it all day. The OP is not being unreasonable. She's not insisting that her coworker not eat pizza in front of her or not keep candy on his or her own desk. She's simply asking that they don't put such a huge temptation 2 feet from her for eight hours every day.0 -
maybe because it is Christmas and that is where the other NINE employees wanted to have it ..I think they're being passive-aggressive, honestly.
Why does it NEED to be under the tree? They're in offices, not looking at it all day. The OP is not being unreasonable. She's not insisting that her coworker not eat pizza in front of her or not keep candy on his or her own desk. She's simply asking that they don't put such a huge temptation 2 feet from her for eight hours every day.
So let me get this right...you are saying it is OK for one employee to overrule the other nine because that one employee does not like the communal area that the candy is in? yea, that makes perfect sense...
so the other nine are just a bunch of A-holes and the one is an angel....?0 -
ndj1979:
We did not poll the office for the record and I highly doubt that any other colleagues would care where it was, as long as they can get to it. This was one person who moved it back one time....
I guess you can't help but be defensive, how sad for you. I congratulated you but you didn't extend the same to me. I lost 20 lbs. It may not seem like a lot to you but it was more than 15% of body weight. I am simply trying to maintain.0 -
maybe because it is Christmas and that is where the other NINE employees wanted to have it ..
So let me get this right...you are saying it is OK for one employee to overrule the other nine because that one employee does not like the communal area that the candy is in? yea, that makes perfect sense...
so the other nine are just a bunch of A-holes and the one is an angel....?
As has been pointed out, she's the only one who sits right by the tree and candy dish. Everybody else is in a separate office. So yeah, I think her opinion carries a little more weight than that of the nine people who *don't* have to look at it all day. They can just as well get their candy fix in the kitchen, or even keep candy in their offices if they need it that badly.0 -
the workers are in the wrong for putting a candy bowl under a Christmas tree??? Bahahahaha that is hilarious ..
and your smoking analogy is pretty extreme...
its not only extreme, it also makes no sense. terrible analogy.
it would only be comparable if her co workers were FORCING her to eat the candy like them smoking in the office would FORCE her to inhale second hand smoke.0 -
#firstworldproblems
Well isn't weight loss a first world problem for us all ?? I highly doubt you are on MFP to gain weight. If you are on here to maintain, it's b/c you lost weight. There are people starving in other countries, just saying...0 -
How about smoking in front of a co-worker that kicked the habit ? When you had somewhere else to go but couldn't be bothered...0
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I can see the voice of reason is not welcome here.
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It had a printer on it a long time ago. Hmm, that's a thought, to move the table. Once Christmas is over, it's bare. I think I'm make a note to move it in a few months when we are busy so I can avoid this next year
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There is a box of Krispy Kremes and a container of cookies about 8 feet away from my desk that I don't want any part of, and I could care less that they are there. I wouldn't dream of telling anyone else in the office to accommodate me by moving them. It's their space too.0
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so if I put carrots in the bowl am I sabotaging the people that want candy?0
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Don't they have "their space" in their office ? I don't have that unfortunately. No office walls, no cubicle, just a big open space...0
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so if I put carrots in the bowl am I sabotaging the people that want candy?
I like how you completely ignored my previous question...0 -
You can opine on how things 'should' be all you like. Reality is that if you are the one person going against the common trend in the office, and it's something management are choosing to not enforce, you are causing friction. Doesn't matter if it's fair or reasonable.
Management want to have the work done with the minimal stress and friction possible. Petty squabbles over candy bowl position are not going to be greeted well.
I didn't say anything about petty squabbles or troublemaking. I simply suggested that if she does not like the candy bowl to be there and there is a common area for food, she can move the candy bowl there. That is what the other person seems to be doing in reverse.0 -
One "game" I play is to turn things around on the saboteurs...you think I am going to fail, you <bleeper>? I don't THINK so. Make it a point of personal pride to lose at twice the normal rate when they pull this stuff. (Exaggerated for effect and of course this dialogue only goes on in my mind).
Alternately, you could plan on having x number of calories of the candy per day, and keep that portion in your own desk, so you don't have to worry about the main bowl because you already have your own.
Another trick I sometimes use it to remember how nasty most grocery candy is...old, doesn't even meet the requirements to technically be chocolate, filled with nasty chemicals I can taste, etc. I choose to have plenty of treats, but selectively using the snobby card helps me keep the endless crush of junk from overwhelming me.
From what you've described, it may currently be a power play between you and the one other co-worker, so think about how you want to proceed on that front. You don't want to end up looking bad in front of people who might matter so don't go to her level. She thinks you are weak because of your admission and is now taking advantage...prove her wrong!0 -
if you do not like your office space then go to management....I am not sure what else you want me to say..Don't they have "their space" in their office ? I don't have that unfortunately. No office walls, no cubicle, just a big open space...
I am sorry that your office is in the public area where there is a Christmas tree and bowl of candy ...where would you like for them to move it? The basement?0 -
Don't they have "their space" in their office ? I don't have that unfortunately. No office walls, no cubicle, just a big open space...
We are in an open concept office. Even if we weren't, I just feel that I am the one who is in control of what I eat, and I wouldn't want them to move it. I think maybe blowing up the issue just makes it worse on you. Why can't you just make up your mind to not eat it? I am not being sarcastic, I just don't get it. I was 382 lbs in January, and I started realizing that everything I do, everything I eat is a choice, and I now choose not to let food drive my feelings and actions any more.0 -
so if I put carrots in the bowl am I sabotaging the people that want candy?
That doesn't even make sense?!! My co-worker KNOWS I LOST WEIGHT, SHE KNOWS I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH SUGAR and SHE INTENTIONALLY MOVED THE CANDY DISH BACK ??? I consider that pretty mean spirited and question if yes, she's means to sabotage me...Misery loves company and she is always battling with her weight / diet...0 -
I am not going to comment on the self control part, but even after you requesting, if they kept it back- it was just rude!
Is it for the co-workers or do you have customers? If its out there for visiting customers, it makes sense, but for co-workers, it does not make much sense where the dish is placed. But i would also like to give a benefit of doubt to your co-workers. Not all the people are on fitness bandwagon and most people love the holidays for the yummy cookies and candies. Maybe they just want the environment to be festive and candy makes them happy?0 -
if you do not like your office space then go to management....I am not sure what else you want me to say..
I am sorry that your office is in the public area where there is a Christmas tree and bowl of candy ...where would you like for them to move it? The basement?
Well aren't you just an absolute troll...bad karma for you.
I THINK I WAS PRETTY CLEAR WHEN I SAID THE LUNCH ROOM.0 -
if you do not like your office space then go to management....I am not sure what else you want me to say..
I am sorry that your office is in the public area where there is a Christmas tree and bowl of candy ...where would you like for them to move it? The basement?
Actually, the OP said the lunch table, not the basement. It seems to me that food belongs in the food area.0 -
It seems to me that this is the real issue for you. My suggestion would be to stop worrying about your co-worker and her motives and just stay focused on what will work for you. If that means moving the candy dish back to the lunch room every time it appears on the table, then just move it back to the lunch room.
That doesn't even make sense?!! My co-worker KNOWS I LOST WEIGHT, SHE KNOWS I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH SUGAR and SHE INTENTIONALLY MOVED THE CANDY DISH BACK ??? I consider that pretty mean spirited and question if yes, she's means to sabotage me...Misery loves company and she is always battling with her weight / diet...
No fuss, no muss, no drama. Just do what you need to do.0 -
No customers at all, we are actually in a very remote location so we rarely even have visitors.0
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It's been fine the past few days. I just make sure to eat every couple of hours (not easy b/c I'm on two medications one you take with food, the other you can't take within 2 - 3 hrs after eating). I haven't had more than a piece or two since Monday :happy:0
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I like this a lot :happy:
Don't get mad, get even!0 -
We are in an open concept office. Even if we weren't, I just feel that I am the one who is in control of what I eat, and I wouldn't want them to move it. I think maybe blowing up the issue just makes it worse on you. Why can't you just make up your mind to not eat it? I am not being sarcastic, I just don't get it. I was 382 lbs in January, and I started realizing that everything I do, everything I eat is a choice, and I now choose not to let food drive my feelings and actions any more.
Halleluiah, a reasonable answer. :flowerforyou:0 -
I am a total *kitten* when it comes to things like this, so I would probably just throw away all the candy and take the dish home where it can't be found again. If I had voiced my opposition to the dish being there and it STILL kept coming back, yeah it'd be toast. haha0
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