what is the worst thing you have been called?

My ex would say 'oh you're not eating again are you' in a tone of total exasperation even though it might have been the first thing I had eaten all day.

My mum told me that if the pill had been available in the fifties I wouldn't even have been conceived.

Fat, greedy, pig, cow, stupid, lazy and all the other nasty words people feel free to say when you're overweight.

And finally this one which I'm not sure is a compliment or an insult:
"Have you lost weight?"
"I don't know."
"Well it's just that your bum seems to take up less of the corridor than it used to."

You have to laugh don't you or you'd spend your life crying.

I've been called just about everything in the book. People are mean. No one thinks about what their words might do to someone in the long run.

I try not to hyperfocus on what I have been called; it took me years (still struggle, not going to lie) on what people teased me about or called me because I just get sad thinking about it.

^THIS AND ^THIS AND ^THIS SOME MORE!

I've been called names, I've been kicked, pushed, tripped and knocked down. I've been spit on, I've been tricked and my stuff has been stolen and vandalized. For reasons relating to my weight and other things that make me who I am. From the time I was 7 until recent times, this all courtesy of my peers and people of all ages. I used to get sucked into thinking about all of the horrible things that people have done to me but it can't be like that, it has to stop. It makes me too sad, as well.

Serial killer. No idea why either, I would never harm anyone, beyond that, I'm that ridiculous guy who carries bugs outside because I don't want to kill them. Oh well, not really even sure why the observation stuck so long, maybe it did strike a nerve somehow, but not going to fret over it.

I did, however, carefully note where the person who called me this lives, and I keep detailed notes about his habits and where he goes, along with photographs I have taken of him surreptitiously over the last four years. Soon... soon...

awww bb haha:laugh:

Parents much as we love them do the worst damage psychologically with weight gain.
I have been in the same shoes they fit many x

Exercise related? About 16 years ago I was crossing the street on a run and since it was hot I was dripping with sweat and only wearing a sports bra and my shorts. These guys drove by and yelled "Yuck!" And sometimes when I wear headphones I turn them down low or don't have music on which gives me the liberty to ignore who and what I choose to. Anyhow, I ran past this guy and his daughter who was in the baby stroller (mind you I'm passing them) and the baby says "Daddy, she's running?" The dad says, "No she's jogging." :huh: Should have kicked him in his knee as I passed. :laugh:

Thunder thighs! I was so hurt at first, but my mom taught me to keep composed. I ended up just smiling and saying "Hey Kyle!" every time he called me by that. Eventually he stopped and we even became semi-friends.

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I was in 7th grade and these 8th grade girls who rode the same bus would call me Big Bird. I am tall and I have a big nose. It didn't help that my favorite sweater was a bright yellow fuzzy Old Navy one. I would be stuck on the bus with these older girls laughing and making fun of me really loud for all to hear. Nobody stood up for me and the bus driver didn't do anything. I would run home and cry. My dad told me to ignore it (because I used to yell back) and they would get bored and move on. I would just sit there and take it for months until they FINALLY got bored enough to leave me alone.

I think it was karma. When I was in 4th grade I made fun of a 2nd grade girl. It looked like she had diapers on and me and my other friend would tease her. It was so mean. I will never forget the way she looked as we would belittle her. She would look so defeated. In high school I ran into her and I apologized. At least I think I did unless it was a dream. But I will always remember the way I felt bullying someone. I don't know why I did it. It felt so bad.

Ugly.
Pizza face.
Midget.
Greasy skinned ****
Did I mention ugly?

Over and over, from the age of 11 into my early 20s. People don't say those things to me anymore, the way that they look at me is enough.

29 years later those words still form the basis of my opinion of myself.

My mother - "Worthless little s**t" mom's gotta love them.

"Fat" and "ugly" were always lovely comments.

I've also been asked why I 'ruined my face' with a lip piercing, and at school someone pointed out how I am big but have small features (eyes, nose, mouth, etc.) and it looks kinda weird.

Funny how things like that stick with you, isn't it?

I was called "ugly" by a kid at the pool when I was in the fragile teen years. Apparently, my eye ptosis had gotten worse as my eyes do not react well to chlorine. The kid imitated my droopy eye by closing one of his and dancing around going, "Ugly, ugly!" This was in front of my rather gorgeous friend who had her own securities about her weight. I still can't help but think that at least that can be fixed without a knife to the eyelid.

Without a great sum of money, you can't fix ugly. You also can't fix stupid.

Others have insinuated that I'm slow for asking weird questions. In one case, it was that I needed to drop something off at an office. However, the door had a keypad next to it. Apparently, I didn't pull very hard, so I assumed it was locked and that I needed the code to open it. The guy at the desk just told me to pull harder in his best customer service voice, but I bet he thought I was ridiculous. /facepalm.

A "big girl"

If my sons really want to get under my skin, they call me a liberal minded democrat! Call me anything but that! :sad:

my ex called me 'the worst mistake of her life' lolol