what is the worst thing you have been called?

I can honestly say that nothing has ever been said to me that didn't just roll off, mostly because I could care less what people think. I have been called a racist before, which is probably the worst for me, but considering the source, again, I could have cared less. Fact is, I don't care what people call me because I and my friends and family know the truth, and outside opinions don't mean $#!^.

Rigger

Just before I started losing weight someone yelled out at me earthquake.

About my weight...cow while throwing my books down the hall of my high school.

About my life...my brother used to call me a skank, my dad told me I looked like a porn star and would call me a slut and all those kind words. My coworker called me the *kitten* of a restaurant and asked who was I going to *kitten* myself out to to pay my next meal. Funny thing is, I don't sleep around, I never have.

Gotta love people.

Oh! I forgot the best! How could I forget this? I got told that a boyfriend at the time didn't love me and could never love me until I lost a ton of weight and grew my hair out and would never marry mean unless I looked dang good in a bikini because he wanted a trophy wife and I was no where near that.

Waste of human flesh - Grade 7 Civics teacher in front of entire class

White trash P.O.S. - Grade 9 History teacher in front of entire class

I could list a few hundred very creative ones from my mother, but you get the idea, lol.

...Just last night I was called a ***** and a fat *kitten* and that I was only good for f***ing(an ex who was mad cuz I broke up with him and wouldn't take him back)...

I think you take that as a compliment, say "thank you" and walk away. I mean, he did say you were good at f#cking. It's always fun to intentionally mis-hear someone's insult as a compliment. It confuses people because everyone thinks they are awesome at delivering insults.

Over the years, I've been called a lot of things because of my weight. But now, some people (usually guys) call me "Big Mike" or "Big Guy", which I hate! I don't need to be reminded of my weight. One time, a guy who is short in stature called me "Big Guy". When I responded by calling him "Little Guy", he got the message.

I can see why you broke up with him. My wife and I have had many arguments over the years, but she has never used my weight as an insult.

You eat f*ing too much.
You have no F*ing self control when you eat.

Are you a cop? :laugh:

So many heartbreaking stories. My heart goes out to all of you.

Most of my painful and humiliating memories are from that phase of developing into my sexuality and my experiences with guys. The way they described some of my very personal anatomy was cruel and gave me a complex. I was so convinced I was unusual until I started ...(don't laugh)... watching porn and then I knew I was not unusual at all! In fact I am convinced these boys had not truly been with many real girls or they would have known the diversity and beauty in all bodies.

Many years and tears later and I am a healthy and confident and have plenty of experiences to speak otherwise. But those years are always in the back of my mind and make me cringe.

when I was on my way to the subway to go to work, this guy, going the opposite direction, walked by and said " good morning Fatso". in true NYC fashion, and without skipping a beat i said "good morning to you *kitten*"

TRUE NY Perfection!!!!

When I lost weight the first time, some family members thought it was okay to tell me what I looked like when I was fat. My aunt said I looked like the Michelin Man and also said that I looked waxy like a fat porcelain doll.

It is pretty hard for me to go to family events now that I'm fat again, because now I know what they think of me when I'm overweight. But, I'm trying to change that! However, I will never forget the pain that those comments caused me.

not things i've been ''called'' but some things that have been said to me:

"you've grown. not taller though."

"you've lost weight. you're pretty now."

i have been picked on by every freaking single person in my family my friend circle.... sometimes it hurts me alot.. there are people fatter than me in my family (the previous me) and they picked on me in front of everybody and i just have to smile i know i cant be rude to anybody because they will just pick on me some more.. people never realizes the person is shattered inside.. that self confidence is crashed in to million pieces when a public comment is made on weight and what the worst part is everybody laughs! :O i mean c'mon people that was not even funny that was how i went sometimes but i cant speak out loud..i cried so many times alone just because of my weight.. i can never forget what each and every person called me how they make fun of me and now that same people are asking me how have i lost so much? can i give them some tips? .. time really turn back.. i now really make suure i never comment on somebodys weight as how much they have gained.. i just give confidence to people who are fat.. i try to support them indirectly because i know exactly what they must be feeling.. i dont know what is wrong with the skinny or thin party.. why cant they just imagine that the person will be very heart broken if you called them fat.. i mean no girl ever ever ever wants to be fat she always wants that perfect body... WHY CANT THIS WORLD THINK???? if they have the 'skinnier genes' or whatever that is .. they are just not gaining because of their genes.. (i am soory but that what most of the thin people around me are like.. they can eat a large pizza drink a jumbo pepsi and still not gain... i am not talking about everybody though) ..
p.s: sorry for being so long and ranting but to this very day tears comes in to my eyes when i remeber waht my own family called me once .. how they to tease me and what i had to go through everyday