Early Stages of Dating -- No-Nos

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  • willrun4bagels
    willrun4bagels Posts: 838 Member
    I posted this on another thread on here a few weeks ago, but this will always be the biggest no-no that I've ever experienced lol. It definitely wasn't a date, but everyone always seems to get a kick out of this story (it was by no means funny at the time):

    Talking to a guy online that lives an hour away, we talk for a week or so, add each other on Facebook, and then I get a random phone call from him and he's like "I'm on my way to come see you"... I was confused, had never given him my address or mentioned exactly whereabouts I live, etc... I was like 'oh he's obviously kidding'.

    An hour after that phone call, there's a knock on my front door. I had three roommates that were all out of town for the month for winter break, so I'm home by myself. HE'S STANDING OUTSIDE MY FRONT DOOR WITH A BACKPACK. In my large, locked, high-rise apartment building that had no labels on the doors/mailboxes to identify who lives in each apartment. And somehow, he is standing at my front door. Says it was easy to find out where I lived using "landmarks that you mentioned, and the internet". Da fuk?

    I made up some lie about having to go somewhere, he asked me for gas money to get home (WTF??? I gave him money just to get him out of my living room), and then I blocked/deleted him from everything and never heard a peep from him again. I almost think I'll see his mugshot on the news someday for something. ::shudders::

    That was the thread I was looking for yesterday! Yeah, that's a bad one.

    Ask, and you shall receive:flowerforyou: : http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1135401-bad-dates
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    I posted this on another thread on here a few weeks ago, but this will always be the biggest no-no that I've ever experienced lol. It definitely wasn't a date, but everyone always seems to get a kick out of this story (it was by no means funny at the time):

    Talking to a guy online that lives an hour away, we talk for a week or so, add each other on Facebook, and then I get a random phone call from him and he's like "I'm on my way to come see you"... I was confused, had never given him my address or mentioned exactly whereabouts I live, etc... I was like 'oh he's obviously kidding'.

    An hour after that phone call, there's a knock on my front door. I had three roommates that were all out of town for the month for winter break, so I'm home by myself. HE'S STANDING OUTSIDE MY FRONT DOOR WITH A BACKPACK. In my large, locked, high-rise apartment building that had no labels on the doors/mailboxes to identify who lives in each apartment. And somehow, he is standing at my front door. Says it was easy to find out where I lived using "landmarks that you mentioned, and the internet". Da fuk?

    I made up some lie about having to go somewhere, he asked me for gas money to get home (WTF??? I gave him money just to get him out of my living room), and then I blocked/deleted him from everything and never heard a peep from him again. I almost think I'll see his mugshot on the news someday for something. ::shudders::

    That was the thread I was looking for yesterday! Yeah, that's a bad one.

    Ask, and you shall receive:flowerforyou: : http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1135401-bad-dates

    Aaaah, thank you! In my search yesterday, it brought me to an audible fart thread. Not exactly what I was looking for, but it was just as entertaining. :bigsmile:
  • willrun4bagels
    willrun4bagels Posts: 838 Member
    I posted this on another thread on here a few weeks ago, but this will always be the biggest no-no that I've ever experienced lol. It definitely wasn't a date, but everyone always seems to get a kick out of this story (it was by no means funny at the time):

    Talking to a guy online that lives an hour away, we talk for a week or so, add each other on Facebook, and then I get a random phone call from him and he's like "I'm on my way to come see you"... I was confused, had never given him my address or mentioned exactly whereabouts I live, etc... I was like 'oh he's obviously kidding'.

    An hour after that phone call, there's a knock on my front door. I had three roommates that were all out of town for the month for winter break, so I'm home by myself. HE'S STANDING OUTSIDE MY FRONT DOOR WITH A BACKPACK. In my large, locked, high-rise apartment building that had no labels on the doors/mailboxes to identify who lives in each apartment. And somehow, he is standing at my front door. Says it was easy to find out where I lived using "landmarks that you mentioned, and the internet". Da fuk?

    I made up some lie about having to go somewhere, he asked me for gas money to get home (WTF??? I gave him money just to get him out of my living room), and then I blocked/deleted him from everything and never heard a peep from him again. I almost think I'll see his mugshot on the news someday for something. ::shudders::

    That was the thread I was looking for yesterday! Yeah, that's a bad one.

    Ask, and you shall receive:flowerforyou: : http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1135401-bad-dates

    Aaaah, thank you! In my search yesterday, it brought me to an audible fart thread. Not exactly what I was looking for, but it was just as entertaining. :bigsmile:

    I saw that too. I think that was earlier in this thread... maybe. Either way, gross :)

    A few months ago, one of my friends that knew about that story made me search for that crazy guy on Facebook to see if he was still on there. We found him... profile says he's married now. The girl probably doesn't even know it. Either that, or he's got her locked in a tool shed at his house. Creepy!
  • silvergurl518
    silvergurl518 Posts: 4,123 Member
    1.) date picked me up at 1 P.M. and took me to the Botanical Gardens. On the way we listened to Selena Gomez because he had just bought the new CD (strike one). While at the gardens he had me take picture after picture of the same poses rather than get to know me. He called me Princess (strike 2). And after 30 minutes in the hot Texas Sun (May in Texas means 90+ degree weather and ridiculous humidity). I started to sweat. He licked a bead of sweat off of my neck. Just leaned over and licked it off. In front of God, Children and everyone. (Strike three YOU'RE OUT!!!)

    hahahha. I REMEMBER WHEN YOU TOLD ME THIS IN PERSON. <3 you.
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    I posted this on another thread on here a few weeks ago, but this will always be the biggest no-no that I've ever experienced lol. It definitely wasn't a date, but everyone always seems to get a kick out of this story (it was by no means funny at the time):

    Talking to a guy online that lives an hour away, we talk for a week or so, add each other on Facebook, and then I get a random phone call from him and he's like "I'm on my way to come see you"... I was confused, had never given him my address or mentioned exactly whereabouts I live, etc... I was like 'oh he's obviously kidding'.

    An hour after that phone call, there's a knock on my front door. I had three roommates that were all out of town for the month for winter break, so I'm home by myself. HE'S STANDING OUTSIDE MY FRONT DOOR WITH A BACKPACK. In my large, locked, high-rise apartment building that had no labels on the doors/mailboxes to identify who lives in each apartment. And somehow, he is standing at my front door. Says it was easy to find out where I lived using "landmarks that you mentioned, and the internet". Da fuk?

    I made up some lie about having to go somewhere, he asked me for gas money to get home (WTF??? I gave him money just to get him out of my living room), and then I blocked/deleted him from everything and never heard a peep from him again. I almost think I'll see his mugshot on the news someday for something. ::shudders::

    That was the thread I was looking for yesterday! Yeah, that's a bad one.

    Ask, and you shall receive:flowerforyou: : http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1135401-bad-dates

    Aaaah, thank you! In my search yesterday, it brought me to an audible fart thread. Not exactly what I was looking for, but it was just as entertaining. :bigsmile:

    I saw that too. I think that was earlier in this thread... maybe. Either way, gross :)

    A few months ago, one of my friends that knew about that story made me search for that crazy guy on Facebook to see if he was still on there. We found him... profile says he's married now. The girl probably doesn't even know it. Either that, or he's got her locked in a tool shed at his house. Creepy!

    Holy crap. Or she was too scared to say no. :noway:
  • patrickblo13
    patrickblo13 Posts: 831 Member
    Don't send a **** pic unless I've already seen it.

    Or at the very least, things are headed that way ;)
    Lol, they might take that second part as an invite hahaha.

    Ok, I guess I'm kind of wishy-washy on this rule. Sometimes it is ok. Sometimes it is not. It depends on the sender!

    Clicking send now!
  • silvergurl518
    silvergurl518 Posts: 4,123 Member
    i'm remembering now a guy who once told me about his three different suicide attempts (on a first date). it was so hard for him but even harder for me (imagine the discomfort!! omg). i don't even know how we ended up on a date--this guy was DEPRESSED. also said he had a child with someone who wasn't even his ex-wife. the thing i'm embarassed to admit is that this was a long time ago and being insecure, instead of running....we hung out again. i'm lucky to be alive.
  • askeates
    askeates Posts: 1,490 Member
    So I was married for 20 years, and after the divorce the first guy I went out with seemed real nice the first night we talked. Then on the actual date he talked about exactly the same thing we had talked about before.... how about some new and stimulating, non-ex related conversations! Every time I've seen him since then, it is still the exact same conversation!

    Oh, and do NOT come at me with your mouth open and your tongue hanging out of your mouth and expect a kiss! GROSS :grumble:
  • djeffreys10
    djeffreys10 Posts: 2,312 Member
    I am not familiar with the thing to which you refer..."dating"
  • beachgirl172723
    beachgirl172723 Posts: 151 Member
    Bump
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    I am not familiar with the thing to which you refer..."dating"

    I don't believe you.
  • srcardinal10
    srcardinal10 Posts: 387 Member
    I posted this on another thread on here a few weeks ago, but this will always be the biggest no-no that I've ever experienced lol. It definitely wasn't a date, but everyone always seems to get a kick out of this story (it was by no means funny at the time):

    Talking to a guy online that lives an hour away, we talk for a week or so, add each other on Facebook, and then I get a random phone call from him and he's like "I'm on my way to come see you"... I was confused, had never given him my address or mentioned exactly whereabouts I live, etc... I was like 'oh he's obviously kidding'.

    An hour after that phone call, there's a knock on my front door. I had three roommates that were all out of town for the month for winter break, so I'm home by myself. HE'S STANDING OUTSIDE MY FRONT DOOR WITH A BACKPACK. In my large, locked, high-rise apartment building that had no labels on the doors/mailboxes to identify who lives in each apartment. And somehow, he is standing at my front door. Says it was easy to find out where I lived using "landmarks that you mentioned, and the internet". Da fuk?

    I made up some lie about having to go somewhere, he asked me for gas money to get home (WTF??? I gave him money just to get him out of my living room), and then I blocked/deleted him from everything and never heard a peep from him again. I almost think I'll see his mugshot on the news someday for something. ::shudders::

    #CREEPYAF
  • srcardinal10
    srcardinal10 Posts: 387 Member
    I am not familiar with the thing to which you refer..."dating"

    I don't believe you.

    Ditto.
  • sbarella
    sbarella Posts: 713 Member
    A few months ago, one of my friends that knew about that story made me search for that crazy guy on Facebook to see if he was still on there. We found him... profile says he's married now. The girl probably doesn't even know it. Either that, or he's got her locked in a tool shed at his house. Creepy!
    He probably married her
    Overly-attached-girlfriend-commits-murder.jpg
  • willrun4bagels
    willrun4bagels Posts: 838 Member
    A few months ago, one of my friends that knew about that story made me search for that crazy guy on Facebook to see if he was still on there. We found him... profile says he's married now. The girl probably doesn't even know it. Either that, or he's got her locked in a tool shed at his house. Creepy!
    He probably married her
    Overly-attached-girlfriend-commits-murder.jpg

    Bahahahaha thanks for making me laugh like a crazy person in front of unsuspecting coworkers :blushing:
  • TheConsciousFoody
    TheConsciousFoody Posts: 607 Member
    My first date with a guy on Friday as we are eating:

    Him: "Oh. I shouldn't have ordered brocolli. It makes me fart."
    Me: **staring in shock**
    Him: "Let's hope I don't fart."
    Me: **face palm**

    He's 35. Quite possibly why he's single.

    See this worries me that I will end up single forever because...that would have made me laugh
  • sbetts2229
    sbetts2229 Posts: 79 Member
    QUOTE:



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    My first date with a guy on Friday:

    Him: "Oh. I shouldn't have ordered brocolli. It makes me fart."
    Me: **staring in shock**
    Him: "Let's hope I don't fart."
    Me: **face palm**

    He's 35. Quite possibly why he's single.



    Honesty is refreshing. Can I get his digits?


    Back off sister, I asked first!


    Tag team?!