Ladies, how do you feel about being a stay at home mom/wife?
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I would like to be a stay at home mom, but I dont think that's possible. My body is completely wrong0
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If you don't think raising children is contributing to society then you probably shouldn't have kids at all XD0
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I would like to be a stay at home mom, but I dont think that's possible. My body is completely wrong
You could be a stay at home dad :P0 -
Although I think its totally up to the individal family as to what to do, I do find it a little sad that someone said back there they didn't consider raising children to be contributing to society in any way
Huge ditto! Have you NOT seen some of the young adults these days?? Trust me, staying home raising 3 thoughtful respectful young men IS contributing to society!
Working parents are still raising their children.0 -
Although I think its totally up to the individal family as to what to do, I do find it a little sad that someone said back there they didn't consider raising children to be contributing to society in any way
Huge ditto! Have you NOT seen some of the young adults these days?? Trust me, staying home raising 3 thoughtful respectful young men IS contributing to society!
Working parents are still raising their children.0 -
This is very interesting. I do not have children - but I do plan on starting in the next 3 years. I have thought and debating about this SO much. I think i figured I would go to PT...but then for me, that means shift work....so I dont know. Its like mon - fri full time...or pt shift work. But omg I feel like I would go NUTS working full time and then just being a mom when I get home. At least if i was PT i could work, have me time and be a mom. Lots to think about for sure. I try not to.0
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I'm a working mom, and I love my job, but it is tough!!!
Basically working moms have two jobs--we still do all the stuff SAHMs do, plus work 30, 40, or 50 hours in addition.
I would choose to be a SAHM if our finances would permit.0 -
Although I think its totally up to the individal family as to what to do, I do find it a little sad that someone said back there they didn't consider raising children to be contributing to society in any way
Huge ditto! Have you NOT seen some of the young adults these days?? Trust me, staying home raising 3 thoughtful respectful young men IS contributing to society!
Because those of us who work aren't raising respectful children?
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I guess I grew up the best of both worlds. My mom and dad owned their own business (a motel) and I lived with them while they stayed home and worked. The downside to having parents that work at home though is that your house is always an office or a place of business, too, and whatever quality time you are having can and will be interrupted by the outside world. I'm sure it was the same for many of the ranching and farming kids in the area: home is not only a home but a place of work, not just for the parents but for the kids. The kids also work as soon as they are able to.0
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To each their own, but it is absolutely not for me - I spent way too long getting an education and building a successful career to give it up. And I want to be a productive member of society, I would not be ok with my husband supporting me and not contributing myself.
Stay at home moms definitely contribute! Just saying...0 -
Although I think its totally up to the individal family as to what to do, I do find it a little sad that someone said back there they didn't consider raising children to be contributing to society in any way
Huge ditto! Have you NOT seen some of the young adults these days?? Trust me, staying home raising 3 thoughtful respectful young men IS contributing to society!
Because those of us who work aren't raising respectful children?
I think they meant that someone who doesn't think raising a child is contributing to society probably isn't focused on trying to raise a child then. There is nothing wrong with being working parents.0 -
I'm not a mother, but I don't think I'd want to be a stay at home mom.
I'm also in school to be a teacher though, so I'd see my brats anyways. (:0 -
I have been a SAHM since I remarried 14 years ago. I love being home when the kids get home from school , and I wouldn`t have it any other way . Granted I did work crazy hours with 2 to 3 jobs per day from my high school years( 13.5 yrs old) till my 35th birthday Basically I had no childhood, no fun nights out with friends etc . I saved,saved,saved enough to be able to say I am sorta retired !! I put in my work hours. My house was paid off till I remarried and we wanted a bigger house so we are back having a mortgage now but we are still okay on the 1 salary . Staying home, raising the kids, cleaning house, cooking,maintaining the pool, and gardening and all is no picnic either but I love it.
I do have an a couple of online shops on ETSY but I do that for fun so I do not count it as work from home lol Its the workaholic in me0 -
I'm sure everyone is meaning well, but it's important to try to NOT insult other people's life choices when defending your own.
OF course staying home with your children is contributing to society.
AND yes, working parents do "raise" their children and even often raise "respectful" children.0 -
I'm sure everyone is meaning well, but it's important to try to NOT insult other people's life choices when defending your own.
OF course staying home with your children is contributing to society.
AND yes, working parents do "raise" their children and even often raise "respectful" children.
Of course I can't speak for everyone else, but I believe the people who agreed with my post are having the same thoughts.
I just didn't really agree with saying you aren't contributing to society if you aren't working outside the house, raising a member of society is contributing no matter what!
Hopefully that is more clear
ETA: Probably even more clear now I fixed all my typos LOL0 -
Agree, BusyRae
SAHMS have a career. Not everyone can stay home with their children. Some choose to work. Loving parents contribute to society!0 -
AND, being a SAHM is just as hard as being a working mom. I can say this because I've done both.0
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I have been a SAHM since I remarried 14 years ago. I love being home when the kids get home from school , and I wouldn`t have it any other way . Granted I did work crazy hours with 2 to 3 jobs per day from my high school years( 13.5 yrs old) till my 35th birthday Basically I had no childhood, no fun nights out with friends etc . I saved,saved,saved enough to be able to say I am sorta retired !! I put in my work hours. My house was paid off till I remarried and we wanted a bigger house so we are back having a mortgage now but we are still okay on the 1 salary . Staying home, raising the kids, cleaning house, cooking,maintaining the pool, and gardening and all is no picnic either but I love it.
I do have an a couple of online shops on ETSY but I do that for fun so I do not count it as work from home lol Its the workaholic in me0 -
I 100% support women who decide to take this route - it's not an easy life (but then again, working isn't either). Just please don't think those of us who choose to work are doing something wrong. I work a job with good work/life balance and my little one loves her daycare and her extra time with her grandmother is really important to all of us. I am very lucky to work in my chosen field and happy that my husband and I both make equal contributions to the household financially and in terms of parenting and housekeeping. My husband is pretty rock solid though so not all working mothers are as lucky as I am.
Basically, I feel so incredibly lucky in life and happy with my hours and work/life balance, but it can be really really hard when people who are able to stay at home and choose to do so, say things like "I just don't see why you'd have kids and then not raise them yourself."
But if you're a gold star stay at home mom who is nice to other moms, then awesome. Absolutely awesome!0 -
Hi, I'm a stay at home mom and sometimes it is REALLY boring but I would suggest staying home until the kid is about 2 years old and then get back into work or have another child. Kids need there moms around for the first few years for all the cuddles and breastfeeding they can get.0
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