"GALS"

Also, since it was a term used by white people towards black women, white people don't get to decide if it's offensive or not.

My grandmother called me "gal". And we are both white?

Also, since it was a term used by white people towards black women, white people don't get to decide if it's offensive or not.

My grandmother called me "gal". And we are both white?

That must've been a terrible obstacle to overcome. A litttle girl called me Baldy the other day. It was a joke to her, but it is something I will have to live with for the rest of my life.

Also, since it was a term used by white people towards black women, white people don't get to decide if it's offensive or not.

This is why i just call everyone the same thing Samuel L Jackson does.

Keeps it simple.

Also, since it was a term used by white people towards black women, white people don't get to decide if it's offensive or not.

You are saying this like it is fact, can you provide some insight to your opinion? Where was this used?

I have never heard gal used as a derogatory term toward black women, so I am curious what your reference for this is.

It's not an opinion, it's history. I studied cultural anthropology. I am sure if you google "gal derogatory black women" or "gal black slavery" you will find plenty of information.

I did google it. I found one site that mentions it, but my phone is being stupid and I can't open it to read more about it.

Either way, this is NOT a commonly-known "fact." I bet few black people are aware of this particular origin, assuming it's the case.

But my question is, if we can't say "gal," (which was used to describe ALL young women at one point in fairly recent history), are we not allowed to call male children "boys" anymore?

Also, since it was a term used by white people towards black women, white people don't get to decide if it's offensive or not.

You are saying this like it is fact, can you provide some insight to your opinion? Where was this used?

I have never heard gal used as a derogatory term toward black women, so I am curious what your reference for this is.

It's not an opinion, it's history. I studied cultural anthropology. I am sure if you google "gal derogatory black women" or "gal black slavery" you will find plenty of information.

I googled "livery golden james" and got About 28,500,000 results (0.48 seconds)

Also, since it was a term used by white people towards black women, white people don't get to decide if it's offensive or not.

You are saying this like it is fact, can you provide some insight to your opinion? Where was this used?

I have never heard gal used as a derogatory term toward black women, so I am curious what your reference for this is.

It's not an opinion, it's history. I studied cultural anthropology. I am sure if you google "gal derogatory black women" or "gal black slavery" you will find plenty of information.

Then if you studied it, provide some insight. That is all I'm asking.

I did Google it. I got Urban dictionary and a bunch of forum posts. No data or specific references.

I would think you can come up with some specicif references for your statement. As a student of culture, you should understand that data is needed to back up your claim.

I'm just answering the question.

I didn't realize people would be so shocked to know that language has a history...

Not for long. Since every special snowflake has to complain about every little thing eventually all language will look like this:

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Also, since it was a term used by white people towards black women, white people don't get to decide if it's offensive or not.

You are saying this like it is fact, can you provide some insight to your opinion? Where was this used?

I have never heard gal used as a derogatory term toward black women, so I am curious what your reference for this is.

It's not an opinion, it's history. I studied cultural anthropology. I am sure if you google "gal derogatory black women" or "gal black slavery" you will find plenty of information.

You actually don't though -- I googled it and I only get a link to Urban Dictionary.

ETA I was googling "gal" and "racist" and also "gal" and "slur".

http://www.blackvoicenews.com/columnists/joseph-a-bailey-ii-md/45114-slave-names-in-the-americas.html

Another word white people can't say?

From my research it's a cockney vulgarity from the 1700's. I couldn't find any reference to racism.

Once the vigorous years of his prime were passed, he was allowed to assume the title of “Uncle.”

So now what do I call my father's brother???

Bro Daddy?

Another word white people can't say?

oh you can. just make sure its only with your white friends though.

Also, since it was a term used by white people towards black women, white people don't get to decide if it's offensive or not.

Your "white guilt" is showing. There's a black president. You can start letting go now...