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    Ladies...Do married men constantly talk to you?

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    • Posts: 2,504 Member
      This one married guy...he completely stalks me. He won't leave me alone, texts me everyday, bemoans my food choices (especially my ardor for soy sauce and all things sodium). He even gets into bed with me at night and steals the covers. I feel I've been giving him all the wrong signals. Maybe I shouldn't have had his children.
      He stills the covers? Just break up?!
    • Posts: 764 Member
      All men talk to me. Terrible. I have a wedding ring on, go away.
    • Posts: 141
      Oh god yes!!!
      My dad
      My uncle
      My brother in law
      My husband!!!

      Oh my they all talk to me!!! :P
    • Posts: 945 Member
      im not married and really dont talk to anyone....
    • Posts: 374 Member
      When I was a bartender, I constantly had married men trying to take me home, trying to get my number, trying to get me to send them/let them take innappropriate pictures. Wearing a fake wedding band didn't work, telling them I was in a relationship didn't work (even though I wasn't at the time), actually had a guy friend pose as a boyfriend a couple times and even that didn't work! And half these men hitting on me weren't even drunk... I guess some girls just attract those kind of men? I was always friendly but treated everyone the same way, men or women. I have since quit bartending, have a boyfriend, and am a lot less social, so I have less issues but still have random men message me on Facebook or hit on me while shopping, etc...

      My point being, I feel for you, OP. :flowerforyou:
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      im not married and really dont talk to anyone....
      :flowerforyou:
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      :flowerforyou:

      :blushing:
    • Posts: 40 Member
      When I was a bartender, I constantly had married men trying to take me home, trying to get my number, trying to get me to send them/let them take innappropriate pictures. Wearing a fake wedding band didn't work, telling them I was in a relationship didn't work (even though I wasn't at the time), actually had a guy friend pose as a boyfriend a couple times and even that didn't work! And half these men hitting on me weren't even drunk... I guess some girls just attract those kind of men? I was always friendly but treated everyone the same way, men or women. I have since quit bartending, have a boyfriend, and am a lot less social, so I have less issues but still have random men message me on Facebook or hit on me while shopping, etc...

      My point being, I feel for you, OP. :flowerforyou:

      Thanks. :)
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      Thanks. :)

      You're welcome.
    • Posts: 485
      No, married men don't usually chat me up in an inappropriate way. I mean, I work in customer service right now, so I talk to a lot because of my job, but I don't think they have ever been inappropriate/flirtatious. At least not that I have noticed.

      Not sure why you keep experiencing this, but it could just be random. I doubt it's anything you're doing "wrong". If you start feeling uncomfortable, tell them.
    • Posts: 33 Member
      Are these men that you also know their wives? Cause that's even skeezier. >.>
    • Posts: 374 Member
      Not really sure why married men would hit on you, you're not really that attractive.

      :huh:
      Well aren't you just a ravishing hunk of man meat. :noway:
    • Posts: 1 Member
      I don't think that's it. (Low self-esteem, I mean) I find when you feel good about yourself and radiate confidence, THAT'S what gets the men talking to you.
    • Posts: 306 Member
      I remember reading a study that said an older man's testerone levels are boosted when he interacts with a younger, pretty woman...

      I know we are big on documentation here..I wont cite it as FACT as I cant remember where I read it...

      Mmm..Anyone care to justify the above-mentioned sentences?
    • Posts: 914 Member
      Seriously girl, I have the same problem. They aren't even all older men. There is a guy my age I know that wants me to be his girlfriend but he wouldn't tell his wife. I'm no home wrecker. It got to the point that I had to threaten to tell his wife the stuff he was saying to me before he left me alone and even then he tried adding me to facebook again. #disgusting
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      Mmm..Anyone care to justify the above-mentioned sentences?

      I remember watching one of the CBC doc zone shows. In the show they had scientists and non-scientists. This "fact" was cited by one of the non-scientists, as well as a lot of other silly interpretations of science. The scientists were much more interesting. In life there are science facts and there are people that think they are giving science facts, but it's really just their interpretation. Perhaps there was a study that showed this, but I have not seen that study. My husband is a scientist and I told him about that. He looked extremely skeptical and blurted out, "Why younger women, why not just an attractive woman. I'm not buying that. Who said that? Not a scientist." So, that's all I got.
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      I remember watching one of the CBC doc zone shows. In the show they had scientists and non-scientists. This "fact" was cited by one of the non-scientists, as well as a lot of other silly interpretations of science. The scientists were much more interesting. In life there are science facts and there are people that think they are giving science facts, but it's really just their interpretation. Perhaps there was a study that showed this, but I have not seen that study. My husband is a scientist and I told him about that. He looked extremely skeptical and blurted out, "Why younger women, why not just an attractive woman. I'm not buying that. Who said that? Not a scientist." So, that's all I got.

      Well, there's OBVIOUSLY one true explanation to all this...

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      Anyway, I think it was just a way to justify wanting a younger woman, by some older men. -shrug.-
      Typo.
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      Well, there's OBVIOUSLY one true explanation to all this...

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      Anyway, I think it was just a way to justify wanting a younger woman, by some older men. -shrug.-
      Typo.

      I kind of got that impression.

      But, I also wondered if it was true and was actually thinking maybe my husband should go flirt with younger women if it's good for his health. He disagreed.

      But, I did propose some role playing and he liked that a lot.
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      I kind of got that impression.

      But, I also wondered if it was true and was actually thinking maybe my husband should go flirt with younger women if it's good for his health. He disagreed.

      But, I did propose some role playing and he liked that a lot.
      That's because you got one of the smart ones! :flowerforyou:
      Knows what's good for him!
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      :flowerforyou:
    • Posts: 1,412 Member
      ", nearly 50 percent of married women and 60 percent of married men will have an extramarital affair at some point in their marriage."
    • Posts: 10,913 Member
      ", nearly 50 percent of married women and 60 percent of married men will have an extramarital affair at some point in their marriage."
      Good thing if they communicate, though.
      Some people tend to have open marriages for that very reason.
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      Good thing if they communicate, though.
      Some people tend to have open marriages for that very reason.

      Some will frown at that idea of open marriage
    • Posts: 10,913 Member
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      Some will frown at that idea of open marriage
      Heh, I'm not married, but things are certainly "open", in a way XD
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      Heh, I'm not married, but things are certainly "open", in a way XD

      Hahaha!! :flowerforyou:
    • Posts: 10,913 Member
      WAIT A MINUTE!!!
      I'm so loaded on coffee that I didn't even read the name of the friggin' thread...

      I talk to anyone and everyone, I don't care about their marital statuses >.>
      Fwend is a fwend is a fwend.
    • Posts: 306 Member
      WAIT A MINUTE!!!
      I'm so loaded on coffee that I didn't even read the name of the friggin' thread...

      I talk to anyone and everyone, I don't care about their marital statuses >.>
      Fwend is a fwend is a fwend.


      ROFLMAO!!!! I know what you mean..adrenaline kick from coffee :bigsmile: :tongue: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
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      ROFLMAO!!!! I know what you mean..adrenaline kick from coffee :bigsmile: :tongue: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
      LOL! Right. I went back to read the thread I'd just posted in and saw the title.. I was all.. :noway:


      YUP!!! THAT HAPPENED!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    • Posts: 453 Member
      I have found people on here to be the least sleazy on any internet forum I have experienced!

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    • Posts: 41,865 Member
      No no no no....I'm not talking about anyone on here! Many married men that I know IN PERSON talk to me inappropriately.

      :ohwell:

      I'm married and I talk to almost everyone in an inappropriate manner. That's just the way I roll...
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