Super skinny boyfriend comments on my weight ALL THE TIME

Honestly he sounds like a jerk lol. He only comes over to eat your food. And should get a job. Limit his food. Don't let hime eat everything in your house then leave. And don't give him your school food either. You can't live on a 300 calorie meal a day. That's not good at all!

Stop feeding him. He might just go away.

This is great advice.

Hi

My BF is also really skinny. He only ever puts on weight when he drinks beer often or eats sweets but after a week of not drinking his bloating is gone and he is skinny again. He also EATS a lot! Which is cool, it does bother me that he doesn't put on weight on but hay what can you do. People are different. He is also vegetarian which makes all meal times interesting! When we first met I used to order cheese and random salads cause I felt so bad about eating meat. Haha. He never once mentioned my size or weight until I brought it up. He said "he doesn't see it as an issue". I then opened up to him about my weight and the year of struggles and ups an downs. He was shocked but very supportive. As a skinny kid in a skinny family, he had never had to think about food the way I did. So he became quite aware of when I would fast or binge and would talk to me about it. Now we are at a place that we talk about food a lot. What he eats, what I eat. He has made a conscious effort to be more healthy with me and I try to follow his lead a little. Except when he eats a whole thing of jelly beans, then I grab fruit or water. He doesn't ever comment on my clothes unless to say how stunning they look or how pretty I am. If he comes over an has work the next day he buys his own lunch and often comes to mine with healthy bits and pieces. I'm sure he is trying to convert me to veggie lol. I think your BF maybe doesn't know what a struggle it has been or exactly how it makes you feel. As for eating you out of house and home. Next time he comes over ask him to being some stuff. Like "oh hay, I don't have any milk left or, did you want anything for supper" and if he says yes, ask him to pick some up on the way? Be honest I think that's the key. Just tell him how it makes u feel. He may be the very thing weighing you down most... All the best xxx

first of all, it is obvious that he does not respect you what so ever. Sometimes you have to just know when to walk away. You seem like a very intelligent woman, you can do better, whether your 115 pounds or 515 pounds!

sounds to me like you should dump the human sponge and concentrate on gettting yourself healthy and happy.

what does this guy actually do for you?

does he help you round the flat?
does he ever compliment you?
do you have a loving physical relationship?
does he make you feel like you have self worth?
does he contribute in monetary/emotional ways to your relationship?

if you have answered NO to these 5 questions you seriously need to ask yourself why you are with this man.

Elle

You could lose nearly 120lbs instantly by dumping him

He's got an internet dating account?

Seriously? You cannot be serious!!!

I did suspect that you might be a troll... Now I absolutely think I was right.

That was the last straw for me too.

As Dan Savage says: DTMFA

You need a new boyfriend.

I'd be dumping this loser ASAP. But first, I'd spend a couple of weeks insulting his body - "ew, you're so scrawny," "did you pick up that box by yourself? how did you manage that without a single muscle on your body?" "look how your hip bones poke out - it's kind of gross," "it's windy today. should I stand behind you in case the wind blows you down?" See how he likes it, THEN dump him.

Ugh, this entire post just pissed me off. After you dump him, you need some therapy. Eating an apple a day is called starving yourself. You might want to consider that you could have some type of eating disorder or BDD. You need to be healthy, not skinny. And you need to accept and love yourself or you'll always be unhappy and in abusive relationships like the current one you're in forever.

Good luck.

You can lose 120lbs in one day by dumping him. BAM.

A living thing that shows up when there's food and leaves after it has devoured all of it is NOT a "boyfriend", that is a parasite! Do your health and sanity a favour and get rid of it!!

You sound about 120lb overweight. Kick him to the curb, then put your sexy pants on and hit the club to celebrate!

He's tearing you down. What he's doing is abusive and manipulating. You don't deserve that. No one does.

So, I was listening to a news broadcast this morning about women and children and how we should spend our time in college finding a husband so that we can have kids before we are 30. Because, you know, after 30 our bodies shut down (sarcasm). Anyway, it gave me a sad.

Thanks for posting this. It's a great reminder about what should, and what should not, define as women.

I'm sorry that it gave you a sad. It would've given me a :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :sad: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :sad: :laugh: :laugh:

Imagine a world where news broadcasts implied that the worth of a man was in the ability to inseminate women (and without that, they might as well have one foot in the grave).