question for guys- more so for guys who are FIT.

How fat are you?

All guys are totally the same and have the same taste, so I think I answer for everyone when I say... maybe.

I once said I would never date a tall chick as I'm only 5ft10, but love happens, people say what they say but almost never practice what they preach.

Looks are great, but things like a woman's morals, aspirations, sense of humor, work ethic, honesty, and self-worth are essential. Everything else is secondary.

Girls, if you like girls you can answer also.


Would you date a fat girl?
What is your weight limit. Does she have to be as fit as you?
What if she's pretty in the face? Is body more important - I'd think so.

Depends on how fat and what type. If you mean with a bit more to love so not really fat then sure, if she is bigger well, she has to be a pear shape :P

I guess the biggest would have to be well..let's put it according to waist size, 38inch is the max I would do, I don't want my girl to have a heart attack

Well looks are important but if she's too sensitive or has no sense of humour...then no thank you.

Fit guys usually like fit girl- active girls like themselves - correct me if I'm wrong
Average guys like average girls
Fat guys will take anything they can get

Way to generalize

I'll divulge a guy secret...all guys secretly like bigger girls. I publically admit that I like large (and small) women. For me, it is not so much size as it is how healthy, happy, and emotionally put together you are. If a woman is active, outgoing, fun, and just happens to be big, there is no issue at all with dating her. If a woman is unhappy/depressed, closed, and slovenly, then it does not matter what her size (0 through infinity). Personally, I like around a size 16. And, yes I am fit. My profile pic doesn't show it; I like to deadlift.

lets say that if you are easy you have more chances to open the door to who you like to date

FIFY

All guys are totally the same and have the same taste, so I think I answer for everyone when I say... maybe.

This does not make sense.
We all know guys don't like the same thing. I'm not sure if your being sarcastic.

But

Fit guys usually like fit girl- active girls like themselves - correct me if I'm wrong
Average guys like average girls
Fat guys will take anything they can get

I quoted it because in my opinion there are too many variables for anything to be safely generalized or hard lined. She could weigh more than another girl but wear it better, have less of a shape but a priceless face. She could be thin or fit but be a total basket case. In the end, I have to believe that guys like the girls that like them back. So would I date this girl or that girl based on something that would need to be judged on a case by case basis? Maybe.

There are exceptions of course, but there is a reason you usually see fit guys with fit girls...although the reverse is not always true. Girls aren't as superficial as guys usually.

I watched a documentary on the science of attraction and I remember a test they did where 10 guys and 10 girls each had a number on their forehead. They didn't know what the number was, but the instruction was to try and pair up with as high a number as possible. Not surprisingly, high numbers held out for high numbers and low numbers matched with low numbers. The purpose of the test was to say that generally speaking, folks pair up with partners that they consider as attractive as themselves. If you are a 10, then you're looking for a 10. If you see yourself around a 2, then you will more than likely pair up with a 2. This depends on factors as well like money, hair, or even smell. But again, generally speaking, beauty would seem to attract beauty.

There are exceptions of course, but there is a reason you usually see fit guys with fit girls...although the reverse is not always true. Girls aren't as superficial as guys usually.

I watched a documentary on the science of attraction and I remember a test they did where 10 guys and 10 girls each had a number on their forehead. They didn't know what the number was, but the instruction was to try and pair up with as high a number as possible. Not surprisingly, high numbers held out for high numbers and low numbers matched with low numbers. The purpose of the test was to say that generally speaking, folks pair up with partners that they consider as attractive as themselves. If you are a 10, then you're looking for a 10. If you see yourself around a 2, then you will more than likely pair up with a 2. This depends on factors as well like money, hair, or even smell. But again, generally speaking, beauty would seem to attract beauty.

absolutely right ... we do always look for what we feel identified with ... that's why so many people date in their own circle ... age-race-religion or whatever