Do you get hit on?

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  • Geoj0
    Geoj0 Posts: 145 Member
    Im not bragging, yes i get hit on all the time in real life.. I dont ask for it i dont dress like a im desperate and i dont make any kind of invitation. i have been married for 20 years and been completely faithful not even flirting or talking to other men.

    ive been fat, thin on all levels, engaged ,married, pregnant and pretended to be lesbian, hit on by men and women of all ages , it doesnt make a difference. Sometimes its flattering , sometimes its scary and insulting.

    my family say im a natural flirt, but i really dont flirt even when im single.

    i dont know what it is.
  • ThinkInOregon
    ThinkInOregon Posts: 283
    Come to Texas if you want to get hit on, guys here are a bunch of dogs in heat. I can throw up my left hand and say I am married (engaged, close enough) and on more than one occasion I hear "it's okay, I 'm not jealous". Ha! Well my man is! I seriously don't think it has to do with the way a woman looks rather or not a guy will hit on you, I think its more so your vibe and attitude. I've always been told I am very sweet and I guess that can come off as flirting. If a guy smiles at me, I smile back, doesn't mean I am flirting and doesn't mean he should come and start hitting on me, it means I am a Texan and I smile. :bigsmile:

    edit: had to add that big cheesy smiley

    Can you tell me where in Texas, since it's a pretty big state and I am moving there sometime this year!! :-)

    Dallas or Addison. Hope you like it and hope you find yourself a good ole' boy or a high powered attorney as seeing how diverse Texas is becoming :D

    I think my brother said N Dallas, Plano, Richardson and Addison... so sounds good to me! Although I think the prices are a bit too steep for me to afford in N Dallas. Would love to have either, just as long as they don't treat a woman like an idiot just because they have a vagina!
    What kind of guys have you dated? lol. No I never dated a guy who thought I was an idiot because I had a vagina. In fact the men I've dated and any man for that matter I know here likes a woman with a good head on her shoulders. Maybe if you're going to college out here you might run into some frat guys but I don't think anyone will treat you like your an idiot :smile:

    Sorry for the confusion... just referring to the general type of males here... Very redneck, narrow minded, and very uneducated/ignorant, women should be barefoot, pregnant and subservient at all times. And the last 2 will NEVER happen.

    Men have been surprised that I know how to check my own oil, change a tire, and run a power tool. When I mention that I actually built my own house and know how to shoot (and enjoy it)... typically any discussion is over.

    I am just looking forward to meeting men who are actually male adults, not the local drunk 40 or 50 year men looking for a brood mare or maid.
  • ThinkInOregon
    ThinkInOregon Posts: 283
    Come to Texas if you want to get hit on, guys here are a bunch of dogs in heat. I can throw up my left hand and say I am married (engaged, close enough) and on more than one occasion I hear "it's okay, I 'm not jealous". Ha! Well my man is! I seriously don't think it has to do with the way a woman looks rather or not a guy will hit on you, I think its more so your vibe and attitude. I've always been told I am very sweet and I guess that can come off as flirting. If a guy smiles at me, I smile back, doesn't mean I am flirting and doesn't mean he should come and start hitting on me, it means I am a Texan and I smile. :bigsmile:

    edit: had to add that big cheesy smiley

    Can you tell me where in Texas, since it's a pretty big state and I am moving there sometime this year!! :-)

    Dallas or Addison. Hope you like it and hope you find yourself a good ole' boy or a high powered attorney as seeing how diverse Texas is becoming :D

    I think my brother said N Dallas, Plano, Richardson and Addison... so sounds good to me! Although I think the prices are a bit too steep for me to afford in N Dallas. Would love to have either, just as long as they don't treat a woman like an idiot just because they have a vagina!

    Nope. We like our women with vaginas AND brains. Bewbs don't hurt either. :wink:

    Good, the outlook is getting better! I am 3 for 3 there!!! Although the bewbs are proportionate with the bod... ;-)
  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    I'll confess, I do get hit on quite often, by both men and women. I always have my ring on, so it's not that. My hubs says that it has a lot to do with personality, often more so than it does to do with looks.

    I wouldn't doubt the personality part of it you, though the looks department is pretty nice reflection in the eyes as well...
  • justcat206
    justcat206 Posts: 716 Member
    In real life, only by hubby :) I've been told my resting face is "angry" and a boy in high school once said "I don't tease you like the other girls because I'm afraid you'd kill me" lol! I'm also crazy shy. Hubby claims though that the reason our waiter got too flustered to take my order once was because he thought I was cute :p
  • 17ChargerGirl17
    17ChargerGirl17 Posts: 441
    Guys will "hit on" me virtually, or over text. -___- Never has a guy been gutsy enough to hit on me in person.
    Girls will compliment me, but guys.... nothing.

    Only grandma's, my momma, and my boss tell me I'm handsome. Others, nothing.

    Sad panda.

    Awww don't be sad, I'm not your grandma, mamma or boss and I think your very handsome. Sooooo LOL
    Wait!!! is that hitting on you?????
  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    Guys will "hit on" me virtually, or over text. -___- Never has a guy been gutsy enough to hit on me in person.
    Girls will compliment me, but guys.... nothing.

    Only grandma's, my momma, and my boss tell me I'm handsome. Others, nothing.

    Sad panda.

    Sup Rica, come sit on Papi's lap...:flowerforyou:
  • Fredhatfield2
    Fredhatfield2 Posts: 75 Member
    Naw... Not that I know of. I don't go out much though, don't talk much, and the wedding band does discourage gals, I suppose. Not really wanting to get hit on either. But I do want to look good and get an occasional look (just being honest!). Working on that!
  • smokeyg01
    smokeyg01 Posts: 1,064
    Only by old women lol
  • justcat206
    justcat206 Posts: 716 Member
    Only by old women lol

    Haha my husband has that problem, too! The old ladies think he's soooooo cute :p
  • smokeyg01
    smokeyg01 Posts: 1,064
    Lol. I think its a curse. But I'm still flattered
  • titamamacita
    titamamacita Posts: 1
    You're from South Carolina and you don't dress like a country girl all the time? No wonder you don't get hit on. Country boys don't want no city girl. Pull yourself together.

    I managed to land me a good ole country boy without dressing like a redneck hoochie, thank you very much. :) And I am a city girl - from Chicago originally. Maybe I give off that damn Yankee vibe, eh?
    Lmao @ redneck hoochie ... she would be surprised how many "country boys" luv city girls ... we're more fun and CLEARLY smart enough to know that a man does not fall in love with a woman because she dresses like a "country girl" #Duh lol smh
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Maybe it's the wedding ring?

    They are a turn on!
  • crissy_percival
    crissy_percival Posts: 2,447 Member
    i get hit on all the time
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Nope, never...it's because I am fugly

    eh. I'd bang you. Oh wait. wrong thread.
  • rm33064
    rm33064 Posts: 270 Member
    I suppose I hit on every female in earshot at the bar. Really I just talk to them, but pretty much every girl you say hi to assumes your hitting on them really. I actually like the ones who don't have that inviting look to them, I'll definitely say something to them to see if they will loosen up. I'm king of the cheese ball pick up lines, I pull one out from time to time if I think I might get a laugh. So, do you work at Subway....
  • denisejohnson754365
    denisejohnson754365 Posts: 294
    I get hit on when I don't wear make up.
  • theoncomingstorm6464
    theoncomingstorm6464 Posts: 116 Member
    Sadly, no.
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  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    I can honestly count the number of times I've been hit on in the past 7 years (since I met my husband) on one hand. I'm far from cocky, but I'm not ugly and I've got a decent body, especially with clothes on....

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    (No, I don't dress like this daily. It was a country-themed bachelorette party this past weekend.)

    But I never get hit on. The girls I'm with get hit on, I see other girls getting hit on. But not me. I'm not exactly heartbroken about it, being married and all, but it does make me wonder what kind of look or vibe I've got going on that causes men to not approach me. In some cases, it''s probably the wedding ring. However, I asked my husband what he thought and he said, "You just look too smart and high maintenance. Guys probably think you're either going to reject them or make them spend all of their money before they can get into your pants." Say whaaa? Haha!

    So, do you get hit on a lot? What is there to say about decent-looking girls that don't get creepy guys trying to hit her up in bars?

    I can honestly say that for the entire time I was with my ex, married or before, I never got hit on. Someone once said (after the divorce) I would need to let down that barrier. Hell, I didn't know I put one up!! I just thought I was just not attractive enough for a man to hit on!

    It took 2.5 years to work through 30+ years of being 'married' but it seems now I get a bit more attention. Although I need to get out more to test this theory LOL

    I'd hit it. Sup cutie?

    (girly giggle) Hey good lookin:wink:
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    Only by old women lol

    :grumble: I am sorry, you were bent over the meat case at Publix. I couldn't help myself


    :laugh:
  • JessieSky
    JessieSky Posts: 79
    We have the opposite problem, I get hit on too often and I *don't* want it. And my wedding ring only seems to make some people MORE encouraged -_-. People are weird. You're probably intimidating to people who don't know you....wish I was :/ lol.
  • GBrady43068
    GBrady43068 Posts: 1,256 Member
    Maybe guys are intimidated by you.
    Going with this one. Many guys who see a girl they think is well above average they chalk up to "Out of my league.." and move on to an "easier mark"..just saying. Have you considered that perhaps the girls who are getting hit on in your group are LESS attractive than you? I've also heard guys suggest they hit on girls in the GROUP that has the girl they're interested in...but not the specific girl...in hopes of being noticed by the girl they actually desire? (Working the jealousy angle..) I always thought that sounded unlikely but perhaps it works...:laugh:
  • DJMIKEY1
    DJMIKEY1 Posts: 523 Member
    Never :-(
  • skrlec70
    skrlec70 Posts: 302 Member
    not me, I have ?&%% off written on my forehead LOL
  • lolosensan
    lolosensan Posts: 251
    Always at gas stations, but only at gas stations...
  • autotek
    autotek Posts: 66 Member
    no i don't
    guess i put off a bad vibe or something
  • RockWarrior84
    RockWarrior84 Posts: 840 Member
    At a coffee shop near my work.....either the 60 yr old owner for the 15 year old girls

    WTF
  • BatGirl1Up
    BatGirl1Up Posts: 5
    This is interesting. There are so many pretty girls on here and yall arent getting hit on by the opposite sex? Im Not as pretty as a lot of the women on here but even though i am married i still get hit on quite a bit.

    Its probably about attitude. The way you present yourself. I try to preset myself in a positive and clean fashion.
  • L4gym
    L4gym Posts: 81 Member
    I never get hit on. Ever. Have even got out on girls nights and none of us did...and I have some cute girl friends too. Onlytime I did was at a bachelorette party in a club...got hit on by a couple. THAT was kinda cool. But in general, never happens.

    Really? I'm a straight female and I'd consider hitting on you. lol
    I think the boys really need to step up their game.

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