Do you get hit on?

Sometimes blatantly, which is nuts. Sometimes my wife says I am and it bothers her when I say I don't notice it. I truly don't.

Blatant recent examples: 1) Met a client at a restaurant for lunch recently and the hostess told me that two ladies tipped her to allow her and her friend to sit at the table next to us. 2) A female came up to me and told me that she was attracted to married men which made me very uncomfortable. I tried to change the subject. She asked me if I was attracted to her? There was no good answer to that one, but I told her that she was attractive but that I was not attracted to any other females besides my wife. I think all of these ladies need to get their eyes (and heads) examined!

A dog humped my leg today. So I guess you can say, it's getting pretty serious.

:devil: Dirty!

No, but a stray dog licked my hand once. Thats kinda the same innit?

Just by creeps... I seem to attract them. And I'm not talking about your average guy looking for love, I'm talking weirdos. Like guys who are homeless or drug addicts, socially awkward, have mental disorders, or they're really old (65+ - no offense, but I'm in my 30s). Am I wearing a sign?!? :noway:

You know, I had a guy with a past (stalking and harassment of a classmate resulting in temporary expulsion), a mental disability (something akin to Asperger's), and a seizure disorder, ask me out on a date in college after his probationary period began and he was allowed back on campus. We had a mutual friend and he and I had couple classes together. At the time I wasn't available to date, so I politely turned him down, and he totally respected it. We were more or less casual friends after that... but I've had multiple men be really, really disrespectful and vulgar (and in some cases downright creepy) about trying to get with me. His graceful acceptance of rejection and his ability to remain good with me renewed my faith in the opposite sex a little.

No, but a stray dog licked my hand once. Thats kinda the same innit?

You calling me a b*tch?

Yes, typically by Security

Very rarely. And its usually by someone in their 60s or a homeless person that I gave a dollar to. :ohwell:

God no!

Just by creeps... I seem to attract them. And I'm not talking about your average guy looking for love, I'm talking weirdos. Like guys who are homeless or drug addicts, socially awkward, have mental disorders, or they're really old (65+ - no offense, but I'm in my 30s). Am I wearing a sign?!? :noway:

....who do you hang out with? The real life version of Breaking Bad characters?

Lol... no, I do work at a hospital though, and I am pretty friendly - I guess making eye-contact and smiling at people means I am interested. I swear it's true though. If he's a weirdo, he's gonna hit on me. :laugh:

I am very unaware of affection from people, i'm not sure if they are being sarcastic or what. I'm also the type of person that thinks everyone hates me until they tell me they love me (and even after then i am suspicious). But my brother would say "That guy was checking you out. Can i punch him?" if he realized someone was due to him being so protective over me. When i was in school people would tell me that "this guy has a crush on you" or "he told me he thinks you are cute" but i was kind of out of it back then and i have the kind of face where you wouldn't want to come near me because i either look angry or depressed so i was rarely approached by a person in such a way and if they would say they liked me i never believed them.

I don't go out enough to get hit on, sadly

Yes. Whenever I go out to a pub mainly. It makes me feel awkward as I don't like rejecting people and am always up for a chat with a random, but I have been with my husband since I was 19 so their advances always have to be rejected. And then I feel guilty for turning people down.

Just by creeps... I seem to attract them. And I'm not talking about your average guy looking for love, I'm talking weirdos. Like guys who are homeless or drug addicts, socially awkward, have mental disorders, or they're really old (65+ - no offense, but I'm in my 30s). Am I wearing a sign?!? :noway:

This. A lot. It's gross.

Can't speak for the others but maybe just us socially awkward types, let us down gently? You might just accomplish two things in that it isn't a horrible or gross experience for you, and secondly, you might better prepare us for what may only be our second attempt at failed flattery. If it happens a lot to you, then you might have the potential to help a whole bunch of nerds out there.

yes quite frequently! got hit by a 20 year old in the gym today

I haven't been hit on in over two years and that last time was by really drunk guys.