Men: Abs on females...hot or not??

Sometimes... but usually I no imo... Its okay as long as they don't look like 'man' abs

Well, there are lots of opinions, but I think if someone is really interested in the general answers, "abs", cut (or shielded by a protective cover so as not to blind you with their beauty like mine are), are way, way, way down on the list of things a typical guy looks for in a girl...now go on fighting!

Please not to blaspheme Shia Le Beouf in this thread or I will have to resort to giffy tactics. I feel I am being baited.

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Oh, who am I kidding...



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I don't think a woman who is working hard enough to have "debatable" abs is motivated by what others think is attractive. If I were working that hard, I could lick my own belly if need be.

It never occurred to me that these "hot or not" threads were intended to motivate anyone. I thought they were just something to do when you're bored. I guess I'm doing it wrong.

Huh.

I always thought they were desperate cries for validation and attention, personally.

Abs are awesome! I saw this girl jogging the other day and she just had the perfect tight tummy, with abs and a V. I was jelly.

my belly is jelly... lol...i know that feeling. I am doing six week six pack right now and hope to see another pair of twins to go with the pair that are peeking through soon. then I will work on the third set of twins.

I don't think a woman who is working hard enough to have "debatable" abs is motivated by what others think is attractive. If I were working that hard, I could lick my own belly if need be.

It never occurred to me that these "hot or not" threads were intended to motivate anyone. I thought they were just something to do when you're bored. I guess I'm doing it wrong.

Huh.

I always thought they were desperate cries for validation and attention, personally.

Meh. That's a stretch, I think.

The desperate cries are the, "so-and-so says I'm fat" or "My boobs are no longer a J cup." :laugh:

The way I read these threads is, "I have or desire X physical feature and I need validation that people think it's attractive."

Because, for a lot of them, I mean, what are you going to do if everyone says it's not? And, really, do people think that 100% of people think one way or another?

For every man or woman who likes a six-pack, there's one who doesn't. Who cares? You aren't going to please everyone.

I don't think a woman who is working hard enough to have "debatable" abs is motivated by what others think is attractive. If I were working that hard, I could lick my own belly if need be.

It never occurred to me that these "hot or not" threads were intended to motivate anyone. I thought they were just something to do when you're bored. I guess I'm doing it wrong.

Huh.

I always thought they were desperate cries for validation and attention, personally.

Meh. That's a stretch, I think.

The desperate cries are the, "so-and-so says I'm fat" or "My boobs are no longer a J cup." :laugh:

The way I read these threads is, "I have or desire X physical feature and I need validation that people think it's attractive."

Because, for a lot of them, I mean, what are you going to do if everyone says it's not? And, really, do people think that 100% of people think one way or another?

For every man or woman who likes a six-pack, there's one who doesn't. Who cares? You aren't going to please everyone.

The thing is....


I'm happily married for 20 years, so I don't care what people think is hot or not. To me, it's humor. I don't always come into "hot or not" threads, but when I do, it means I'm bored as hell, and hoping for gifs.



ETA, FTR....Most men would not find me hot anymore. I was cute when I was young, but old age, plus deliberately ingesting toxins (hehehe) in my 20s played a number on me. But that's ok. I'm not here to be hot. Like I said, I'm here out of boredom and in search of gifs.

I don't think a woman who is working hard enough to have "debatable" abs is motivated by what others think is attractive. If I were working that hard, I could lick my own belly if need be.

It never occurred to me that these "hot or not" threads were intended to motivate anyone. I thought they were just something to do when you're bored. I guess I'm doing it wrong.

Huh.

I always thought they were desperate cries for validation and attention, personally.

Meh. That's a stretch, I think.

The desperate cries are the, "so-and-so says I'm fat" or "My boobs are no longer a J cup." :laugh:

The way I read these threads is, "I have or desire X physical feature and I need validation that people think it's attractive."

Because, for a lot of them, I mean, what are you going to do if everyone says it's not? And, really, do people think that 100% of people think one way or another?

For every man or woman who likes a six-pack, there's one who doesn't. Who cares? You aren't going to please everyone.

The thing is....


I'm happily married for 20 years, so I don't care what people think is hot or not. To me, it's humor. I don't always come into "hot or not" threads, but when I do, it means I'm bored as hell, and hoping for gifs.

I didn't mean the people replying. I meant the people who post them.

Maybe....or maybe they are as bored as me.

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