rejected by online soulmate b/c of weight
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Also sent an email0
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And every time I post it has the prompts of the roll over :glasses:
you should report all of this to the MFP coders so they can see an example/testcase to know that the problem exists, and then fix the bug on the next update.
I did Brainy! I actually reported myself! must be a first :laugh:
I hope you get a strike for your thread-breaking behavior.
(:flowerforyou:)
It wouldn't be my first hun. I was an original member of the Gutter Gang. Long before you kids came along, we talked bout wieners :laugh: and the owner moderated us0 -
ha! there are two Part 2's.
go home MFP, you're drunk.
Flexing mod muscles, cuz I am gud like that *WTH happened????
now there are 3 of them!
and it's an MFP bug. i've seen it happen in private groups. maybe now that it's visible here MFP will fix the bug.
Yup.
Mods rolling threads simultaneously with peons leads to multiple universes.
Ahhhh, but I am but a peon mod my dear. no powers at all
Do you have post edit powers in the forums? I suspect that's the key.
Yes, but yours has it too!
Yup...
...or at least it did.
The last post of this thread will have that link until it rolls.
I'm saying that your forum mod powers *created* this alternate universe...a universe in which these special situations (like the jump link being on the last post of the thread) exist.
Where is that mind blown gif?
And how come you didn't tell me my hair is pretty :sad:
I started off only telling bald men this...and then bent the rules to tell BB. I'm just not ready to expand my hair compliments to an entirely different gender yet.0 -
And every time I post it has the prompts of the roll over :glasses:
you should report all of this to the MFP coders so they can see an example/testcase to know that the problem exists, and then fix the bug on the next update.
I did Brainy! I actually reported myself! must be a first :laugh:
And as long as you're fixing stuff, how about the popular blogs list? How could that possibly be broken for this long?0 -
ha! there are two Part 2's.
go home MFP, you're drunk.
Flexing mod muscles, cuz I am gud like that *WTH happened????
now there are 3 of them!
and it's an MFP bug. i've seen it happen in private groups. maybe now that it's visible here MFP will fix the bug.
Yup.
Mods rolling threads simultaneously with peons leads to multiple universes.
Ahhhh, but I am but a peon mod my dear. no powers at all
Do you have post edit powers in the forums? I suspect that's the key.
Yes, but yours has it too!
Yup...
...or at least it did.
The last post of this thread will have that link until it rolls.
I'm saying that your forum mod powers *created* this alternate universe...a universe in which these special situations (like the jump link being on the last post of the thread) exist.
Where is that mind blown gif?
And how come you didn't tell me my hair is pretty :sad:
I started off only telling bald men this...and then bent the rules to tell BB. I'm just not ready to expand my hair compliments to an entirely different gender yet.
fine (flips hair over shoulder) 0 -
And every time I post it has the prompts of the roll over :glasses:
you should report all of this to the MFP coders so they can see an example/testcase to know that the problem exists, and then fix the bug on the next update.
I did Brainy! I actually reported myself! must be a first :laugh:
And as long as you're fixing stuff, how about the popular blogs list? How could that possibly be broken for this long?
Tell me, or PM me. I will get it to the powers that be.
(but then you have to say I have nice hair )0 -
And every time I post it has the prompts of the roll over :glasses:
you should report all of this to the MFP coders so they can see an example/testcase to know that the problem exists, and then fix the bug on the next update.
I did Brainy! I actually reported myself! must be a first :laugh:
And as long as you're fixing stuff, how about the popular blogs list? How could that possibly be broken for this long?
Tell me, or PM me. I will get it to the powers that be.
(but then you have to say I have nice hair )
Here's a summary: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1224363-popular-blogs-not-updating?page=2#posts-20056879
And if you'll promise to clean up the mathematically bogus entries in the food database, I'll tell you anything you want to hear.0 -
And every time I post it has the prompts of the roll over :glasses:
you should report all of this to the MFP coders so they can see an example/testcase to know that the problem exists, and then fix the bug on the next update.
I did Brainy! I actually reported myself! must be a first :laugh:
I hope you get a strike for your thread-breaking behavior.
(:flowerforyou:)
It wouldn't be my first hun. I was an original member of the Gutter Gang. Long before you kids came along, we talked bout wieners :laugh: and the owner moderated us
he hehe he. i just called a "kid". clearly that's incorrect. i'm a burro, not a billygoat.0 -
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did you just post a GIF of Fred Durst?
'cause that's grounds for a strike!
i was *this* close to adding a disclaimer stating my awareness of his incredible douche-cart status, but figured if it was just for the roll i might slide under the radar.
you have caught me....fred handed....*bows head in shame*
Limp Bizkit.... weren't they a bunch of Alpha males with a ton of game?0 -
Now that sex is no longer a viewed as a commodity or as a leverage tool and is just being given away very casually to whoever catches the eye, it seems to me that women are displaying more emotional instability. To say the least.
Are there women out there who don't give it away? If so I'd love to hear from you flowerforyou
This is a topic, as a man, Im normally silent about. Im not big on sex, yea its fun, but I'd rather just have the relationship.. ANYWAYS.., I was amazed by this comment referring to sex as a "commodity". Unless you are selling sex (or trading it) then it is not a commodity. Save it, sure. Wait until you know the guy,: even better. Making sure he's the one? nothing wrong with that. But a commodity? I would never want a woman that feels she should get something for sex, or anything else for that matter. When I give a woman anything, the only thing I hope for is a smile. Give because you want (preferably from both parties) but to expect something in return is just wrong.0 -
If passive aggression were a liquid, I'd be drowning.0
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If passive aggression were a liquid, I'd be drowning.
Was this particular post intentionally or accidentally ironic?0 -
The OP, or a friend, briefly posted one more thought.
They're ill-considered words spoken and believed by those too young to know better. We all have, or should have, some condition which would trigger us to leave a relationship. He invested the same eight months, and drove four hours to meet her. If the Fantasy Her she'd told him she was had shown, or she'd accepted herself and shared the Real Her earlier, the outcome may have been different. Perhaps not! They both could've handled it better, it was a teachable moment--be as up-front as possible, and meet sooner next time! Sometimes I'm glad I'm not dating anymore. It's a crazy (and fun!) time when you are.you think it was OK that he told her he loved her unconditionally and he'd stick by her no matter what?
I wish the best of luck to both of them on here and in their love life.
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:laugh: I love Clueless0 -
for the record! take back everything I said yesterday. ;P After getting so attacked, I thought I would try/attempt the approach laid out by msf74:
"It's quite simple. A man who has his *kitten* together doesn't have to play games. He has high status / value and is therefore naturally attractive. At that point game playing falls away. He calls the next day if he is free and acts with courtesy. A woman doesn't gamble if she has the winning ticket in her grasp... "
my conclusion is that games are retarded.
I even sent a txt after the date:
"Now I can finally say I had dinner with the most beautiful lady on the planet" - scottie
"owwww, you really are a gentleman!! Thank you for being so affection!! And was my pleasure to meet you, I really had a wonderful time tonight!"-M
"Good night Ms.M"-scottie
"Good night!!!"-M
-So I will admit, I was wrong Paige - sending a txt after first dates I guess is actually a gentlemanly thing to do, she specifically said it was lmao.
going over the date:
I was standing by the very expensive restaurant door, (garbed in: ralph lauren jacket, thomas pink tie, Hugo Boss dress shirt - french cuffs, mont blanc cuff links, coach belt, omega watch, armani dress pants, J&M shoes, Mont Blanc pen in dress shirt pocket, cologne: versace eros) and she came up talking on the phone and smiled and kissed me on the cheek... I winked - she was on the phone... -met online so this was the first time we saw eachother - seriously I was stunned, she was dressed up and had obviously taken a great deal of time looking incredible-like me ;P)
go into the restaurant - and she says as we walk to the table that she apologies for being on the phone but she was on the phone with her mother just to be safe, and because her family was worried about her meeting an American man, and she laughed and said she told her mother, father and brothers about me - and 99/100 times this would be my moment to run - instead I said I was flattered (courtesy approach and I felt she was just being so genuine with me it was catchy) and then said "so your accent is not spanish!" what language do you speak? .. "Portuguese" and she was impressed I noticed a difference - I told her actually I couldn't tell a difference, I had my brothers gf from Ecuador attempt to read her FB and she couldn't because it was all in a different language - she was flattered I tried to decipher her stuff.
- I say that meaning typically all of that would be coming on wayyy to strong ever before for me, but she wasn't playing games at all, and was so comfortable in her skin I got to be as well -.. and FYI after the meal, walked her to her car, kissed her on the cheek, she did the same.. smiled and planned out the time and day of our follow up date. - a very very very classy lady.
Whoever said you can't teach a jerk some life-lessons over a forum?!
Thanks for the advice on your parts - despite it being belittling.. if I were to actually finally get into a relationship with a dreamgirl from Brazil from taking it- and all from a random forum - well than FTW!! XD0 -
If passive aggression were a liquid, I'd be drowning.
Was this particular post intentionally or accidentally ironic?
Intentional.0 -
double post: but anyway - for the record! take back everything I said yesterday. ;P After getting so attacked, I thought I would try/attempt the approach laid out by msf74:
"It's quite simple. A man who has his *kitten* together doesn't have to play games. He has high status / value and is therefore naturally attractive. At that point game playing falls away. He calls the next day if he is free and acts with courtesy. A woman doesn't gamble if she has the winning ticket in her grasp... "
my conclusion is that games are retarded.
I even sent a txt after the date:
"Now I can finally say I had dinner with the most beautiful lady on the planet" - scottie
"owwww, you really are a gentleman!! Thank you for being so affection!! And was my pleasure to meet you, I really had a wonderful time tonight!"-M
"Good night Ms.M"-scottie
"Good night!!!"-M
-So I will admit, I was wrong Paige - sending a txt after first dates I guess is actually a gentlemanly thing to do, she specifically said it was lmao.
going over the date:
I was standing by the very expensive restaurant door, (garbed in: ralph lauren jacket, thomas pink tie, Hugo Boss dress shirt - french cuffs, mont blanc cuff links, coach belt, omega watch, armani dress pants, J&M shoes, Mont Blanc pen in dress shirt pocket, cologne: versace eros) and she came up talking on the phone and smiled and kissed me on the cheek... I winked - she was on the phone... -met online so this was the first time we saw eachother - seriously I was stunned, she was dressed up and had obviously taken a great deal of time looking incredible-like me ;P)
go into the restaurant - and she says as we walk to the table that she apologies for being on the phone but she was on the phone with her mother just to be safe, and because her family was worried about her meeting an American man, and she laughed and said she told her mother, father and brothers about me - and 99/100 times this would be my moment to run - instead I said I was flattered (courtesy approach and I felt she was just being so genuine with me it was catchy) and then said "so your accent is not spanish!" what language do you speak? .. "Portuguese" and she was impressed I noticed a difference - I told her actually I couldn't tell a difference, I had my brothers gf from Ecuador attempt to read her FB and she couldn't because it was all in a different language - she was flattered I tried to decipher her stuff.
- I say that meaning typically all of that would be coming on wayyy to strong ever before for me, but she wasn't playing games at all, and was so comfortable in her skin I got to be as well -.. and FYI after the meal, walked her to her car, kissed her on the cheek, she did the same.. smiled and planned out the time and day of our follow up date. - a very very very classy lady.
Whoever said you can't teach a jerk some life-lessons over a forum?!
Thanks for the advice on your parts - despite it being belittling.. if I were to actually finally get into a relationship with a dreamgirl from Brazil from taking it- and all from a random forum - well than FTW!! XD0 -
so retract last statements.
- I'm young so forgive me. I got some stuff to learn 0 -
Scottie - I'm glad things went so well. I hope this brings positive changes to your life. Best of luck to you 0
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Are you for real?
Where did I judge anyone based on their sexual habits, preferences or desires? People can (and should) approach sex how they are most comfortable. If that meas waiting until marriage - awesome. If that means banging on the first date - awesome.
The people that WERE originally criticized were people like me - people who have (well, had) no problem with sex on the first date. It was very clearly stated that we had (at the "very least") emotional issues.
Waiting for sex does not make a person morally superior.
I'd never resent or criticize a woman (or man) for her (his) views on sex, no matter how conservative they are. Perhaps you should have read all of the topic at hand before assuming and then going on the defensive.
lmao - morals are of course relative - but as for my opinion women who wait and make the dude chase are just superior women period. - they are CLASSY
Now you have your bang buddies, and you have the women who throw themselves on us studs on the 1st date.. and my ideology is always the same "use 'em and loose 'em" .. or just "run"
just being for real!
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I've never thrown myself at anyone. If there was mutual attraction, sometimes I acted on it, sometimes I gently turned it down. Contrary to popular belief, not every woman is looking for a long term relationship (or a husband) while dating. Sometimes, they are just looking for fun. Sex is fun. If some guy thought less of me for sleeping with him on the first date, that says more about him than is does me.
My whole point in all of this stupid "debate" has been: there should be zero judgement for a person based on how they approach and treat sex, as long as both partners are on the same page.0 -
Scottie - I'm glad things went so well. I hope this brings positive changes to your life. Best of luck to you
I hope it does as well!
Thanks for the wishes of GL, same goes out to you two fold!0 -
Are you for real?
Where did I judge anyone based on their sexual habits, preferences or desires? People can (and should) approach sex how they are most comfortable. If that meas waiting until marriage - awesome. If that means banging on the first date - awesome.
The people that WERE originally criticized were people like me - people who have (well, had) no problem with sex on the first date. It was very clearly stated that we had (at the "very least") emotional issues.
Waiting for sex does not make a person morally superior.
I'd never resent or criticize a woman (or man) for her (his) views on sex, no matter how conservative they are. Perhaps you should have read all of the topic at hand before assuming and then going on the defensive.
lmao - morals are of course relative - but as for my opinion women who wait and make the dude chase are just superior women period. - they are CLASSY
Now you have your bang buddies, and you have the women who throw themselves on us studs on the 1st date.. and my ideology is always the same "use 'em and loose 'em" .. or just "run"
just being for real!
I've never thrown myself at anyone. If there was mutual attraction, sometimes I acted on it, sometimes I gently turned it down. Contrary to popular belief, not every woman is looking for a long term relationship (or a husband) while dating. Sometimes, they are just looking for fun. Sex is fun. If some guy thought less of me for sleeping with him on the first date, that says more about him than is does me.
My whole point in all of this stupid "debate" has been: there should be zero judgement for a person based on how they approach and treat sex, as long as both partners are on the same page.
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Are you for real?
Where did I judge anyone based on their sexual habits, preferences or desires? People can (and should) approach sex how they are most comfortable. If that meas waiting until marriage - awesome. If that means banging on the first date - awesome.
The people that WERE originally criticized were people like me - people who have (well, had) no problem with sex on the first date. It was very clearly stated that we had (at the "very least") emotional issues.
Waiting for sex does not make a person morally superior.
I'd never resent or criticize a woman (or man) for her (his) views on sex, no matter how conservative they are. Perhaps you should have read all of the topic at hand before assuming and then going on the defensive.
lmao - morals are of course relative - but as for my opinion women who wait and make the dude chase are just superior women period. - they are CLASSY
Now you have your bang buddies, and you have the women who throw themselves on us studs on the 1st date.. and my ideology is always the same "use 'em and loose 'em" .. or just "run"
just being for real!
I've never thrown myself at anyone. If there was mutual attraction, sometimes I acted on it, sometimes I gently turned it down. Contrary to popular belief, not every woman is looking for a long term relationship (or a husband) while dating. Sometimes, they are just looking for fun. Sex is fun. If some guy thought less of me for sleeping with him on the first date, that says more about him than is does me.
My whole point in all of this stupid "debate" has been: there should be zero judgement for a person based on how they approach and treat sex, as long as both partners are on the same page.
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agree agree agree!
If she was a player like me and is one of the bang buddies then its acknowledged and we have a great deal of fun, and it even can be a tiny bit special. however I NEVER consider them in a relationship, and occasionally it gets to where.. not even occasionally almost every time it gets to the point where they start wanting something more - and it does not nor will ever happen.
as for dates, where its acknowledged prior to our initial interaction that we are both interested in perhaps exploring eachother out to see if there is relationship material going on - if the girl throws herself on me - which happens.. and in using the law of least effort - which basically means I'm confident in myself on the dates to not toot my own horn - I just let them talk about themselves the whole time and prompt them with questions I've developed - if she throws herself on me because I never EVER EVER prompt the sex talk - then I run.
The classy lady, who after 3 weeks is giving me butterflies over letting me hold her hand - now that is the lady I'm not only willing to be with - Its someone I wouldn't feel like I was settling for.0 -
Now that I've completely destroyed the thread with my screwed up quotes.
Scottie, there is no reason to apologize.
The way our society views sex (especially regarding women) is pretty shameful and it's just something I'm passionate about so sometimes I get all worked up. That's on me, not anyone else 0 -
Now that I've completely destroyed the thread with my screwed up quotes.
Scottie, there is no reason to apologize.
The way our society views sex (especially regarding women) is pretty shameful and it's just something I'm passionate about so sometimes I get all worked up. That's on me, not anyone else
I agree.. the women gets labeled as a wh00re and the guy gets labeled as being a dude.
double standard0 -
There are 3 and I reported the glitch. They are working on it.
Oh and Scottie came back and apologized in the other 2 rolls :flowerforyou:0 -
OMG more?
because the first were just NOT enough.
my day is complete- I can go home.
I'm skipping my workout- it just cant' get any better.0 -
OKAY...is THIS the end of the thread? is this where I post.
KUDOS to SCOTTY for taking on all that.
You know you had my support and I'm so sorry that everyone got on you like that/
DOUBLE KUDOS to SCOTTY for having an awesome date and describing the fashion to a T! fave
TRIPLE KUDOS to SCOTTY for the date going well and him recognizing a nice girl when he sees it.
QUADRUPLE KUDOS to SCOTTY for being a big enough person to rethink a disagreement with EVERYONE and doing some thinking on it and coming back with conclusions that are self reflective and learney. <===not a word, IDC.
UN-KUDOS to the universe for this insane thread split(s)?. I don't even know what happened here but am suspicious the mod presence may be responsible. Resident mod can you comment on this. At least to tell me I'm posting in the most recent thread or the one that will be read?
It was so sad when Scotty posted his paradigm shift or mea culpa's and I thought no one could see it.0 -
wait....
there's more...
how.....
why...0
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