bfs who hit on your younger sister

OP, your bf is obviously trying to setup a threesome, how can you not see it?! He'll probably take crappy cell phone video of the act, too, send it to all his buddies to show off.

I like your bf, he's sounds awesome. I'd like to buy him a beer.

I will treat him to an open bar.

Because yah for incest!

Seriously, am I the only one who finds the idea of having a threesome involving two sisters at the same time just plain wrong?

Seriously?

my buddy did it with two twins..

..but yeah I can share your sediment here.

Dude, I don't let just anyone share my sediment you know...

Lucky for you Pops.. I'm the last thing from an 'anyone'.

Thanks for the Public Service Announcement grasshopper.

Now.

Time to ride.

Woo hooooooo.

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You are right of course. Context and information are needed to make an accurate assessment, no doubt. It may in fact be an innocent scenario.

That said there is seemingly a clear power imbalance her given the ages of the man in question and the two ladies involved. Of course he may be a little immature and they may be mature for their ages. In this kind of scenario however, on the face of it, the older person being the one who presumably holds more of the power should be acting with some increased degree of responsibility. As such I think the boyfriend should make some allowances for his girlfriend's age and step up and make this clear to her and it seems he has not.

Asking the OP to change, make allowances or make it good is the wrong starting point here in my view.

My gut feeling is this guy is still a knob though...

He may well be a knob - let's be honest, lots of us are. I'm suggesting that EVERYONE ELSE ONLINE maybe stop for a sec and realise that we all know basically nothing about the scenario before deciding best how it should be handled.
As I said though, this one has maybe touched a nerve for me, because remarks have been made before in real life regarding my own unconventional ( purely for want of a better word ) friendship and it's not easy.

I get what you are saying about feeling unfairly judged for the unconventional friendship you have with the young lady that you are in contact with, but from my perspective OP's situation seems to have little in common with yours. They are two totally different scenarios and i don't really see the connection other than the age factor.

The information that we were presented with is that the BF cracks jokes about trading in the OP for "a younger model", and he makes comments about her younger sister now being "legal" at the same time that he suddenly started snap chatting with the sister. I think most people would agree that OP's BF is crossing the line.

What exactly is going on? We can only speculate---

Perhaps he is a total skeezer who has intentions towards the younger sister and has the nerve to throw it in OP's face,...
Or he might not be trying to nail the little sister but he IS intentionally trying to cause OP pain and is delighting in watching her squirm like a worm on a hook.....
Then again, perhaps it is all "innocent" and he is just a dense knob who is unaware how inappropriate most non-creepy people would find his actions and also did not realize how his behavior would make the OP feel

---but.my gut tells me that only someone who is a creep on some level would act this way.

the only crime here is that my sister is going to steal my bf.

...and that your boyfriend appears to be unfaithful.

How is that?

I more meant he's apparently headed in that direction according to what OP has said

Hey guys I just wanted to give an update. I talked to my bf today and he said he's in no way interested in my sister as her thigh gap isn't wide enough so I have nothing to worry about. So I'm very relieved! Thanks for all your help!!!

Hey guys I just wanted to give an update. I talked to my bf today and he said he's in no way interested in my sister as her thigh gap isn't wide enough so I have nothing to worry about. So I'm very relieved! Thanks for all your help!!!