Is it norm to watch porn?

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  • nakabi
    nakabi Posts: 589 Member
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    how do these types of messages get on the forum? I would say that it isn't... but then again i don't watch it so i couldn't tell you very much about it

    This. Neither my husband nor I watch it. And yes, I know he doesn't because we have the kind of open relationship. I think it's great that neither one of us have to be tempted by someone other than each other. That doesn't mean that we don't see people whom we think are attractive, but we respect each other and the marriage vows we made.
  • helenarriaza
    helenarriaza Posts: 519 Member
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    I prefer lesbian porn.

    Same here. However, I prefer to date men. I am a complicated girl. :smile:

    I, too, prefer the lesbian variety. :tongue:

    I'm gay and I don't like lesbian porn. Too fake.
  • Miska_
    Miska_ Posts: 84
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    Who doesn't?
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,642 Member
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    per capita, Utah is porn's #1 consumer...
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,470 Member
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    I prefer lesbian porn.

    Same here. However, I prefer to date men. I am a complicated girl. :smile:

    I consider myself a physical lesbian. I find women more attractive than men, but the emotional attachment is always with men.

    I am the same way! :love:
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,470 Member
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    I prefer lesbian porn.

    Same here. However, I prefer to date men. I am a complicated girl. :smile:

    I, too, prefer the lesbian variety. :tongue:

    I'm gay and I don't like lesbian porn. Too fake.

    I've heard that before.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    I am morally opposed to it because of how disrespectful it is to men.
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,642 Member
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    I am morally opposed to it because of how disrespectful it is to men.

    pours one out for soldiers who died in vain...
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,820 Member
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    Watching it at home alone or with your partner/giant love doll? Yes.

    Watching it in a crowded shopping mall with a mannequin from The Gap? No.

    wait, wait, are you SURE about this?
    McCoy_ISWYDT.gif

    I'm sure now. Stupid mall cops.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,780 Member
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    how do these types of messages get on the forum? I would say that it isn't... but then again i don't watch it so i couldn't tell you very much about it

    This. Neither my husband nor I watch it. And yes, I know he doesn't because we have the kind of open relationship. I think it's great that neither one of us have to be tempted by someone other than each other. That doesn't mean that we don't see people whom we think are attractive, but we respect each other and the marriage vows we made.

    i don't know if I see the connection between watching porn and not respecting my wife and my marriage vows. Please explain further how I don't respect her.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    It's not disrespectful to your wife, but rather yourself.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,780 Member
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    It's not disrespectful to your wife, but rather yourself.

    oh, well that's no big deal. I am disrespectful to myself all the time.

    thank you.
  • KseRz
    KseRz Posts: 980 Member
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    I'm having a discussion with some girl friends, one who recently found out her DH watched porn when she was out of town.

    First of all, do you think it's normal, healthy s-xual behavior to watch porn?

    What about for a married person (without the spouse's presence)?

    If you found out your spouse was watching porn without you, what would you do?

    Yeah. Thats right. He only watches it.....when shes out of town. Mhmmm

    True Story.
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,742 Member
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    As long as it's not getting in the way of your normal intimate life, I'd say,


    WATCH ALL TEH PR0NS!


    haha.

    Agreed!
  • AsaThorsWoman
    AsaThorsWoman Posts: 2,303 Member
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    Also, with the awesome new cell phone technology you can send material via text in just seconds!

    She can send him some photos.
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
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    Watching porn and fantasizing about it just shows you have no morals.
    You're supposed to just use your imagination when a hottie walks by!
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
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    I don't know that it's "normal" like everyone should do it, or everyone does do it, but there's certainly nothing wrong with it.

    Same answer applies for a married person.

    Nothing. I know he does. I'm not there. It's not like he's using it as a substitute for me.
  • KseRz
    KseRz Posts: 980 Member
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    I am morally opposed to it because of how disrespectful it is to men.

    I completely agree. Its extremely misogynistic.

    Also, all this talk in the media about equal work for equal pay? The disparity in income is completely humiliating.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    Pornography creates a false ideal that can impact men psychologically and, by proxy, physiologically. It creates a feeling of extreme inadequacy due to all of the male actors having giant members, which only a small portion of the male population possess, and the extreme intensity and length of duration that the actors seem to be able to achieve. And it also teaches men to be poor lovers by rushing things, paying little attention to oral copulation, assuming every girl is always ready for backdoor, etc.

    Men are essentially portrayed as a giant penis with legs, giving the impression that they dont matter and are only good for the pleasure of the female gender.
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