Sexual Question...

The relationship I am currently in is pretty much just for sex and he does not give oral and has an average sized tool. I don't mind the average size, but as he won't give me what I give him, I'm looking for someone new. If the relationship is only for sex, well, if it doesn't satisfy me, it's a done deal.

Now if I'm in a relationship that means more than that it's a different story, but that will not happen again.

Both.

you said you would love me regardless?

Crap, I thought you said you'd be working and too busy for MFP today.

I've been married to an asshat for 10 years who has only given me oral maybe 4 times... have i mentioned.. homicide? Ok maybe not homicide... but seriously, no oral? You gotta go!!! And I hope you step on a lego on your way out the door..

I'm not bitter at all though!

Okay, the stepping on the lego part is a little harsh.

I think the most important thing is pleasing your partner-if you can do it with an average size penis then great! I wouldnt dump someone based on their size but whether or not they could get the job done would be a factor.

if he's not even going to try going down there, well that's a problem. average size weiner, that is a stupid reason to dump someone.

and those women who don't like oral, they probably just never had someone do it right. just my opinion.

If a man can't or won't get the job done properly but everything else in the relationship is good, I'm not dumping him.

Sounds like denial to me. How can everything else in the relationship be good if he can't or won't get the job done in the bedroom? I don't even want to hear that in a romantic, adult relationship, an unsatisfying sex life doesn't affect anything else. I don't buy it.

who the shtt does not give oral though? what kind of beige hell are they from

This is one of the best things I've read all day.

I dated a man with an average sized penis who did not perform oral. We were together for several years because surprisingly enough our sex life was still satisfactory and obviously other areas of the relationship were good.

Ok Ladies I want your opinion....
Who would you dump, a guy with and average sized penis or a guy that said he would never give you oral? Basically, what's more important? I have met some women who do not enjoy oral. So, let's get your opinions.

Neither of those things are important enough for some to get dumped over. If someone was to dump a guy over either of those reasons, then as people have mentioned, they didn't deserve to be in a relationship anyways.

What a stupid question.

Assuming most guys have an averaged sized ****.... that hardly seems like a reason to dump someone. I would dump a guy over a moster **** over an average one.

Average being.....well, the average, means about 49.9% of all men are below average. At least that's what I tell myself when I'm crying into my pillow.

Hey if you small and know how to work it thats way better then having an average size and not knowing what to do with it!

Do you even Vagina?

I really don't care about getting it, but if I can't fit it in my mouth, that causes a problem. Nawmsayin'?

For me, the issue is not size, it's enthusiasm, creativity, style and attitude. If you don't "do" oral then you'd better be FANTASTIC at other stuff, and VERY enthusiastic.

I completely agree!

if he's not even going to try going down there, well that's a problem. average size weiner, that is a stupid reason to dump someone.

and those women who don't like oral, they probably just never had someone do it right. just my opinion.

I find most women are too self conscious to actually like oral.

In.



And I'm sorry to hear about your average sized penis.

DONT YOU DARE SHAME MY DISABILITY

I've already explained... if insurance won't help paying for the surgery, it's NOT a disability.

I didn't read all of the responses...but my opinion-

Never's not a very nice word... especially when it comes to your partner's pleasure and enjoyment. The close mindedness would probably be a deal breaker for me. Not because of oral specifically, just because I'm a very open, exploratory person and enjoy the same from my partner.

Also- Too big is as bad as two small(in a different way clearly), but a willingness and eagerness to please can overcome either issue. Average is not generally an issue.

May I never live to say or think "There are toys that do everything better."

If I find a man that makes me rethink that theory, I'll be sure to keep him.

Maybe you could post links to the toys?

For science?

Just google silver bullet. You're welcome.

Or pink cherry...enjoy