Is my girlfriend going to leave me?

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Escloflowne
Escloflowne Posts: 2,038 Member
edited February 27 in Chit-Chat
So my girlfriend started a new job a couple weeks ago, her boss is an ex boyfriend and apparently one of her coworkers is "asking about her". Am I in trouble? She's attractive, fit and dresses nice. I'm more of a tshirt and shorts type of guy, will this relationship last?

Apparently the guy asking about her is a vegetarian so I'm not too worried about him, a vegetarian really isn't intimidating.
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  • AmyP619
    AmyP619 Posts: 1,137 Member
    Sorry, buddy, but you're toast. It's the cold, hard truth.

    Get over it.
  • Lisa1971
    Lisa1971 Posts: 3,069 Member
    Her boss is an ex bf? OH HELL NO!!!!!!!!

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  • GorillaNJ
    GorillaNJ Posts: 4,024 Member
    Maybe he is trying to get to you through her....
  • darkguardian419
    darkguardian419 Posts: 1,302 Member
    Considering your sexual orientation, isn't the relationship more of a friendship anyway? There's only so many times you can fake it before you both need to see other men.


    ETA: "Other men" being Brett...
  • Escloflowne
    Escloflowne Posts: 2,038 Member
    Maybe he is trying to get to you through her....

    Hmm I'm not sure, he's an IT guy, I don't really like nerds!
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
    Yes
  • ALambino
    ALambino Posts: 22
    Pahaha love the comment about vegetarian not being intimidating.

    Here is a plan, if you feel she is starting to wonder, make her want you more, get in shape, get attention from the females, make her realize what she might be losing, make her remember who she is with and then her attention will be all yours buddyboy
  • Monkey_Business
    Monkey_Business Posts: 1,800 Member
    Maybe she is acting as your wingman?
  • McCluskey1128
    McCluskey1128 Posts: 88 Member
    Maybe he is trying to get to you through her....

    LOL
  • Krizzle4Rizzle
    Krizzle4Rizzle Posts: 2,704 Member
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  • Escloflowne
    Escloflowne Posts: 2,038 Member
    Pahaha love the comment about vegetarian not being intimidating.

    Here is a plan, if you feel she is starting to wonder, make her want you more, get in shape, get attention from the females, make her realize what she might be losing, make her remember who she is with and then her attention will be all yours buddyboy

    That sounds like a lot of effort, if she doesn't like me at my worst, she doesn't deserve me at my best!
  • dropdeadgreggie_
    dropdeadgreggie_ Posts: 166 Member
    I bet his servers never go down, but he does!
  • darrensurrey
    darrensurrey Posts: 3,942 Member
    Ah, there's the obvious - a four in a bed romp.
  • mojohowitz
    mojohowitz Posts: 900 Member
    If you are lucky.
  • darrensurrey
    darrensurrey Posts: 3,942 Member
    Pahaha love the comment about vegetarian not being intimidating.

    Here is a plan, if you feel she is starting to wonder, make her want you more, get in shape, get attention from the females, make her realize what she might be losing, make her remember who she is with and then her attention will be all yours buddyboy

    That sounds like a lot of effort, if she doesn't like me at my worst, she doesn't deserve me at my best!

    :D Is that the first time a bloke's ever used that line?
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  • thebigcb
    thebigcb Posts: 2,210 Member
    How much of an EX is her boss? And what is her current roll
  • fatcity66
    fatcity66 Posts: 1,544 Member

    Apparently the guy asking about her is a vegetarian so I'm not too worried about him, a vegetarian really isn't intimidating.

    LMFAO Wow, the threads this morning are GOLD!

    I dunno OP, some girls love hippie/hipster, white knight vegans, who wear flower crowns in their beards...
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    Hurry up and get married...then you can lose your virginity.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    I would have left you a long time ago because a relationship with no anal isn't really a relationship at all.
    Imma go with this.
  • _Tink_
    _Tink_ Posts: 3,845 Member
    Just break up.
  • TheNewPriceIsLoading
    TheNewPriceIsLoading Posts: 2,135 Member
    If she took the job knowing her boss is an ex, yeah, it's over.
  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
    Pahaha love the comment about vegetarian not being intimidating.

    Here is a plan, if you feel she is starting to wonder, make her want you more, get in shape, get attention from the females, make her realize what she might be losing, make her remember who she is with and then her attention will be all yours buddyboy

    That sounds like a lot of effort, if she doesn't like me at my worst, she doesn't deserve me at my best!

    1. I've always hated that saying...let's face, NOBODY at their worst is likeable....but some people are willing to be kind about it.
    2. Mind games...not cool. Trying to make her jealous..really not cool.

    And since I sound overly serious, I really wanna post and appropriate kitty gif here, but alas I don't know how. Anybody wanna do the honors?
  • fatcity66
    fatcity66 Posts: 1,544 Member
    I bet his servers never go down, but he does!

    :laugh: :drinker:
  • emtjmac
    emtjmac Posts: 1,320 Member
    Just break up.
  • jlout
    jlout Posts: 19 Member
    Your first question should be do I trust her???? If you do then I wouldn't worry. Also if she starts a relationship with him then you are better off without her. She doesn't deserve you.
  • TheNewPriceIsLoading
    TheNewPriceIsLoading Posts: 2,135 Member
    I bet his servers never go down, but he does!

    Well, you just love degrading people don't you? Why don't you answer his question, or don't post here at all...
  • ginakiki
    ginakiki Posts: 226 Member
    maybe she is trying to get your attention....how long have u 2 been together and how old r u two. are u guys serious?
  • George_Baileys_Ghost
    George_Baileys_Ghost Posts: 1,524 Member
    *nods* he's uploading into her wetware.
  • Bostonsoul
    Bostonsoul Posts: 151 Member
    Is this thread for real or did I walk into one of those "live theater" things I see college students do for money in the streets...?
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